worst sex ever!

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Unfortunately, this happens to most guys sometime in their life. I can bet he was ashamed of what he had done 3 times In a row and got upset at the rejection from you. Completely inderstandable on your side tho. Did you let him know what the problem was? And did he even.apologize and try to fix the problem? I would have at least gave.amazing oral after that and said id do anything to please yoi and keep you satisfied.

Avoiding sex like that without telling your bf why or having a discussion is pretty juvenile. Accusing him of audacity at getting upset at being treated in a juvenile manner is pretty revealing. If he's your bf and he's bad, at least tell him why and how.
 

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Yep. I was dating a guy a few years younger than me last year...the first time we had sex, it seriously seemed like his first time...he just jackhammered away at me in missionary for 4 minutes and when he was done just rolled off me and was done. I felt very disappointed and really just felt like an object. It was probably due to his lack of experience, but still, it wasn't enjoyable.
I probably would have said whoa Tiger slow it down a bit :tongue:

Maybe it is as you get older but if I spend less than 20 minutes DATY it is rare. I want to make sure my partner has had her orgasms before I even start on mine (if she comes from my fucking her it's a bonus.) Now since I am almost always covered, I haven't even warmed up in 4 minutes when it is my turn.

The closest I have come to this, was one time with a beautiful LB and I was going down on her. The excitment of the moment and the friction of the blanket caused me to shoot without her touching me. So I jerked off on her body, and then resumed sucking. This was after a good 30 minutes or more of playing and I would say between 15 and 20 minutes of my oral.

I also don't understand the one and done. Even now, well over 40, I still go at least 2 times and a lot 3 or 4.
 

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However, I can sympathise with the effect of contractions at times... also I've found my refractory period lasting a lot longer... when I was 16-24 there was none... to 26, maybe 10-15 mins... now it's closer to 25 mins...

Having said that, on the occasions when I've gone faster than my partner, I've always made sure they were well and truly taken care of
 
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My ex on our first time in the sack was totally new at sex. I was his first and I knew it immediately because he was just thrashing around. I actually grabbed him and said "slow down cowboy". He got better and better over time until he lost interest in our relationship. Then sex became boring. He didn't want to kiss or anything more than top, unload and roll over.

More recently, I met a cute 21 year old. We had a nice dinner and he came over. He was THE WORST kisser EVER!! And in bed his little dick came in less than a minute. Then he was done. Nothing more but get dressed. He had the nerve of asking me a few days later if we could get together again. hahahaha

But the worst was a guy I met in the South of France. Really hot French guy. One thing led to another and we were back at his place. His pants go off and there's the smallest cock I had seen (I'm plagued by guys with little cocks, it seems). On with the condom and he shot as he entered me. Seriously, he shot as he was putting it in. I jerked off, wiped myself off on his duvet and left!