First of all im going to state that you will find a lot of size queens here. You will also find ladies like myself who are with a larger man and thats how we stumbled upon LPSG. Most women i will be referring to are the average, meaning they arent size queens or built very small vaginally like myself (and Snoozan- sorry gal i had to bring your vaggie into this). I see tons of posts about men worrying their girth isnt enough to please every woman. It makes me feel bad for them because they are likely enough to satisfy most women and a few could satisfy a size queen even. But in their mind, compared to many female preferences and other mens sizes, they feel inadequate. I've been a sex toy buyer since i was 17 and i've seen a lot of vibrators and dildos in my search for the ideal sex toy to hide ever-so-cleverly in my sock drawer. The truth about what most women are happy with is on the shelves of a sex toy store in the dildo section. If you read the post several days ago about the girth of our vibrators, almost everyone of our vibrators were under 5 inches in girth. That says a lot about what is comfortable inside our vaginas. I'd venture to guess that around 90% of the vibes hanging on the wall are 5 inches and under in girth. The most expensive vibrators, you know the ones with the bells and whistles and it washes your car too kind? They are often very average in size. Most straight men love breasts, if you ask them which breast size they'd pick if they could pick...they'd say C. 34C is the most common bra size in the US and they find that to be quite satisfying to their hands and mouth. But does that mean a woman who has everything they like physical and emotionally wouldnt be just as satisfying at a 34B than a 34C? Absolutely not. They would be just as happy with a 34B if they are attracted to the woman attached to those breasts. Women are no different. What you say you prefer and what you might be entirely pleased with are different. So men, think about how sex toy manufacturers are more in tune with what most women want when it comes to sex toy size. They do tons of sex research and marketing experiments before ever releasing a toy onto the shelves of our local sex stores. They know the average vagina's need for girth. Once again, let me add this excludes size queens from this average. So what if a guy isnt as girthy as our ex boyfriend, chances are if he has everything else going for him, he's going to make us very happy. After all, if girth is all we cared about- wouldnt we still be with that ex-boyfriend??