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To parley the fame of the "Best reaction to your cock the first time" thread, I'd like to hear of any not-so-good reactions you've gotten. I would like to hear from both big and small. It'll help my ego a bit to hear from guys who have been turned down from being too big, and also from being too small. I've told my story here before, but I'll start out.

In one bar in Singapore a girl asked if she could give me head on the roof, which served as a pretty cool gathering area. I said yes and we went there and she squatted down and sucked for a minute and then said "I want to go back downstairs." When we got there she said something like "I'm looking for something different." At the time I was pretty young so it didn't affect me too much, and I didn't feel like I was small. I just didn't know what to think. Now, the whole experience haunts me. It might have nothing to do with penis size, though that would be a stretch.

Another time in another bar a girl asks the same thing and then goes down and a minute later comes down and tells me "I can't accommodate you." Again, being dumb, I didn't ask "do you mean I'm too big for you or too small?" She was a very petite Filipina girl so maybe it was true, but I doubt it. No score.

***Off topic***

Another time as soon as I took my dick out this girl says "oh, big dick." The way she said it though, like, a millisecond after I exposed myself, leads me to believe that this girl says this every time just to head off "what do you think of my dick" talk. Don't know.

One other time after having sex I'm standing naked by a girl who is laying down and she is looking at my dick and says "dayum." Again, didn't ask her to clarify.

***on topic again***

For reference I'm exactly 6.5" (BP) by 4.7 girth. So pretty much average. I believe I'm a grower. It's a weird collection of experiences.

Anyway, would love to hear of your bad initial experiences. Sorry for my last two being off-topic.
 

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girl said str8 out i thought you would be bigger cuz you are black, hurt a small bit.

Being black and having even an average dick must be trying. I'm sure so many girls go into it imagining what it might be like and if you're "just average" they may be disappointed.
 

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Being black and having even an average dick must be trying. I'm sure so many girls go into it imagining what it might be like and if you're "just average" they may be disappointed.
o_O i'm not avg, she was just expecting some big lexing steel or mandingo.
 

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I suppose I can say that I'm lucky that I have not had any truly bad reactions to my cock. Although in my earlier years I was a bit (unnecessarily) self conscious about my lack of great reactions.

The only things that have made me sort of self conscious about my dick are the times that girls have commented on my not being circumsized as it is uncommon round these parts. However, none of these comments were insulting and no girl has said she wouldn't continue because of it. It was always just more of an amused curiosity/suprise thing

I'd like to think that I've helped other uncut guys by giving those women a positive first-experience with foreskin...:tongue::rolleyes: jk on the ego trip



For reference I'm exactly 6.5" (BP) by 4.7 girth. So pretty much average. I believe I'm a grower. It's a weird collection of experiences.

I would definitely chalk it up to a random collection of varying degrees of hardness/size on the part of your cock as it got ready for action as well the previous experiences/expectations of your ladyfriends...AKA: Random experiences with nothing too definitive to be gained. That's life, as they say

girl said str8 out i thought you would be bigger cuz you are black, hurt a small bit.

I've always thought that this stereotype, among other things, is a shitty deal in society for black guys

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BTW I just checked your pics; I strongly suspect that unless it was -20 degrees at the time, that that girl was full of shit and saying that to fuck with your head
 
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unfortunately, i've had a few poor reactions.

i'm pretty decent size, 5" - average at worst but back when my wife and i were dating, i went to visit her family and kinda hooked up with her younger sister. we were flirting and after everyone went to bed messed around.

we made and and stuff then she said i'll sneak into your room in a bit. so later she did and we fooled around some more and off came her top and off came my pants. she said she wanted to give me a BJ. she pulled it a little bit and started blowing me then started laughing and said i'm really sorry i can't do this. and said poor emmy (my wife's nickname) and took off.

she was always a slut and my wife was the prude but damn, that hurt.
 
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Yeah, I ended up getting stalked by a guy after engaging in some casual public nudity with friends and coworkers. He was an older guy and had never seen a foreskin before. He totally fetishized mine and completely creeped me out. Late-night phone calls, gifts left at the door when I was home alone, novel-length texts about what he wanted to do to me, and then angry mood swings when I told him (very politely) that I was already in a relationship.

I caught him watching me from the bushes outside after midnight.

We had to see each other the next day because of outside circumstances, so I told some people we both knew who would be there what was going on and that I needed back up. Together, we called him out on his behaviour. He was all polite and apologetic, and then called me later when I was alone, at home, after dark and told me I was disgusting and ugly, and proceeded to start in on how gross dirty, dog-smelling foreskin is and how my dick was as nasty and ugly as the rest of me. When I stopped being stunned, I hung up on him and contacted everyone who was involved in the reason we had to see each other from time to time and told them exactly what had gone on. They were very supportive, and I never had to see him again.

He sent me one last text telling me how sorry he was, how gorgeous I am, and blah blah blah. I sent him a text back saying I was keeping all of our correspondence and would call the police if he tried to contact me again. Of course he did, but after the cops spoke with him he stopped.

I found out a while later that he'd been secretly abusing a lot of drugs, ODed, and died.

The whole thing didn't leave me scared, ultimately, but deeply, deeply sad that somebody's life could end up like that. I think that if he'd been born when and where it was okay to be queer, he'd be alive and happy.
 

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Yeah, I ended up getting stalked by a guy after engaging in some casual public nudity with friends and coworkers. He was an older guy and had never seen a foreskin before. He totally fetishized mine and completely creeped me out. Late-night phone calls, gifts left at the door when I was home alone, novel-length texts about what he wanted to do to me, and then angry mood swings when I told him (very politely) that I was already in a relationship.

I caught him watching me from the bushes outside after midnight.

We had to see each other the next day because of outside circumstances, so I told some people we both knew who would be there what was going on and that I needed back up. Together, we called him out on his behaviour. He was all polite and apologetic, and then called me later when I was alone, at home, after dark and told me I was disgusting and ugly, and proceeded to start in on how gross dirty, dog-smelling foreskin is and how my dick was as nasty and ugly as the rest of me. When I stopped being stunned, I hung up on him and contacted everyone who was involved in the reason we had to see each other from time to time and told them exactly what had gone on. They were very supportive, and I never had to see him again.

He sent me one last text telling me how sorry he was, how gorgeous I am, and blah blah blah. I sent him a text back saying I was keeping all of our correspondence and would call the police if he tried to contact me again. Of course he did, but after the cops spoke with him he stopped.

I found out a while later that he'd been secretly abusing a lot of drugs, ODed, and died.

The whole thing didn't leave me scared, ultimately, but deeply, deeply sad that somebody's life could end up like that. I think that if he'd been born when and where it was okay to be queer, he'd be alive and happy.


I think you may have won the "worst reaction" contest (so to speak). Quite a story...what a shitty situation
 

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I've had quite a few.

Back in High School, this one girl that I wasn't dating or anything asked me where my bulge was.

The first girlfriend I ever had, upon seeing my dick for the first time told me, "Wow. You're nowhere NEAR as big as my last boyfriend." She started cheating on me shortly afterwards.

Another chick I was dating started cheating on me repeatedly with a few different guys because I wasn't big enough and she felt she deserved more.

I've never posted in the other thread because I've never had any kind of good or positive reaction at all.
 
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To parley the fame of the "Best reaction to your cock the first time" thread, I'd like to hear of any not-so-good reactions you've gotten. I would like to hear from both big and small. It'll help my ego a bit to hear from guys who have been turned down from being too big, and also from being too small. I've told my story here before, but I'll start out.

In one bar in Singapore a girl asked if she could give me head on the roof, which served as a pretty cool gathering area. I said yes and we went there and she squatted down and sucked for a minute and then said "I want to go back downstairs." When we got there she said something like "I'm looking for something different." At the time I was pretty young so it didn't affect me too much, and I didn't feel like I was small. I just didn't know what to think. Now, the whole experience haunts me. It might have nothing to do with penis size, though that would be a stretch.

Another time in another bar a girl asks the same thing and then goes down and a minute later comes down and tells me "I can't accommodate you." Again, being dumb, I didn't ask "do you mean I'm too big for you or too small?" She was a very petite Filipina girl so maybe it was true, but I doubt it. No score.

***Off topic***

Another time as soon as I took my dick out this girl says "oh, big dick." The way she said it though, like, a millisecond after I exposed myself, leads me to believe that this girl says this every time just to head off "what do you think of my dick" talk. Don't know.

One other time after having sex I'm standing naked by a girl who is laying down and she is looking at my dick and says "dayum." Again, didn't ask her to clarify.

***on topic again***

For reference I'm exactly 6.5" (BP) by 4.7 girth. So pretty much average. I believe I'm a grower. It's a weird collection of experiences.

Anyway, would love to hear of your bad initial experiences. Sorry for my last two being off-topic.
Foreigner in Singapur - she expected a huge dick.
 

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I tried to fuck a stunningly beautiful Asian girl, about 5'8" tall. It hurt her, even after licking her and fingering her. She winced and jerked every time I pushed part way in- never went balls deep. I had to stop- I couldn't stand hurting her. Sigh.....broke my heart. She was SO BEAUTIFUL. Another little Filipina cried after we finished- I had smacked her womb several times. She told me, "You're not normal! It's too big!" I hate to hurt a girl. We broke up soon after- could not get over this hurdle, no matter how many different positions we tried. Sigh.......I liked her a LOT.
 

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I have a tale to tell from start. Mind my English!

I was hanging out with my buddies at night bar in Palawan. I saw a thin filipino girl checked me out. She didn't look away. We stares each other for a while until she smiled as I smile back. I tried to get her impressed by just rub my 8 inches cock until it's visibly bulge. She saw it and went like gasp in silent then giggles. I thought like 'yes, I got a score!'. I came to her and asked if she want to get another drink. She kept giggles and said like 'Matter of facts, I do but they aren't on the menu in here. I know a place that you can buy me'. Yeah I don't ever forget her exact quote. I wondered where she got it from. I assumed it is a hidden signal for get fucked.

Anyway, she brought me to her place. As soon as we came in, we made out. We stripped each other until being in just underwear, she pulled me to her mattress-- she doesn't have a bed but just a mattress. Guess it is Philippine for you. She kneels on the mattress before me as gently rubs my cock. She then pull my underwear down aaaand then she pfft out loud as cover her month with hand and giggles. I asked whats matter and she look up to me and replied "oh, it's nothing". I looked at my semi hard cock thats bigger than her face and yet she's giggling as if it's small. its really bug me and asked her what's going on. she finally spit it out 'it's like a baby' as the way she raise her tone as if it's a big problem. I don't understand her. i means how does a 8'5 inches cock look like baby? she explained me that the length size has nothing to do with it but my foreskin is main issue to her. Not just her, every single filipino in Philippine. It's traditional to have every male filipino cut their foreskin at 3 years old or a bit older. She won't let me fuck her with my foreskin. She ruined my manly moment! If you have a long foreskin, don't go to Philippine for a filipino pussy... they won't let you stuffed them with it.
 
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To parley the fame of the "Best reaction to your cock the first time" thread, I'd like to hear of any not-so-good reactions you've gotten. I would like to hear from both big and small. It'll help my ego a bit to hear from guys who have been turned down from being too big, and also from being too small. I've told my story here before, but I'll start out.

In one bar in Singapore a girl asked if she could give me head on the roof, which served as a pretty cool gathering area. I said yes and we went there and she squatted down and sucked for a minute and then said "I want to go back downstairs." When we got there she said something like "I'm looking for something different." At the time I was pretty young so it didn't affect me too much, and I didn't feel like I was small. I just didn't know what to think. Now, the whole experience haunts me. It might have nothing to do with penis size, though that would be a stretch.

Another time in another bar a girl asks the same thing and then goes down and a minute later comes down and tells me "I can't accommodate you." Again, being dumb, I didn't ask "do you mean I'm too big for you or too small?" She was a very petite Filipina girl so maybe it was true, but I doubt it. No score.

***Off topic***

Another time as soon as I took my dick out this girl says "oh, big dick." The way she said it though, like, a millisecond after I exposed myself, leads me to believe that this girl says this every time just to head off "what do you think of my dick" talk. Don't know.

One other time after having sex I'm standing naked by a girl who is laying down and she is looking at my dick and says "dayum." Again, didn't ask her to clarify.

***on topic again***

For reference I'm exactly 6.5" (BP) by 4.7 girth. So pretty much average. I believe I'm a grower. It's a weird collection of experiences.

Anyway, would love to hear of your bad initial experiences. Sorry for my last two being off-topic.
What's "6.5" BP? British Petroleum?
6.5 ain't average; it's big. 4.7 is average.
I think you're right to be suspicious of her saying "big dick" instantly; no doubt, she says it to every guy.

Whatever, man... your dick sounds great; don't worry.
 

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I have a tale to tell from start. Mind my English!

I was hanging out with my buddies at night bar in Palawan. I saw a thin filipino girl checked me out. She didn't look away. We stares each other for a while until she smiled as I smile back. I tried to get her impressed by just rub my 8 inches cock until it's visibly bulge. She saw it and went like gasp in silent then giggles. I thought like 'yes, I got a score!'. I came to her and asked if she want to get another drink. She kept giggles and said like 'Matter of facts, I do but they aren't on the menu in here. I know a place that you can buy me'. Yeah I don't ever forget her exact quote. I wondered where she got it from. I assumed it is a hidden signal for get fucked.

Anyway, she brought me to her place. As soon as we came in, we made out. We stripped each other until being in just underwear, she pulled me to her mattress-- she doesn't have a bed but just a mattress. Guess it is Philippine for you. She kneels on the mattress before me as gently rubs my cock. She then pull my underwear down aaaand then she pfft out loud as cover her month with hand and giggles. I asked whats matter and she look up to me and replied "oh, it's nothing". I looked at my semi hard cock thats bigger than her face and yet she's giggling as if it's small. its really bug me and asked her what's going on. she finally spit it out 'it's like a baby' as the way she raise her tone as if it's a big problem. I don't understand her. i means how does a 8'5 inches cock look like baby? she explained me that the length size has nothing to do with it but my foreskin is main issue to her. Not just her, every single filipino in Philippine. It's traditional to have every male filipino cut their foreskin at 3 years old or a bit older. She won't let me fuck her with my foreskin. She ruined my manly moment! If you have a long foreskin, don't go to Philippine for a filipino pussy... they won't let you stuffed them with it.

Wow. This is one of the most interesting posts I've seen here. So for her, "baby" meant "Uncircumsized" the say little baby boys are, not (obviously) that your dick's the size of a baby's. I thought when I read this initially that maybe she meant your cock was so huge it was like an actual baby: like a 6 lb cock! I can see how that would ruin the moment(um).
 

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My second girlfriend...she was 10 years older,experienced and the first one who told me my cock is too small for doggystyle..my cock slipped out every time i wanted thrust her from behind....she let me even try anal but it did not get better....so licking and fingering was the way to go and satisfied her...shortly after i had sex with a guy and that was a mindblowing and lifechanging experience...