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I'm a gay guy in a LTR. I have a really big thing for black guys and regret never being with one. Would it be ok to have a one-nighter with a huge black guy to get it out of my system?
 

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That depends on the nature of your long term relationship. Are you and your partner OK with casual sex with others? If so, go for it. If not, don't do it. It really is that simple.
 

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That depends on the nature of your long term relationship. Are you and your partner OK with casual sex with others? If so, go for it. If not, don't do it. It really is that simple.

i agree. but another option is suggesting a 3some to your partner. then you can both enjoy the cock
 

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Yup--it sounds as if you need to discuss this with your partner, and determine his attitude. Make it clear this has been a long standing fantasy you have had, and has nothing to do with your satisfaction with him or the relationship--unless it does, then you have deeper issues. He may share unfulfilled fantasies with you, and turn the tables on you. Regardless, I hope you are both comfortable and mature enough in your relationship to discuss personal fantasies.
 

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Yes, I give you permission. Do you need my help with anything else? I can give you my permission for many things. Do you want to buy a bridge for a penny. Yes, I give you my persmission. See how easy that is for me. Would you like to take all the crown jewels? Yes, please go ahead. I have been given permission to approve all things for your life.
 

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That depends on the nature of your long term relationship. Are you and your partner OK with casual sex with others? If so, go for it. If not, don't do it. It really is that simple.

^^This, over and over again
 
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Once you cheat on your mate there is no going back. Your mate finds out you cheated because of physical attributes he or she just cannot replicate, it will hurt them bad.
 

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Ask him. If you are uncomfortable with that, then you have your answer.
 

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That won't help you get it out of your system at all. If you feed your fantasy, you may end up hooked. How will that help you? If you are in a relationship right now, you might want to consider the consequences of living your fantasy.
 

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I'm a gay guy in a LTR. I have a really big thing for black guys and regret never being with one. Would it be ok to have a one-nighter with a huge black guy to get it out of my system?

Cheating is never a good idea. If it can be done within the confines of your relationship, go for it.
 

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I'm a gay guy in a LTR. I have a really big thing for black guys and regret never being with one. Would it be ok to have a one-nighter with a huge black guy to get it out of my system?

If your partner has low self-esteem you may get your permission. If not, maybe the trick could be your new boyfriend. And I don't think sexual urges are the problem here. Your willingness to throw away your good relationship because you want to screw somebody else is. If you're not in a good relationship, then quit that and screw whoever you want. We gay men have a reputation for thinking with our dicks. I recommend overcoming the stereotype and using your heart and your head.