Worst tease ever?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by KidBrown, May 3, 2005.

  1. KidBrown

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    Sorry if this is a little long of an experience to share, but I figured I'd see if this is the worst cock-tease ever seen in the history of mankind, hahaha. I know there's got to be some of y'all out there that have had experiences like this in the past. What did you do when it happened? Did you laugh it off or get angry about it? Tell anyone or not? Did you still keep in contact with the person that "teased" you?

    So my buddy and I were talking the other day about one of the neighbors next door. She's a year younger than me (21) and is very attractive, although she's a little too slender for my tastes. Anyway, last year she was sunbathing outside and drinking a margarita and I was outside hitting my punching bag. We were kind of friends, but not too close, so I figured that it wouldn't really be cool to bother her when she was just relaxing. Well when I'm finishing up she says "I just started kickboxing two days ago, I'm still really sore". I joke back saying "I give great massages" and laugh, but instead of laughing back she tells me to prove it. I'm like practically getting a hard-on at this point alone, but I decide to see if she's for real or not.

    I walk over to her and say "alright, lie down on your stomach and we'll see if I'm good at them or not". She says "We better go inside, I don't want people to see us, I'll get embarassed". She ends up laying on their table which was kind of nasty because of all the stale beer and such that was on it, but whatever. I couldn't find any baby oil so I just used lotion. Anyway, I start massaging her and she's really into it, like telling me it feels fantastic and everything. At this point I say "fuck it, I gotta make a move", so I ask her if it's alright if I take off her top. She says really softly "well if it'll help, sure". So I start massaging her back some more, while slowly going around to the side of her breasts and stroking them lightly. She rolls over so I can see her face up and I almost lose it. Great set of tits, wow. I start massaging her sides by her ribs and slowly move up to her breasts. I pour some more lotion on her chest and start playing with her nipples. She starts moaning softly and I'm thinking to myself "Oh my god, I'm gonna have sex with her on a table......this is great" !!! She says to me kind of giggling "I'm getting wet" and I look down and she's actually got a pretty sizeable wet spot on her bikini bottom. So I say "looks like you need a tounge massage now" (yeah I know that sounds like a porno line, but I'm not experienced at all in situations like this guys).

    Here's where I get pissed off. She tells me that we can't do that because she has a boyfriend in Arizona (I live in Maryland). I knew she wasn't lying because I'd seen the dude before, but I figured they broke up if she was going to let me massage her like that, not to mention her obviously being sexually aroused by the whole experience. I look at her with a smirk on my face and say "are you kidding me"? She starts getting upset, like almost crying and says "I'm so sorry, I shouldn't have led you on like that, I'm just lonely and I'm kinda drunk, etc". She starts crying, and instead of leaving like I should have, I stand there like a moron and try to comfort a lotioned up drunk girl with her top off.

    Anyway, it was super odd seeing her the next day, but it's pretty cool that she's ok with hanging out still. In fact, we're actually decent friends now, and she hooked me up with one of her friends a couple months back. Things didn't work out, but I guess if she thought I was good enough for one of her girls, then I must be an alright dude. I dunno though, I have a feeling like I should have maybe pushed a little harder on that day, because something like that may never happen to me again.

    So yeah, share what y'all have been through, it's always interesting to hear the trials and tribulations of others lives.
     
  2. Pecker

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    What's the world coming to when a decent, half-naked, admittedly tipsy, young lady can't ask the hunky, sweaty, horny guy next door for an innocent massage?

    She should have become concerned when you pole-vaulted over the fence.
     
  3. Pene_Negro_Grande

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    KidBrown - I actually think you did the right thing by not pushing...Things really could have got awkward then and she seems like the type that might confess everything to her boyfriend and you don't need drama like that...
     
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    carolinacurious:
    Ok, people make mistakes. Sometimes things can be somewhat sexual and still inocent. Maybe she was considering it and changed her mind, who knows?

    I would say take the, "she set you up with one of her friends" and "the two of you are still friends" and "you are an alright dude" and go with that.

    When she started crying, politely leaving or staying to comfort her are both acceptable options (I think comforting her was the better one). Pushing harder is not. For one, it won't work. Your chances at that point were zero, regardless of what led up to it. Had you pushed it, you wouldn't have gotten anything that day, you wouldn't have gotten set up with her friend and you wouldn't be her friend now.

    Keep being cool about these sorts of things and they may just happen to you more often.
     
  5. D_Humper E Bogart

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    Hey, Kidbrown, at least you're not selfish, that's my raison de etre'.

    I have been a similar situation, truth be told, but at the end of the day, while my balls will hate me forever, I did the right thing, and for that, I am emotionally proud.
     
  6. Supportive Female

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    It was the alcohol. Definately.

    Every girl knows by the age of 16 that going to that level of physical contact and then "changing her mind" is not only poor judgement, but really frustrating to the guy; also, potentially dangerous if the guy has violent tendencies.

    There are probably countless episodes like this during Spring Break, after concerts, bars at 2am, etc. I'm sure she regrets what she did to you, and your response was PERFECT. Although you didn't get the experience you were hoping for, in the long run you benefit, because you develop the reputation (and your own self-image) as a guy who "does the right thing." You can't buy a reputation like that! You'll ultimately attract a better class of people (especially women!) and the fact that she fixed you up was a perfect example.
     
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