I have a friend that I've known for many years. He's gay, and in the closet. He has convinced himself that deep down inside I want to have sex with him, but it's not true. I've told him several times in no uncertains terms that sex btw us will never happen and we will never be anything more than just friends. The sad part is, he refuses to believe it. Have any of you had a similar experience? How did you handle it?