Would it anger you if your boyfriend still used porn?

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My current girlfriend is somewhat amused when she finds videos on my computer, and she sometimes watches with me. But I can imagine how the same thing might hurt a woman's pride. Thoughts?
 

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Also i'd like to add that the women on lpsg should in no way be used as an umbrella judgement for all women. There is a reason why there's only a few of us here compared to men- because we aren't the norm when it comes to any topic regarding sex.
 

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He's a man. I assume he watches porn.

He knows I watch porn. Neither of us think there's anything wrong with it.

The first time I found his porn on his computer, which was when he left a window open, he was embarrassed. I think he was embarrassed the next 4-5 times, too. It was cute. It didn't bother me.
 

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Also i'd like to add that the women on lpsg should in no way be used as an umbrella judgement for all women. There is a reason why there's only a few of us here compared to men- because we aren't the norm when it comes to any topic regarding sex.

Good caveat! Polling us does not inform you of how women in general feel about this subject. We do not represent the general population.
 

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Hell no it wouldn't bother me.

My boyfriend is largely uninterested in most porn though. Mostly due to not liking the bodies of typical porn actresses or the commonly fake acting.
 
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Also i'd like to add that the women on lpsg should in no way be used as an umbrella judgement for all women. There is a reason why there's only a few of us here compared to men- because we aren't the norm when it comes to any topic regarding sex.

Caveat duly noted :smile:
 

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It wouldn't bother me at all...if anything I'd get jealous if my boyfriend didn't share every now and then. :)

Besides, I have no room to talk...
 

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It would depend on the kind of porn he watched.

Child porn? His ass is going to become acquainted with a cellmate.
Bestiality? His ass hits the curb.

Anything involving consenting adults is fine by me and I'd hope he would share some of his favorites.

There is another aspect to this, though. How often does he watch it and how critically aware is he. If he's so desensitized from constantly watching fucking on cam that he can't experience sexual intimacy or so dumb that he believes porn is an accurate representation of sexual behaviour then, yeah, I'd have a problem with that. It wouldn't be anger though, it'd just be goodbye.
 
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It would depend on the kind of porn he watched.

Child porn? His ass is going to become acquainted with a cellmate.
Bestiality? His ass hits the curb.

Anything involving consenting adults is fine by me and I'd hope he would share some of his favorites.

There is another aspect to this, though. How often does he watch it and how critically aware is he. If he's so desensitized from constantly watching fucking on cam that he can't experience sexual intimacy or so dumb that he believes porn is an accurate representation of sexual behaviour then, yeah, I'd have a problem with that. It wouldn't be anger though, it'd just be goodbye.

Thanks for saving me from having to type this. My thoughts exactly.:smile:
 

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I don't know, if he's jack-a-lacking to cakefarts or something....he might wake up later with a skillet pattern on his head.
Yeeeeeaaaah. Good point

There are fetishes I can understand if not share and I understand watching outre stuff for the novelty factor, but I think if he were fixated on something that made my left eye twitch it would be a short lived relationship.
 

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Mademoiselle....I have a feeling you could write a book about the human sexual experience. I can only imagine the depths of human perverseness you have mined