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I specifically want to ask gay men about how they deal with this balance in their adult lives and how they figure this difference both in themselves and whoever they're sleeping with.
Honestly it's something i struggle with, and I'm not even sure how to ask the question. of course every man is different. I've turned dudes off with an expression of affection before, other times I'm sure the dude is just wanting to get off and then he shows up needing to hold a hand, cuddle and make out. and then in relationships it's even harder to delineate. Sometimes I think I'm too affectionate and it turns off gay men, who are generally not very affectionate, at least not in adulthood. I just try to play it cool and go with the flow these days.
Honestly it's something i struggle with, and I'm not even sure how to ask the question. of course every man is different. I've turned dudes off with an expression of affection before, other times I'm sure the dude is just wanting to get off and then he shows up needing to hold a hand, cuddle and make out. and then in relationships it's even harder to delineate. Sometimes I think I'm too affectionate and it turns off gay men, who are generally not very affectionate, at least not in adulthood. I just try to play it cool and go with the flow these days.