Wonderful man,huge penis,--Last word

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by sexialexia, Oct 21, 2005.

  1. sexialexia

    sexialexia New Member

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    Several members sent messages asking the obvious question that Dorset raised when he replied to my Oct. 18th post "Huge penis on wonderful man". There were probably others who wondered about the same thing. First, there is no way that anyone could mistake the bulge in my boyfriend's pants for an erection. I'll explain in a moment. Dorset also asked,"Why doesn't he wear boxer shorts and loose pants?" I offer some background information. An old black and white photo in his family album shows that he had a thick penis about 4 in. long, maybe a bit more, at age 6. (The Discovery Channel aired a program on precocious sexual development in very young children. A 2 yr. old boy was shown with adult genital growth and thick pubic hair). My boyfriend doesn't remember whether he was that bad. But he was very active sexually before starting high school. However, by his second year, he had grown to such an extent that no one would go near him. A girl who had asked him out found that he was too thick to enter her. She spread the story around the school that a girl would have to have a cow's vagina to take him on. From that day, he withdrew into a shell. The boys bullied and ridiculed him. (He was smaller than his present 5 ft. 6in. and 123 lbs.) The girls shunned him. By the time he met his wife at age 21, he was wearing extremely tight briefs and pants several sizes too large. When he and his wife went to a specialist to inquire about a reduction, the doctor noticed what he was wearing and told him that very tight briefs worn over a long time could cause testicular cancer. As for the loose pants, his wife told him to dress neatly and fashionably and show pride in his appearance or she wouldn't go out with him. She told him that people who rejected him because of his unusual body weren't worth having as friends. Loose pants look terrible on him because he's so skinny. Naturally he never wears anything tight. Boxer shorts are out because of his size. His soft penis is freakishly large and hangs out the bottom,--which looks ridiculous. It is so thick that it takes up most of the remaining space in his pant leg, and is instantly noticeable. Tucking his penis under him in briefs doesn't work because he is then sitting on it, and it makes a lump in the seat of his pants. So he places it straight out to the side and doubles it back. This is what people stare at. I've convinced him to not always wear black and other dark colours. He's entitled to variety. He has his jackets made a little longer and he has long sweaters and shirts he can wear when he feels like being invisible. Thank you for your kind words, suggestions and encouragement. We all have to be grateful that the concerned and caring people still outnumber the jerks in this world. Alexia
     
  2. Lordpendragon

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    Sadly, societies impose parametres, and if you fall outside these, most people are conditioned (and not clever enough) to distrust and shun the unusual.

    Whereas, embracing the unusual, rather than gawping at it like some Victorian freak show, is liberating to the mind and soul.

    Men will react as they do, I have experienced similar in male only spas in the Far East - looks of utter hatred verging on the murderous, but then I have also heard the bitch knives out for beautiful women.

    My advice (and easier said than done) is to be yourself and let others deal with their problems about it. Shame those Arabian pants where the crotch comes down to the knees aren't in fashion.
     
  3. SUMYUNGUY

    SUMYUNGUY New Member

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    He could always wear a kilt.
     
  4. thirteenbyseven

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    Alexia, thank you for your second post. I'm one of the several lpsg.org members who sent you suggestions. Granted I'm 6' 5" and not 5' 6" but for me tight boxer briefs and folding my penis straight down and underneath has always worked for me. Your doctors warning about testicular cancer is not all that heart soothing, but as far as diminishing the bulge factor it works. When I am flaccid, mine is simply very long but it isn't massively wide like your man's (and some others on this board like BigBen) but I would think the "fold under" method, while not comfortable, is the best option.

    For inconspicuous concealment, my method certainly beats tossing it over one's shoulder.
     
  5. sexialexia

    sexialexia New Member

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    You're a keen observer of the human comedy. What a wonderful way you have with words. Cheers,--Alexia
     
  6. jeo7300

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    i think you made up that story.
     
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