Would my wife be more satisfied with a bigger dick?

[biguy4u2]

Oh dear, another straight (well, ok, bi in this instance) man cock-inadequacy complex in the making. I don't know why you guys do this to yourselves.

You are projecting your own size fetish onto your wife. All the evidence is that she's perfectly satisfied with what you have, but no, you've convinced yourself she's missing out somehow.

I predict this won't end well unless you put a stop to this insiduous mental process. Which I think is basically attempting to put male sexual values into a female mind.

From what I understand you're damn lucky to have a wife who'll still have sex with you after 18 years and some kids, let alone one that'll orgasm reliably and tolerate you going out and giving head to guys. I wouldn't push it any further if I were you.

I don't feel that I am trying to project anything onto her. I've asked twice in 18 years. I knew I shouldn't have mentioned the giving head part. Now I'm a cheater.

It seems that your size makes you a bit insecure, you can do something to remove this insecurity:

It's possible for you to find out yourself whether she enjoys it bigger if you start doing penis enlargement exercises, it's possible to grow at least 1" per year if you do it consistently. (some people grow over 1" in only 6 months!)

I started my sex life with 6.5" and I also remember having issues about my size but after I grew an inch, women started calling my cock "big" which gave me extra confidence.

I'll be honest to you, the extra size allows you to easily reach one spot inside the vagina (epicenter) and apply more pressure to the nerve endings there but this depends on the size of her vagina, this spot can be reached with your fingers in some women. However the g-spot is only 2" in and can be stimulated just as well with a shorter, harder cock so your woman's pleasure really won't increase so much with extra size.

Thanks for answering. At least you didn't bash me because of my so called shenanigans.

As a connoiseuer of cock myself, after carfeful inspection of your gallery, I can tell you that while yours might not be an awe-inspiring humungous schlong, it is above average, extremely well proportioned and better-looking than most. The mid-shaft girth and pronounced coronal ridge in particular stand out as plusses.

Thank you very much.

It sounds like you two have a great sex life, except for your size issues. There is no way to know for sure without doing it. Of course, if you do and she totally enjoys it that may be because of size, but it may be because of technique, or the thrill of having a threesome, or maybe just the rush of being with someone new will make her feel sexy and turned on. She could feel the same with a smaller cock as well. Whatever you do don't push her into something she is reluctant to do.

Thank you. As mentioned before I don't think I pressure her. I've aqsked twice in 18 years.

Would she love a larger penis inside her? If so, how much larger? If you have 6" and think she wants an 8" one, then maybe go out and experiment with sex toys. I'm sure you can find a dildo that isn't "horse-like" that wouldn't ruin her for your penis. Has she ever expressed the interest in a larger penis?

Think of it like a car. You might be happy with your Honda, but secretly wish you had a Lexis? Then you go out and get your Lexis and find it wasn't what you thought it would be. or you find that once you've driven a Lexis you can't go back to a little Honda. Each person is different and if she is happy with what you have and make her orgasm as much as you say she does, who's to say a larger penis is going to give her more pleasure.

I know that my first wife was a virgin when we meet and she was used to a 8" penis because that is what I have. Does that mean she wouldn't be happy with a 6" penis is she were to find one? Each woman is different and each vagina accommodates whatever is being inserted in in.

Thank you very much. That makes sense.

Why risk it? What good could possibly come of it? I can't think of any good outcomes but can think of several bad ones. I'd leave well enough alone. You have a great sex life with a woman who finds you satisfying and allows you to go out from time to time to satisfy your cocksucking urges. What more could you ask?

I agree. It was just a thought.

Ok...Here is my take on this.

You are feeling guilty about sucking other dudes off because in reality you don't want your wife doing it with other men. Even though you stated that you want your wife to experiment with a guy that is bigger.

Honestly, if your wife is happy with your cock dude don't push it. Sooner or later she is going to get tired of you bringing it up and the sex you are having is going to come to a screeching halt. Or it won't be good anymore.

Thanks. I don't feel guilty either. Never have. She's known for 10 years now. But now I'm considered a dick because I go off with men from time to time. next time I'll just keep my mouth shut. I'd rather read than join in these conversations. It took me a year to ask this one on this board. No more.

for lack of a more tactful response...get over it. you've been married for almost two decades to a woman that you admit to being able to satisfy sexually and who's willing to put up with your shenanigans of going around and messing around with other guys. what cause do you have to doubt her? if she says she doesn't want bigger, trust her! if she was lucky enough to find someone who fulfills her physically and emotionally, then why do you need to question that? instead of feeling insecure because your cock isn't the most massive shlong that ever existed, i think you should be feeling a little guilt over the fact that you've got this amazing woman at home and you're going off and messing around with guys every few months. honestly, if she DID go out and cheat, regardless of his cock size, it'd be hard to feel much pity...instant karma, as the prophet Lennon once put it. your wife is content with what she has. why can't you be?

No guilt at all.

 

[genetex]

I have a similar situation, and maybe a different perspective on this. My wife LOVES my 6 1/2 inch, fairly thick cock. I am by no means hung, but she thinks it is perfect. She has been with a guy with a 4 inch penis, and a guy with a 9 inch penis before we met, and she thinks they both pale in comparison to the quality of what I have.
Strangely, I too wish I had a giant swinger to show off. My cousin has a 10 inch monster that he loves to whip out when he gets to drinking, and I can't keep my eyes off from it. I get so jealous of him that I would almost sell my soul to trade dicks with him for just a day.
My point in all of this is that I am a big ,strong man. I have a manly job with a great salary, I am a hunter, and the bred winner of my family. For a man like me to only have a "smaller", or "average" dick is a blow to my ego. I fantisize about feeling the power of a giant cock between my legs, and the reaction from a woman when she sees it for the first time. But in reality what I have is fine. Never had a complaint, or a snicker tward my dick at all. My sex life with my wife is great for her, and would be great for me too if I would just get over myself, and just enjoy what I have. Trust me ,you will too.

 

[helgaleena]

There have been threads here about the location and nature of female orgasmic response, and I can attest, sir, that female orgasm has many different triggers. Penis size has to do with only a few of those response areas.

Infidelity, whether with other men or with other women, is a separate issue from whether your wife is satisfied or not. But you did mention it, so people weighed in.

Do you think she is lying to you or faking her orgasms or something? Don't you believe what your partner of 20 years tells you? That is what concerns me.

If you think there is a way to give her more pleasure that you both would agree to, as she has evidently agreed to your extra man-flings, by all means tell her what it is. Then see if it works or not.

 

[D_Suckleberry Hound]

Thank you. I've asked her twice in 18 years. I don't push it and I never have. I was just asking a question.

Maybe a threesome with another dude would be the way to go. You know, a bi-male MMF thing. That way you could both share the experience together. I know if it was me I would rather be doing stuff with my wife than not.

 

[MrToolhung]

Thanks. I don't feel guilty either. Never have. She's known for 10 years now. But now I'm considered a dick because I go off with men from time to time. next time I'll just keep my mouth shut. I'd rather read than join in these conversations. It took me a year to ask this one on this board. No more.

Like I said it was my take on your situation. Now as far as you being a dick I never suggested that you were. You are lucky that your wife allows you to go and play with other guys and both of you are still together. I had a friend who had a very similar situation and it did not last very long because she could no longer accept it.

But back your main question: If your wife says she is satisfied with your cock and then she is. Also, if she never expresses any desire to be with another man that may have a bigger cock then yours then you are golden. Stop worrying about what you got hanging between your legs! You got a nice one :redface:

Don't stop posting on the boards because you got some responses that were not very favorable. There has been some very good comments from members on here about this.

 

[sparky12345]

she probably would enjoy a bigger cock, but seems happy with yours, so why worry?