So I met this new chick a couple weeks ago. When, where, and how isn't really important. She did just move into my state a few months ago. She goes to church a couple times a week. Doesn't drink. Works a lot. Works out at the gym every morning just about. Single. Living on her own.
Besides the Single, working a lot, and living alone, we basically have not a whole lot in common from what I can tell, but just the fact that I met and talked to a girl that is completely opposite from what I am used to (Non church go er, party girls, live off parents, don't like to work, don't like to work out ect.) kind of turns me on. She is def. beautiful, smart, knows what she wants...........
So anyways the day I met her I asked her if she would like to go grab a bite to eat or something (which is not me, I am pretty reserved and get women when they come on to me, I can't ever remember pursuing a girl, they just naturally come after me). She stated she had plans but gave me her number at which time I called it so she had my number. Later on that night she messaged me saying her plans fell threw and that maybe we should get together the next night....I was excited to say the least. So she met me after work at a local joint that is kind of casual and has a variety of foods from steaks, seafood, salads ect. We sat and had dinner and talked the whole time. after the food was gone we continued to talk. We basically sat there for 2 and a half hours talking about random stuff. I asked her if she had any movies she was wanted to see. She told me it was getting late, that she lived about 35/40 minutes away and had church in the morning. I said cool, I paid, we walked out, and we parted ways. A few days went by and I realized she told me she was off one day out of the week so I called her, she picked up and we chit chatted and I told her I was interested in getting back together with her and if she was in town around lunch time to give me a ring and we could maybe meet up for lunch. She said will do, called me the next day and told me she had stuff to do. I said thats cool and I told her about some MMA fights going on during the weekend and asked if she would be interested in going. She was excited said yes. A few days go by and don't hear from her. Sat. I text her and ask if she was still down...........no response till Sun. she text and stated she dropped her phone in the toilet. I was like dang, that sucks. Didn't get a response back. I sent her another message and said something like, I enjoyed dinner with you and think you are a good person, that I would like to get to know her more, hit me up anytime. She responded, cool will do. So then I didn't here from her for a week and a half. Normally I was thinking of her because like I said she is different. Searched for her on myspace, found her, sent a friend request which she accepted. She hasn't messaged or called in two days since the friend request was accepted.
So basically this chick looks good and has a good heart but kind of getting the hint that she isn't interested................am I right? Wrong?
I'm just wondering, I want to call or write her but like I said get the idea she isn't interested. What should I do? Besides going out to eat, having some drinks (which she doesn't do) seeing a movie, not really sure what a good girl like herself would enjoy doing. Never been in this situation where I was actually interested in hooking up with someone with a honestly good head on there shoulders.
Somebody help before I mess this up (more?)
Besides the Single, working a lot, and living alone, we basically have not a whole lot in common from what I can tell, but just the fact that I met and talked to a girl that is completely opposite from what I am used to (Non church go er, party girls, live off parents, don't like to work, don't like to work out ect.) kind of turns me on. She is def. beautiful, smart, knows what she wants...........
So anyways the day I met her I asked her if she would like to go grab a bite to eat or something (which is not me, I am pretty reserved and get women when they come on to me, I can't ever remember pursuing a girl, they just naturally come after me). She stated she had plans but gave me her number at which time I called it so she had my number. Later on that night she messaged me saying her plans fell threw and that maybe we should get together the next night....I was excited to say the least. So she met me after work at a local joint that is kind of casual and has a variety of foods from steaks, seafood, salads ect. We sat and had dinner and talked the whole time. after the food was gone we continued to talk. We basically sat there for 2 and a half hours talking about random stuff. I asked her if she had any movies she was wanted to see. She told me it was getting late, that she lived about 35/40 minutes away and had church in the morning. I said cool, I paid, we walked out, and we parted ways. A few days went by and I realized she told me she was off one day out of the week so I called her, she picked up and we chit chatted and I told her I was interested in getting back together with her and if she was in town around lunch time to give me a ring and we could maybe meet up for lunch. She said will do, called me the next day and told me she had stuff to do. I said thats cool and I told her about some MMA fights going on during the weekend and asked if she would be interested in going. She was excited said yes. A few days go by and don't hear from her. Sat. I text her and ask if she was still down...........no response till Sun. she text and stated she dropped her phone in the toilet. I was like dang, that sucks. Didn't get a response back. I sent her another message and said something like, I enjoyed dinner with you and think you are a good person, that I would like to get to know her more, hit me up anytime. She responded, cool will do. So then I didn't here from her for a week and a half. Normally I was thinking of her because like I said she is different. Searched for her on myspace, found her, sent a friend request which she accepted. She hasn't messaged or called in two days since the friend request was accepted.
So basically this chick looks good and has a good heart but kind of getting the hint that she isn't interested................am I right? Wrong?
I'm just wondering, I want to call or write her but like I said get the idea she isn't interested. What should I do? Besides going out to eat, having some drinks (which she doesn't do) seeing a movie, not really sure what a good girl like herself would enjoy doing. Never been in this situation where I was actually interested in hooking up with someone with a honestly good head on there shoulders.
Somebody help before I mess this up (more?)