hungjoeyshy: Hi. I'm pretty new here. I'm maybe not as big as some here, looking around at stats, but am well above average and have some issues with clothing. I'm probably a little more of a shower than a grower and hang around 5 inches. I top out at about 8.5-9 hard. What most partners have commented on though is my thickness. I've never measured that but I'm pretty thick compared to other guys I've seen. Buddies have seen me taking a piss when soft and give me a hard time about it. Anyway, whenever I work out at my health club I usually wear mesh type, long basketball shorts which are purposely baggy. Despite maybe some here, I really don't like to draw attention to myself about my size. But when I'm laying back on my back on a bench especially, doing chest exercises, I'm feel really exposed. A few times I've caught a person staring and I noticed that you could see a clear outline of my penis. I had to quickly try to pull the shorts away and kind of re-orient them. It made me really uncomfortable and was embarassing. :unsure: Sometimes I'm bigger soft than others and its worse. I'm not sure why. Any advice on this? I like doing the laying back, bench dumbell presses a lot more than the upright pressing machines and I don't want to alter my routine. Maybe this is a stupid question. Anyone experienced this? Different underwear maybe? Thanks. Also any tips on types of swim trunks, those are a nightmare for me and I usually avoid swimming because of it. Especially if there's women around. Thanks.