Right quick background with questions thrown in - My penis, when erect (measured along the top, with no pushing in) is 7 inches long, and 6 inches around in the middle. For some reason - 2 different groups of friends always tell anyone I meet that I have a big penis. I can't remember how it started. It winds me up because I don't class it as big, and when someone ( a girl especially ) meets a guy with a "big penis" and it isn't Donkey Kongs, I reckon its a disappointment. Anyway anyway every girl I have ever slept with has said its "The biggest they have ever seen". Now I'm not naieve and girls say this to every guy am I right? Well now 2 or 3 of them it may have been true, but the rest weren't all that genuine/ Regardless they all enjoyed it, and they werre very happy. Now I am moving away from a 5 year marriage. Divorce went through. She cheated on me so maybe that shattered my ego a little, but I keep a confident front I think that is vital. I have met and fallen in love with the most beautiful girl. We both agree we are soulmates and our sex is fantastic. She multiple orgasms and everything. I cum 3 or 4 times a day with her and I've never been like that. Now here is the grating in my head. She, many many years ago whilst I was still married, slept with one of my friends. As usual when meeting this girl, I was introduced as a man with a big cock. She told me she prefers that as she gets very wet and some smaller men have not satisfied her. Now after our first time together she said I was "the biggest ever". I called bullshit but she insisted it was true although there "was one other that was quite big". Now I think she is just playing along and it makes me :frown1: that I am not her biggest and that one day she will be bored with my tiny offering. My friend is a lot skinnier than me and she admitted the other day that he was "bigger than average, but not as big as you". So it could be that his appears bigger but is similar or something. Now I am finding it really hard to stomach, and I can't talk to her about it as she thinks I am a confident person and this would ruin our otherwise incredible relationship over me being silly. At the same time I wonder if hounding her into admitting it all would make me feel better and let me get on with things. NO that wouldn't work. Please help me get my head around this! I'm being crazy. I feel like crying its pathetic.