Would 3 men in a tub determine sexuality?

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If 3 men are in a tub together does it mean they are gay or just bisexuals or can they still be straight?

What if they wash each others backs?


What if they get an erection?
 
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I have a hot tub.

I have been in it with 2 straight men. On more than one occasion.

I've been in it with women.

Usually it's just me and my gay partner.

There's not much overt behaviour though. It mostly about identifying stars and constellations, and drinking from plastic spa-safe "glasses"...

:cool:
 

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I've had five women in my spa at the same time, all full of wine. Nothing got sexual until a random male appeared. He couldn't take the heat and ran inside.
 

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  1. No ~ it doesn't mean anything. literally nothing. They are still whatever the fuck they were before entering that tub other than dry...
  2. No ~ they are washing each other's backs. That's all it is. It's possibly gay because you have grown up in a fucked up society that is festering with double standards. If it was women washing one another's back, there wouldn't be anything gay about it. If it were 3 brothers in another country there would be nothing gay about it. There is nothing inherently gay about bathing with others nor washing another's back. It is fine to feel uncomfortable washing someone else's back, that is your immaturity. It is also fine with feeling uncomfortable with your back being washed by another, that is either stemming from immaturity or you don't entirely trust the other person. Just as it is totally fine enjoying having your back washed by another. It doesn't have to mean you want to fuck/be fucked by them. If you do want to, that's fine to.
  3. No ~ gotten a hard-on from a warm bowl of spaghetti touching my dick. Hit it just the right way. Didn't mean I was going to fuck the shit out of that spaghetti.
 
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Just thinking who is going to be the one to wash the dirty ring off from around the tub after them washing each others backs.
 
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Just thinking who is going to be the one to wash the dirty ring off from around the tub after them washing each others backs.


:::consults, Wally's Big Book of Penis Etiquette:::

Answer: The dude with the smallest penis cleans the tub.
 

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If 3 men are in a tub together does it mean they are gay or just bisexuals or can they still be straight?

What if they wash each others backs?


What if they get an erection?


Insufficient information to form a prediction.

HOW LONG has it been since any of those men had sex?
What are their prospects for sex in the near future?
What is their Culture?


If the tub is on a Pirate Ship at sea in the 1700s- then there is going to be some tub fucking.
If the Tub is in Ancient Sparta or Thebes, then they got INTO the tub to fuck.

If its in modern America then chances are:

1st Man WANTS IT and is WILLING

2nd Man Wants It but is UNWILLING

And Man 3 will Punch the first Guy in the face for having an erection.
 

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Biil's answer is hilarious!...
Please, Phil... do you know more about pirates of the 18th century?... Is it a non-sens to speak about spanish or Portuguese pirates?... lol.
...
Sparta? Oh... I thought that the Spartan were against homosexuality... as explained in the movie 300... lol...
Could you tell more about it too?...
Thanks Bill...
Thanks Phil...
 

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No this is not gay. I have had men wash my back although not naked or in a bathtub, but I would not find it gay either. I get erections at random times; doctor physicals, tsa patdowns, in the shower at the gym, or while doing absolutely nothing. It happens. Men stare at it. Men like it. It doesn't bother me. Boner pride.
 
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Just thinking who is going to be the one to wash the dirty ring off from around the tub after them washing each others backs.
Dirty ring? I'm surprised you should use those words in front of me ;O
 

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Biil's answer is hilarious!...
Please, Phil... do you know more about pirates of the 18th century?... Is it a non-sens to speak about spanish or Portuguese pirates?... lol.
...
Sparta? Oh... I thought that the Spartan were against homosexuality... as explained in the movie 300... lol...
Could you tell more about it too?...
Thanks Bill...
Thanks Phil...


Like a lot of cultures, what they SAY is not the same as what they DO.

Straight men in the West SAY they only have sex with women- But one third of them HAVE had sex with men.

In both Sparta and Thebes, Boys were separated from their mothers at an early age and went to live in a dormitory where they were expected to learn to be warriors.

Part and parcel of their existence there was to sexually service the older boys and young men.
This not only dealt with the sexual energies of the teen and young men, but also inculcated a culture of masculine affinity- The preference for male company, male physicality and male interests.

However, in Both city states, they expected a young man to Cease having sex with boys or other men when they were married, because at that point their duty to the state became to produce more warriors.
However, it is clear that most of them continued to enjoy male on male sex - especially when on campaign- regardless.

And it is true that the transition from the dormitory to married life was difficult because they had been acculturated to sexually respond to boys. SO it was not unusual for a young bride to get the advice to try and look boyish on her wedding night.

But both Sparta and Thebes suffered from a LOW birthrate- which has largely been attributed their culture separating men from women and raising men to prefer everything male.


As to pirates. The term "matey" was coined in seafaring men of that era to particularly denote a crew mate who was MORE than just another crew mate. Pirates and others with little access to women would often Pair off onboard ship as special friends with benefits.

Just more evidence that men may well predominantly prefer women... but that their sex drives are more akin to appetites than to orientations.
You may really really prefer Steak over Vegetables.... but if you get hungry enough, you will eat shoe leather.
 
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I saw a Turkish or Greek MFM porno where a dude plays with his buddy's balls while the latter is penetrating a pussy balls deep. The dude doing the touching laughs about it, although buddy could give a flying fig as he's too much into pounding away.

I couldn't see this happening in too many of our gangbang or MFM scenes in North America (things are getting a bit more blurred or slightly less homophobic here, but...)
 
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This is obviously a funny question. I've been in a hot tub with 3 or more guy friends. It's cool. Of course there a lot of humorous jokes about being naked together, but usually it's just relaxing and enjoying being together. My male friends are open-minded and have close relationships with other guys so it's not that strange. Guys who care about each other don't need to keep their walls up. We talk about anything. After you've seen each other naked many times, it's no big thing.
 
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