Women's views on small penis men

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i encountered a micropenis in my youth and it stopped right there because i just had no idea what to do with it. there wasn't enough to penetrate even. i had less imagination in those days.
 

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I don't think there is anything at all wrong with a women dumping a guy because he has a a small penis. I mean if the sex is bad, they aren't gonna wanna stay in a relationship. However sex for every women is different. Every girl enjoys something different so while a guy might be small for one women he might be just right for the other. Every girl wants something different and if she can't be pleased by a guy with a small dick then why keep the relationship going? Sex is a big part of any relationship whether we want to admit it or not. Would a guy continue a relationship with a girl if she is boring in bed? I don't think so.
 

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Bad sex is bad regardless of the guys size, some positions are difficult with a big guy or a smaller guy, what I have found and this is my own opinion is that the smaller guys, know they are not as well endowed as some of the porn they watch, so do make up for it in other ways, conversely some well endowed guys seem to think that their size can make up for been lousy lovers.

Oh and on another note.... I sometimes enjoy a nice sweet lamb cutlet, and other days like to rip apart a t-bone, depends on my mood!

What I do like though is a nice personality, good looks, a well endowed wallet, someone less than 200lbs

but....that's me!
 

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if any aspect of a relationship isn't working out, and there's nothing you can do to fix it, why stick around? if you can deal with a smaller penis, or the guy knows how to use it well or makes up for it elsewhere, then stick with him. if it's not working for you, call it a day and move on so you BOTH can find someone you'll be happier with. people make themselves miserable just to be with someone. but if that person is worth going through all that toil and worry and work and time...then they probably won't require much of it in the first place, y'know?

just find what makes you happy. if part of that is a big cock, then so be it.
 

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I'm not a woman, but nonetheless if a woman is a size queen, so be it. I've never got why it's wrong to berate women for this. I think more often than not it's small-penised guys who do this out of being made uncomfortable by size queens. :biggrin1:

Sexual compatibility is important in a relationship, even if it's not the central point of a relationship (IMO it's not). A woman who gets off most on 8" has a right, in my mind, to end a relationship with a guy who only has 4". If after discussing the issue, she cannot continue in a relationship with him, then it's her prerogative. :smile:
 

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I'm not a woman, but nonetheless if a woman is a size queen, so be it. I've never got why it's wrong to berate women for this. I think more often than not it's small-penised guys who do this out of being made uncomfortable by size queens. :biggrin1:

Sexual compatibility is important in a relationship, even if it's not the central point of a relationship (IMO it's not). A woman who gets off most on 8" has a right, in my mind, to end a relationship with a guy who only has 4". If after discussing the issue, she cannot continue in a relationship with him, then it's her prerogative. :smile:

Very well said--I dont think its shallow at all. You have to happy with the person youre going to be with and physical attraction is just one aspect of it all. Sexual imcomapitiblity has ruined many marriages so there is no point starting out in one if you think it will be a problem down the road.

My size wasnt really a problem for me and my wife early on--but quite a few years ago we both realiazed that it was and she wasnt enjoying her self. She had the opportunity to screw around with a much bigger guy and loved. So instead of ending the relationship (which was all good otherwise) we bring other guys into it sexually for her sake. I have really learned to enjoy being with them and enjoy seeing her being fulfilled.
 

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The first time it happened I wanted to die! I had a crush on my distance cousin who was my granny's first husband's 3rd wife's youngest son (my mom's stepbrother & 2nd cousin...seriously). He was 6'7", blue eyes, sexy as hell. As soon as I became legal I blew his phone up. I knew he didn't like me like that (at the time he was suppporting his gf in RN school fulltime) but I just had to have it. Y'all when I saw how little and skinny that dick was I wanted to demand a refund (I paid for the motel like an idiot + it wouldn't stay hard). Of course I faked it to be kind but I was MAD AS HELL!! You know I had to tell the family! My mom & her sister laughed at me. I felt like such a fool. So now the fam thinks his GF is nothing but a golddigger.
 

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At least you played along and didnt make him feel like sh**. Ive been in the situation where I have hooked with a woman at a bar and gone home with her for some fun. More than a few of them have actually laughed when they pulled my pnats off and saw how small mine is.One of them even continued to laugh while she gave me a bj. In her defense we were both a bit drunk but she just kept laughing and making comments aobut it while she sucked it. Kind of funny though.
 

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It's happened to me twice.

First time I was very young and new to the sex game. I was nice about it and gave him a mercy fuck. Gave a fair acting job too. A few days later I gave him my best "lets just be friends" speech. He was one of the good ones. If he wasn't I would have just cheated on him, but he was a good friend before and still is.

Second time I was not so nice. He had bragged about his giant cock to me telling me how he would fuck me. When I got his pants off he had about 4 inches at full erection. I jerked his pants back up then back down. He asked what I was doing and I told him "No no no no.... where is the rest of it?" I work hard on this body and it deserves a real dick not a little prick.
 

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It's happened to me twice.

First time I was very young and new to the sex game. I was nice about it and gave him a mercy fuck. Gave a fair acting job too. A few days later I gave him my best "lets just be friends" speech. He was one of the good ones. If he wasn't I would have just cheated on him, but he was a good friend before and still is.

Second time I was not so nice. He had bragged about his giant cock to me telling me how he would fuck me. When I got his pants off he had about 4 inches at full erection. I jerked his pants back up then back down. He asked what I was doing and I told him "No no no no.... where is the rest of it?" I work hard on this body and it deserves a real dick not a little prick.

Lol that second guy got owned but had it coming for bragging. What did he do afterwards? Go home in shame? lol
 

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So what about a good looking guy who is 'average' (5.5 x 5") but eats great pussy, kisses really well, is a very attentive lover? Does he have a shot for any of you ladies on here?
 

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It's happened to me twice.

First time I was very young and new to the sex game. I was nice about it and gave him a mercy fuck. Gave a fair acting job too. A few days later I gave him my best "lets just be friends" speech. He was one of the good ones. If he wasn't I would have just cheated on him, but he was a good friend before and still is.

Second time I was not so nice. He had bragged about his giant cock to me telling me how he would fuck me. When I got his pants off he had about 4 inches at full erection. I jerked his pants back up then back down. He asked what I was doing and I told him "No no no no.... where is the rest of it?" I work hard on this body and it deserves a real dick not a little prick.

Good for you--glad you put him in his place. Personally if that were me (well I never would have bragged about being huge in the first place) but you would have turned me on even more commenting like that. lol
 

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Lol that second guy got owned but had it coming for bragging. What did he do afterwards? Go home in shame? lol

He just stood there looking stupid so I pushed him out of my place with his pants around his ankles then went to my bedroom and got out my toys ;)

Good for you--glad you put him in his place. Personally if that were me (well I never would have bragged about being huge in the first place) but you would have turned me on even more commenting like that. lol

lol You are one of those that likes to be treated like a man-whore aren't you?
 

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He just stood there looking stupid so I pushed him out of my place with his pants around his ankles then went to my bedroom and got out my toys ;)



lol You are one of those that likes to be treated like a man-whore aren't you?

Yes I guess I am.
 

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yeah, it's best to use some tact and grace if he's a nice guy...let him down easy. hell, i'd say still give him a try, he might surprise you! but if he's bragging a big game, being an arrogant asshole and all that, and DOESN'T have the goods to back it up? i say you have free permission to point, laugh, take a pic, do a blog, write a letter to the editor of your local paper...not only is that hilarious, you're also doing a public service. ;)
 

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i think its just rude when i hear about a guy getting pantesed or something and all the girls laugh and point and say "its tiny."