I had a friend with benefits. I really liked him. He was smart and serious, but also goofy and fun. Very easy on the eyes, a great kisser. He was in fantastic shape, especially given his sedentary job (chemist) and his bizarre hobby (entomology). We would hang out, play video games take pictures, jabber on about whatever. At some point we'd get handsy and adult sutuations would ensue. The first time we let it escalate to intercourse, I was fairly excited because everything else had been so skillful, especially oral sex. I just wanted to feel his erection all the way inside me, and I had hyped myself up imagining him pushing into me as I had blown him earlier. But he never made it. Halfway into initial penetration, he ejaculated. To his credit, he immediately fingered me to climax. But I wanted him to fuck me. We fooled around some more that morning and that was that. We had one more encounter where we tried to have sex. As he teased me just a little with his erection pressing against my vulva he whispered in my ear, "God, I wanted this from the second I first saw you." As he pressed harder to enter, again he came. That time he immediately went down on me until I came too. We hooked up lots of times but we never tried intercourse again. I wanted to. I figured he must be able to get all the way in at least once. I was willing to keep at it because everything else was good, he was great company, he lived close, and he never left me hanging. But I guess he was too embarassed and afraid to come so quickly again.
A few years later I changed my mind about him. He moved out of town, but invited me to visit any time. I had to be in his part of the state for a few days, and wanted to crash with him because that would be waaay more fun than staying with the elderly relatives I wanted to visit. He said he met someone and they lived together. I was happy for him, and said they could both come to coffee, drinks or dinner with me sometime. Since then, he has made so many sexual overtures, invited me to his hotel every time he travels to my state for business. I congratulated him when I saw his engagement announcement on FaceBook. I figured maybe we could go back to being friends now that he will marry. A few weeks later she went out of town. He called to see if I would let him send for me so we could have one last playdate. You fuckin' kidding me?
How are you going to be the kind of premature ejaculator who can't even get to one full penetration AND can't be faithful? I was so tempted to introduce myself to her and share our texting history and Facebook messages. I just blocked him.