Work as an Escort or "Call Boy"?

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I think it would depend on the individual and their boundaries. And yes, some people do it for the wrong reasons or for desperation (to feed an addiction). But if I was 21 and had student loan debt and a 9 inch cock, I'd be thinking about it.

OH - there does seem to be a market for straight male escorts, but it's almost completely very VERY affluent women, and they tend to go for very muscular and very exotic men. Think Madonna and her flock of young Latino men.[/QUOTE]


i'm ten inches and would love to work with upscale women. i'm just a plain white guy though :(
 
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When I was 19 and living on my own I was short on rent so I answered an ad for a guy that wanted to take pics of naked guys. Met him at a motel nearby and he tooks pics of me in all sorts of positions and jerking off, and then he blew me. Easy $100! So I decided to try actual escorting and answered an ad for a guy that was looking for boys for his "friends". Went to his place where he checked out my naked body, took some pics to show clients and had me blow him to make sure I was for competent. He actually gave me a few pointers on it.

After that he sent me out on some calls which went pretty well. Since I knew I'd be getting fucked and I was a virgin then, I went on my own and found someone to bust my cherry in advance, so the second time I got fucked was by a client and I could handle it. I did it a few times as needed and overall it wasn't a bad experience. And honestly, I kinda got off on the whole idea of being paid for. It was an ego boost of sorts. Anyway once I got a good paying job I stopped doing it. Just as well too as this was when the AIDS epidemic was ramping up and we didn't use condoms. Anyway that's my story.
 
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Great thread, fascinating to read all the candid stories here.

The *idea* of being an escort or call boy - or doing porn - always somewhat appealed to me, but I figured a big problem would be how to be selective with clients without pissing off people who you didn't "select." I agree with some previous comments, I assume that even with Viagra it would be difficult for me to get really into any sex acts with someone who was actively unattractive to me. I mean, I'd be so nervous the whole time about performance anxiety and not giving the "client" what they want that I'd psych myself out and probably fail.

Two different times - a bunch of years ago now - I posed for some naked shots with photographers who were looking to fill up their portfolio, or some excuse like that. One was a creepy old dude and that one didn't go so well since I wasn't sexually aroused AT ALL...he didn't try anything though. The other shoot worked out OK I guess, but I never got copies of the pictures. No money changed hands either way either time.

At this point in my life I have a stable job and an active life, so I wouldn't have a lot of time to give over to "the business" and I think what someone said earlier is true, either you go all in or you don't. Someone I know has a really good friend who went all in and is now a porn star and escort, married to a porn star and escort. More power to him, he seems to be doing well right now...unclear to me how he will retire someday, or have health care coverage in his old age, or so on.

As I have never been into drugs or been seriously in debt trouble I never felt I "needed" the extra ca$h that escorting could provide. At this point I'm not sure how I would get started in the business, especially since so much sex is available for free these days on craigslist etc. Why *would* anyone pay these days? And, as others have said, I do bottom occasionally but would not in any way bottom if I were in this business, so I'd be a top for guys only, and though I am fit enough and have a nice enough cock there are *much* fitter guys with *much* nicer cocks out there, so what would be the "value added" with me?

If I had put this much thought into it, or had more self confidence, when I was between 20 and 25 I might have actually tried it. But then, during some of those years I weighed 60 pounds more than I do now so that probably wouldn't have worked out, either.

I may yet someday learn about massage, and get into the erotic massage idea. But for the "work as an escort" question? I would think about doing it, as a top, with guys, but not at this point in my life.
 

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Big D how does your friend "escort"? again, i'm confused about this. i mean, if you're gay, then i'm sure you can work 6 days till sunday... i'm sure there is an endless amount of websites and work for a guy to hook up with closeted gay dudes, etc.

BUT i have no interest in that. i'm curious, how does a hetero man escort? are there websites for it?

even with the cache of mainstream shows like HUNG as a guy with a huge cock, and some girlfriends who know about me, they still ALL want relationships. the thought of any of them paying for it, is absolutely insane. women just don't put a priority on sex like men do. or maybe i have not been out looking enough.

i hope someone can offer a counter point of view on this and correct me. but this has been my experience.
 

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thechuck, my friend's friend is gay - he's married to a guy. I maybe should have clarified that lol. As a person who is not that plugged in to the sexual mores of the straight world, I can't really offer any insight into that.

Other than, I reiterate and agree with you - there are SO MANY ways for straights and gays to find sex for free out there now...why would anyone pay? And yet, people make a living at it.
 

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I will admit to what I only came to appreciate too late in my sexual career, and that is the fact that I love to eat pussy! It doesn't make any difference the age, size, color, or anything else, just as long as she is clean and disease-free.

So, I missed-out on a life-long career as a professional pussy-eater! I don't know if there would have been much money to be made, but I have to believe that there are thousands of women out there, mostly married, who have never had their pussies eaten by a guy who was really into it.

The ideas situation would be for the lady to get naked and arrange herself on the bed with her legs apart, then let me kneel there and do whatever it took to bring her to orgasm. The few times that I have experienced it, I love to have a woman cum "in my mouth" and the women have admitted that the orgasms are much more intense and long-lasting when they are provided by a tongue, lips and teeth, then just merely from a hard cock thrusting in their holes!

Pussy! It's not just for fucking! It's for EATING!
 

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um nakedone and gecko, you guys aren't really contributing to the real and practical conversation that i would hope that would be had. nobody yet seems to have cited a case of a male working as a heterosexual escort.

so...

the closest thing in my mind next would be a male stripper like at chippendales or something? not sure if they still have those?

are there any male dancers out there? do you go home with women?
 

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Years ago when was 21 and moved from the Texas countryto LA right out of college, I found myself in that situation of "maybe a prostitute" by accident. I had a great job in the entertainment industry but it didn't pay well. I worked close to UCLA, which is close to Beverly Hills. By accident really, a friend an I started hanging out at a bar called Monty's in Westwood. It turns out that that's where the young men and UCLA guys would go to get picked up by older women.

I was a young buck -- fit, studly, reputation of being handsome, confident sexually adventerous -- with a thing for the older ladies and had a blast. I learned that if I went to Montys, getting laid was a sure thing and I could chose my partner. I started going by myself after work. The women were all ages, wealthy and pretty agressive. Sexual adventures would be from just cheating on a husband to bringing me home so the husband could watch, or even participate on rare occassions (I learned just how talented a couple can be if s/he appreciate a big dick.)

Eventually, I developed a relationship with some of the women who would treat me -- their boy toy -- for a fancy night out on the town. Nice dinner, play/movie, even a trip to Palm Springs or Santa Barbara. Their treat because they had the money and even though I worked my ass off at my fulltime job which barely paid enought. I was offered but refused cash (I regret that, hell, should have taken the money), but sometimes a couple of hundreds would find their way in my pants or wallet I certainly had attributes that these women were willing to pay for. There were probably about 15 regular guys like me that hung out at Montys. I grew close to some of the fellas. Some of them were hustlers and I denied I was like them, although I loved providing the same stud service.

Now that I'm in my early 40's I can look back and appreciate the courage it took for those women to pursue and seduce a younger man like me. The balls they had. They totally knew what they wanted and what they needed. They appreciated and loved having a hung young man, tight body, lots of stamina and all night potential.

While at the time, my younger buddies and roomates gave me a hard time for chosing to cruise Monty's rather than the bars with younger crowds, I knew exactly what I was doing and I kind of think they were jealous. Also there was a lot of judging going on, especially by the younger women I worked with when they learned that some of these women would take me on short trips. If they only knew what was going on behind close doors in my second life. From bondage, to husband participation, to getting just a long kick back blow job and being worshipped for a bit, I enjoyed LA. Some were kinky. I had one very attactive woman in her late 30s who loved to tie me down and edge my dick -- diving me nuts. She also loved to shave my face and trim my body hair, which was pretty tabbo in the 90s.

I moved away for gradulate school when I was 27, but had a great time for those years. Now, as a dad with kids, I have no regrets about my sex life as a man in my 20s. Although I hope those pictures and film never surface....
 
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if it was legal I would do it part time and freelance
I figure if I'm full time or work for someone else I gotta have sex with whoevers payin, but if I'm free lance and just use for extra income I can hold out for the occational attractive girl who just dosn't have time to date
also it would have to be part time cus frankly if she fucked well I'd be like ok you don't have to pay me just call when you need me
 

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Hmm.
From what I've gathered all you need is to be average to good looking, a well built body. fairly large to extraordinarily large penis. great stamina, and wood on demand to be a decent escort.

But, what of the X-factor? The ability to put her at ease, to be fun, intriguing, intellectually and physically stimulating. To be what she wants or what she didn't know she needed when you get together.

And what of the negative connotation that hiring an escort holds? Should you have to work with her perceptions of it or do you simply tell her up front and hope that what she comes up with will help her go through with the encounter.
You can bypass it all together and simply portray yourself as a gigolo and hustler who's good at keeping secrets, but, the social stigma might keep many women who would pay for a few hours of fun and pleasure/pain away.

This is all hypothetical of course.
 

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what a bunch of fools. I spent 1 week developing electronic forms that sold for $10,000 lol. so you go sell your body for a couple hundred bucks, feel shame and disgrace if anyone found out. Go figure.
 

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what a bunch of fools. I spent 1 week developing electronic forms that sold for $10,000 lol. so you go sell your body for a couple hundred bucks, feel shame and disgrace if anyone found out. Go figure.

Not everyone can be so fortunate to have the ability to make $10,000 in a week. Drop the judgmental attitude and think for a second how subjective the topic of decency is.

You find prostitution to be indecent and disgraceful. I'm sure that there are people out there who think that posting on a "BIG DICK" forum is indecent and disgraceful.

Get off your high horse and maybe think a little more next time before you post this drivel.
 

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I would love to do it. I guess I'd have to take a pill seeing as though there would probably be zero chemistry. And in the long run that's probably not good for me, seeing as though I don't really need to take the pills... But heigh ho, I'd probably charge about $250 Australian, $300 if I had to travel. I hear that's the standard rate. I think I'd probably look to charge more if I were bottoming for a guy, just because it's a more risky position to be in.
 

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Anyone know of any websites of agencies or anything tht can help me become an escort? Could really do with the money & im considering it as an option ;)

can get hard pretty quick & love sex so why not?