so of course this is a coworker thing here. i like her and when you're lonely it isn't easy. i've known her for almost 4 years. when i had asked her out as friends like 2 years ago i thought she was over her divorce. she said sometime and i never asked again. she has health and mental problems like fibromyalgia and depression/anxiety. we kind of talk about how not a whole lot is going on with our lives socially and how the area isn't the greatest, etc. well surprisingly recently she has opened up to me about her health problems. i just do not know what to do. as a guy of course i would like more. but trying to view things from her viewpoint it probably means nothing for her to share things like that with me. i'd like to help out in a way, but i guess it is just best to leave it at work and quit fantasizing. opinions?