Would My Life Be Different If I Had A Large Cock?

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One of the questions this thread might bring up is...why are small cock dudes on this site in the first place? As I believe I have stated on here before, it is so I can vicariously live out the dream of having a large cock through you gentlemen who actually have one. So for that I say "thank you".

However, I have never had a woman say something like:
"Oh my, it is so big"
or
"I don't think it will fit"
or
"Please go slow. I don't want you to hurt me"

And I realize that I will never have a woman say any of those statements to me. But, what if I did have a larger cock? What if I could say mine is 7" long and 6 1/2" around?

Would I feel better about myself?
Would I be better at sex?
Would I be worse at sex?
Would more women "want" me?
Would I be making me money?

And the list goes on and on.

Just for the record, mine is 4-4.5" long....depending on the day, and 4.5" around. I have had women disappointed with my size and even shocked, even though they tried to hide it. But I could see the expressions on their faces. I had one GF that had small hands, yet just one hand engulfed almost my entire penis. She had a good time chuckling at my size, but that is a different theme.

So, small cock guys, do you think your life would be different if you had another few inches. And large cock guys, do you think having a large cock is an advantage that affects your whole life?

Thanks in advance for the answers and I would be happy to answer any questions you might have for me.

T.
 
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To be honest I try my best not to think of it, and eventually, I rarely think of it at all. It still works, I can still get off.

More honesty is that I have very little sexual experience beyond oral sex. I have had anal and vaginal just once each. Receiving oral wasn't really a great experience, though I think my partner just sucked (hah) at it at the time. Giving was a lot better, though bigger certainly excited me more.

Did having a small penis affect these encounters? Would I have had more experience had it been bigger? It's hard to say. She didn't complain too much, but she was also literally a crazy girl in high school trying to get pregnant and did these wiccan rituals to try to make it more likely. Fortunately, it didn't.

I do think masturbation would feel better if I had more to glide my hand over, or if I didn't have to buy japanese onaholes instead of good old american fleshlights. But what does it matter? I can't change it. I'll work with the tool I've got. And if my tool isn't up to snuff for someone, well, that's just too bad. But remember, you don't need a big penis to pleasure with your tongue.
 
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allow me to give you some life-advice versus dick-advice... we will always want what we don't have, period. it is built into our nature as human beings. we will ALWAYS want what we don't have but that's not the most fucked up thing... what's more fucked up is that what we want is dictated by our environment and society therefore what we want really isn't what we want at all...

the OP wanting a big dick is no different than a poor person wanting to be rich... or the guy that drives a honda civic wanting a lamborghini aventador... and so on...

i think we spend so much time and energy on things that we "think" we want that we fail to love what we have. not only that but we focus only on the good side of what we want that we never even begin to consider the bad side (yes, having a big dick has its down sides too)... now many will say "well, i'll gladly take the bad side with the bigger dick"... you say that now cause you don't have it but living it is another story altogether.

i sometimes wish i could lend out my dick to other guys so they could experience that having a big dick doesn't really change much of your life at all... sure, you'll get some chicks excited here and there but when the smoke and dust clears, you'll be back to your usual life with all your usual problems that were never dick-related to begin with.
 

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I was neither blessed; nor cursed with either a large or a small penis . So I can not easily relate to most of the postings on this site.
However in real life an inch more or less would not have an affect / effect on my life.

Some people find me attractive based on my persona, grooming , wardrobe and positive attitude; and trustworthiness . Throw in an Ok job; and not being a total perv and trust me a large penis becomes secondary to many other qualities women are looking for

LPSG is an escape from reality for many; and just like in a video game people can reinvent themselves here with whatever Avatar they desire. MAnyyyyyyyyyyy members who boast of having large penis are only average / some barely average. many have no idea how to measure their penises, so to them they actually do have 10 inch penises. Many stories you read here are total fantasy. Remember anyone can post a photo or tell of sexual escapades . It does not make it real.

To the OP, stop comparing yourself to fantasy
 

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allow me to give you some life-advice versus dick-advice... we will always want what we don't have, period. it is built into our nature as human beings. we will ALWAYS want what we don't have but that's not the most fucked up thing... what's more fucked up is that what we want is dictated by our environment and society therefore what we want really isn't what we want at all...

the OP wanting a big dick is no different than a poor person wanting to be rich... or the guy that drives a honda civic wanting a lamborghini aventador... and so on...

i think we spend so much time and energy on things that we "think" we want that we fail to love what we have. not only that but we focus only on the good side of what we want that we never even begin to consider the bad side (yes, having a big dick has its down sides too)... now many will say "well, i'll gladly take the bad side with the bigger dick"... you say that now cause you don't have it but living it is another story altogether.

i sometimes wish i could lend out my dick to other guys so they could experience that having a big dick doesn't really change much of your life at all... sure, you'll get some chicks excited here and there but when the smoke and dust clears, you'll be back to your usual life with all your usual problems that were never dick-related to begin with.

This is a good analogy, but when you go to sleep at night, you leave the Lambo in the garage. You don't leave your dick behind. It is literally a part of you. It is not a thing that you buy and then get tired of it the next day or the next year. It's also not something that you show off just to let people know how good you have it. You show it off because people want to see it. It is rare and most people will never have it for themselves. But, it's not just a toy. It is attached to you for life. You were born with it, and you will die with it (hopefully).

To answer the OP questions:

Would I feel better about myself? I don't know. How do you feel about yourself? Having a big dick does not fix low self-esteem. Having a small penis doesn't cause low self-esteem either, it just gives some men a lame excuse to be losers and poor lovers.
Would I be better at sex? I don't know. How good are you at sex?
Would I be worse at sex? I don't know. How good are you at sex? I think if you changed your size overnight, you would be worse for sure. The bigger it is, the more technique it requires.
Would more women "want" me? I don't know. Do women tend to know the size of your penis by the time they have decided to "want" you?
Would I be making me money? Probably not. Unless you use your penis to make money.

Would my life be different if I was bald? Probably, but it is a pretty silly hypothetical. Still, much less silly than your "different cock, different life" hypothetical. Your life is more up to you than what is hanging between your legs. Most women don't really care about size.
 

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For what it's worth, I have a very thick cock and make the inner cardboard of a toilet paper roll seem thin. Decent length as well. You get what you get at birth and not much changing it either. It it still works, be happy.

I'm bisexual and have been with over 50 women and 50 men. Only a few compliments from the women, but MANY from the men!

Trust me, the guys fret over it many times more than the girls. Women are much more into personality, guys more into the cock itself.

Be a happy and out-going person and you will be fine.
 
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As it is now with my completely average size i can make women cum so hard and often that they generally pass out.

If i was well hung, i would imagine hospitalization woukd be required for some..
 
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I take it we're talking about my having a bigger dick. It's nearly impossible to have one smaller.

Would I feel better about myself? No. I'm nigh on conceited as it is. I think I'm the hottest guy around. Okay, the hottest guy around who's hung like a chipmunk. But that's never bothered me one bit. Well, hardly ever. Admittedly, it's bothered a few chicks I've been with, but that's their problem.

Would I be better at sex? Penetrative, yes. Otherwise, no. I'm probably the best pussy eater on earth. And no gal has ever complained of a sore jaw or pussy.

Would I be worse at sex? That's impossible.

Would more women "want" me? No. I've never had any trouble picking up women. They seem to like my looks. Face it, I'm a hunk.

Would I be making more money? I doubt it. I make good money as it is. So does my wife. In fact, even more. Lots.
 

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allow me to give you some life-advice versus dick-advice... we will always want what we don't have, period. it is built into our nature as human beings. we will ALWAYS want what we don't have but that's not the most fucked up thing... what's more fucked up is that what we want is dictated by our environment and society therefore what we want really isn't what we want at all...

the OP wanting a big dick is no different than a poor person wanting to be rich... or the guy that drives a honda civic wanting a lamborghini aventador... and so on...

i think we spend so much time and energy on things that we "think" we want that we fail to love what we have. not only that but we focus only on the good side of what we want that we never even begin to consider the bad side (yes, having a big dick has its down sides too)... now many will say "well, i'll gladly take the bad side with the bigger dick"... you say that now cause you don't have it but living it is another story altogether.

i sometimes wish i could lend out my dick to other guys so they could experience that having a big dick doesn't really change much of your life at all... sure, you'll get some chicks excited here and there but when the smoke and dust clears, you'll be back to your usual life with all your usual problems that were never dick-related to begin with.

Let's clear something up.......I didn't say I wanted a bigger dick. I simply asked would life be different with a bigger dick.......or not. I can ask that about a number of things. How would my life be different if I were smarter, or less smart, or taller, or shorter, or better looking, or fatter, or thinner, or...........and the list goes on. I am not obsessed with "wanting" a larger dick. In my mental dwellings I was simply wondering if life would be different if I had a larger one. But to be fair.......yes, there are those times that I have wished I could have a larger member. Some sex positions would be easy, instead of almost impossible. But for the most part I componsate well enough.
 

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I was neither blessed; nor cursed with either a large or a small penis . So I can not easily relate to most of the postings on this site.
However in real life an inch more or less would not have an affect / effect on my life.

Some people find me attractive based on my persona, grooming , wardrobe and positive attitude; and trustworthiness . Throw in an Ok job; and not being a total perv and trust me a large penis becomes secondary to many other qualities women are looking for

LPSG is an escape from reality for many; and just like in a video game people can reinvent themselves here with whatever Avatar they desire. MAnyyyyyyyyyyy members who boast of having large penis are only average / some barely average. many have no idea how to measure their penises, so to them they actually do have 10 inch penises. Many stories you read here are total fantasy. Remember anyone can post a photo or tell of sexual escapades . It does not make it real.

To the OP, stop comparing yourself to fantasy
no comparison. once again, just wondering
 

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But this is NOT from a female perspective. i realize most women don't care much about our cock size. Sure some do, but in the end most of them don't care so much.

I asked the x-GF I referred to earlier, as she has been with a number of pretty well hung men. She said that in her opinion, those who are well endowed are more "cocky" than those who are not (no pun intended, but that was her actual phrase). She actually said that I was the best lover she has ever had because so one ever wanted to please her as much and as intently as I did. And I did all of that with my little cock.........and my tongue and fingers of course.

A gentleman on here sent me a PM about his cock being almost twice as big soft as mine is hard. He said that women stare at his bulge quite a bit and even have approached him on many occasions to see what it would feel like for them. So I was simply wondering if I was in that position, would I be more confident and.........dare I say it........"cocky". Or would I be more of a jerk...as some people seem to be.
 

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i realize most women don't care much about our cock size. Sure some do, but in the end most of them don't care so much.

the sooner us men get this, the sooner our lives will be better about our dicks. there are real size queens out there but they're such a small minority that they don't even hit the radar compared to the masses. it's all in our heads guys...

I asked the x-GF I referred to earlier, as she has been with a number of pretty well hung men. She said that in her opinion, those who are well endowed are more "cocky" than those who are not (no pun intended, but that was her actual phrase). She actually said that I was the best lover she has ever had because so one ever wanted to please her as much and as intently as I did. And I did all of that with my little cock.........and my tongue and fingers of course.

this is true. my wife confirmed it. however, she also added that these types of men are also the minority. for every 100 guys that approaches her, there's 1 or 2 super-cocky guys with a supposedly "big dick" that will come on to her like they're god's gift to women and it's such a turn-off that it causes women to automatically label men with big dicks as jerks while there are a lot of men out there with huge dicks that are very good men (many of them are not on this forum ironically). these guys create the stereotype for women and fucks it up for the rest of us.

A gentleman on here sent me a PM about his cock being almost twice as big soft as mine is hard. He said that women stare at his bulge quite a bit and even have approached him on many occasions to see what it would feel like for them. So I was simply wondering if I was in that position, would I be more confident and.........dare I say it........"cocky". Or would I be more of a jerk...as some people seem to be.

i think it would only be natural to be "cocky" for a short while when you know what you got and are enjoying it but when that passes (and i guarantee you, it will pass), it will start to get old. when my wife and i go out and i'm dressed in form-fitting jeans or khakis, my bulge is very visible. it's certainly not sticking out like an eye sore but if your eyes wonder into the groin regions, you will notice for sure. i like to wear clothes that fit me well. my wife has told me many times that she noticed women looking a lot. i just blow it off and tell her they're staring at us because we're an interracial couple... but i have caught a few staring (and men too). i did enjoy the attention at first but now i don't even notice or care anymore.

i have only been approached by women to taste my dick less than a handful of times and i have turned them all down. i simply do not sleep with women i don't know and any woman who does this is not interested in you as a person but only your dick and i'm not cool with that at all.

if you are always cocky because you have a big dick then it just means your world revolves around you having a big dick. same goes for anyone who is cocky because they have money; they're world revolves around having money so when they have money, it gives them a sense of "permission" to be assholes because they have money... vice-versa for having a big-dick. it's stupid-logic but we live in a world with stupid people.
 

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the sooner us men get this, the sooner our lives will be better about our dicks. there are real size queens out there but they're such a small minority that they don't even hit the radar compared to the masses. it's all in our heads guys...



this is true. my wife confirmed it. however, she also added that these types of men are also the minority. for every 100 guys that approaches her, there's 1 or 2 super-cocky guys with a supposedly "big dick" that will come on to her like they're god's gift to women and it's such a turn-off that it causes women to automatically label men with big dicks as jerks while there are a lot of men out there with huge dicks that are very good men (many of them are not on this forum ironically). these guys create the stereotype for women and fucks it up for the rest of us.



i think it would only be natural to be "cocky" for a short while when you know what you got and are enjoying it but when that passes (and i guarantee you, it will pass), it will start to get old. when my wife and i go out and i'm dressed in form-fitting jeans or khakis, my bulge is very visible. it's certainly not sticking out like an eye sore but if your eyes wonder into the groin regions, you will notice for sure. i like to wear clothes that fit me well. my wife has told me many times that she noticed women looking a lot. i just blow it off and tell her they're staring at us because we're an interracial couple... but i have caught a few staring (and men too). i did enjoy the attention at first but now i don't even notice or care anymore.

i have only been approached by women to taste my dick less than a handful of times and i have turned them all down. i simply do not sleep with women i don't know and any woman who does this is not interested in you as a person but only your dick and i'm not cool with that at all.

if you are always cocky because you have a big dick then it just means your world revolves around you having a big dick. same goes for anyone who is cocky because they have money; they're world revolves around having money so when they have money, it gives them a sense of "permission" to be assholes because they have money... vice-versa for having a big-dick. it's stupid-logic but we live in a world with stupid people.

Very well put. Thanks for stopping by and weighing in with some fabulous insight!
 

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One of the questions this thread might bring up is...why are small cock dudes on this site in the first place? As I believe I have stated on here before, it is so I can vicariously live out the dream of having a large cock through you gentlemen who actually have one. So for that I say "thank you".

However, I have never had a woman say something like:
"Oh my, it is so big"
or
"I don't think it will fit"
or
"Please go slow. I don't want you to hurt me"

And I realize that I will never have a woman say any of those statements to me. But, what if I did have a larger cock? What if I could say mine is 7" long and 6 1/2" around?

Would I feel better about myself?
Would I be better at sex?
Would I be worse at sex?
Would more women "want" me?
Would I be making me money?

And the list goes on and on.

Just for the record, mine is 4-4.5" long....depending on the day, and 4.5" around. I have had women disappointed with my size and even shocked, even though they tried to hide it. But I could see the expressions on their faces. I had one GF that had small hands, yet just one hand engulfed almost my entire penis. She had a good time chuckling at my size, but that is a different theme.

So, small cock guys, do you think your life would be different if you had another few inches. And large cock guys, do you think having a large cock is an advantage that affects your whole life?

Thanks in advance for the answers and I would be happy to answer any questions you might have for me.

T.
Big dick won't change anything, except that you have a big dick. Everything has trade offs, and size is no exception...there's a con for every pro. People assume being larger grants the man more confidence. Confidence doesn't come from a measurement. It comes from experience, and a bigger dick doesn't mean more experience, just different ones. And not all experiences are going to be good, just as not all will be bad.
 

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Let's clear something up.......I didn't say I wanted a bigger dick.

Not in those words, but this sure seems to imply it:

One of the questions this thread might bring up is...why are small cock dudes on this site in the first place? As I believe I have stated on here before, it is so I can vicariously live out the dream of having a large cock through you gentlemen who actually have one.
 

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Would my orgasm feel better for myself with a bigger dick? Not at all.

Would my wife's orgasm be better with a bigger dick? No, because if so, she would be gone out of my life - but she is still with me and very pleased with my average sized dick. I guess average works for most...

She doesn't even want any toy but said: this is your job!

Just find someone right, don't be a dick and size is not an issue at all. Sure i compare sizes a lot and it's a super kink of me - but overall myself and many people are happy the way thigs are down here hehe...