Would my wife like a bigger dick?

[sexcraz1]

My wife and I have been together for 18 years. We love sex, and have it approx. 2-3 times a week. I'd like 3 or more times weekly, but that's a diff. story. There are times when we have sex 3-5 times. My wife is pretty hot, 5'5" Double D's, small waste, nice firm ass, long hair, nose ring, very tan, approx. 180lbs. (Yeah i know what you're thinking...180 @ 5.5)??? She use to body build, and still works out 5 days a week. 3 kids later, getting back in shape. Everyone that sees her, thinks she can't weigh more then 140lbs. (Everyone knows Muscle weighs more then fat). she doesn't look like a yoked man, but firm, and thick muscle legs.

Anyway, when we have sex she really appears to enjoy sex with me, and have told me many many times that i am pretty great sexually. I don't think I'm bad, but i do have an issue with my penis size. I'm a little longer then 7" (barely), and approx. 5.5" thick. When we fuck, she Ogs. multiple times, and does the hold verbal reinforcement thing pretty loudly. We had a pretty serious talk about faking Ogs, and feeling better then it really is at the beginning of our relationship. i told her that if she faked it, i would think i'm doing a good job, and never get better...she would continue to suffer. Don't get me wrong 1 out of every 7-8 times we fuck, she does tell me "No, i didn't cum, but it felt great though." So it appears that she's keeping our agreement. I'm pretty sure she doesn't fake with me, as a matter of fact she talks about how ridiculous it sounds when people fake sex (e.g. Porn). She contently tells me that I'm a very good size for her, and really isn't interested in a bigger dick, because she couldn't imagine it being too much better. Although she's told me that, I'm not stupid, i know there's 1000s of guys out there better then me. She too has admitted that yeah, that's probably true, but insists she is very very satisfied. She's only had one other guy in her life (First BF) approx 4times. and insists it wasn't even close to us now. I love sex, and do know that i satisfy her pretty well, but i can't shake this feeling that if i were bigger, she would just scream with pleasure. A couple of times we experimented with objects in the house. During those times she really seemed to be able to take much more, and also enjoyed it very much. About 9 months ago i fingered her, and got more agressive...i got four finger in (i have big hands) she got wetter then i've ever felt her get, and came as loud or louder then with my dick every before. Obviously as much as she love my dick (according to her repeatedly) I have to be right that she would want and enjoy a bigger dick then mind RIGHT???

We have and awesome relationship in every way. Because i love everything to do with sex, and we talk about everything very openly, i asked her "the question?" Out of all my friends, who would you want to fuck if it were okay with me? Of course she acted like she really had to think hard, but we know better right??? She finally came up with three guys names...I was cool with knowing. Of course i would kid her about it for the next couple a years referring to the guys as # 1, # 2, and # 3 in the order she said she would want to fuck them. Also for years she has known, that I've always had a fantasy of seeing her fuck another guy (With a bigger dick)About 8 months ago a asked her seriously about fucking # 1, which we had and 1000 question dialog for weeks where I asked every question i could think of, and then some, and she was as honest as she always is with me. ExampleI asked things like if his dick is bigger, and you like it better will you tell me so? She very clearly said "Yes, but that won't mean that i won't want to fuck and still enjoy you after." I asked her if he fucks her better the me, will she tell me so? Same reply) Everything a couple about to do something like this could discus we did. I know this whole thing comes from me not thinking my dick is big enough. Even though deep down, i know it's not small (when erect), but i wish it were bigger. I would love my dick to be at least 8" solid, and if i am 5.5" around now, i would want to be at least 7" around. When i stick my dick inside her, i want to se the reaction of OMG. like the porn guys. I see all the other reactions during sex like those guys, but it would be nice to pull out a dick that would make her say Damn! or Fuck!

She hasn't fucked this guy yet, but we both have agreed to make it happen by the end of the year. I know many relationships break up after something like this, but we both are pretty sure this won't happen with us. My wife says she really doesn't care if she gets to fuck this guy are not. She has admitted that yeah it would be cool to experience someone else, because she's only had BF # 1 in High school, and me, but she says if it happens, great, if not who cares. she's pretty admit about that, and never brings it up, and i think a little tired of me talking about it.

If anyone is interested in something like this, i have a fucking awesome Survey I typed up for after she fucks this guy. All the questions anyone could want to know after his wife fucks someone else.

So all that being said, i have two questions:
1) Is it okay that i let my wife fuck another man, if we're sure it won't affect our relationship, and really are only interested in it being a one time thing?

2) Am i right in thinking my dick is pretty small compared to what she could take and would rather have? Yeah she loves my dick, but come-on if she had a huge fucking dick in her, she would fucking love it. She's taken Shampoo bottles before.

 

[CALAMBO]

bud...stop it....u are huge in your own right...u r asking for trouble...keep the fantasy to yourself....u sound like u r forcing this on her..careful...she will take u up on it and may be gone.....women like the romance..u sound like a great hubby...keep another stud out of the barn...before your mare runs away from U..........btw...the deeper the cock the lesser the feeling...its just numb pressure....she may fake it to end the pain....where is the gain?....listen to her bud....she is saying NO thanks....

 

[sexcraz1]

Thanks CALAMBO, i'll take what you said to heart.

 

[drac]

I have to say, if she has only been with 2 guys you included, and she is with someone else, it will obviously make things different. If she has only been seriously intimate with 2 guys that means it will take her a lot to intimate with another guy, and if there is a connection sexually that you can't live up to, well she can say all she wants, yeah that is how she feels about it now, that you two can work through this, but i assume the chances she will leave you IF the guy is that much better than you, well, you are going to lose her. She may even regret that her man, that she loves so much, is willing to share her. She is probably a saint and only tells you the truth, but that truth could be based souly on what she currently knows, if you introduce this to her, it will be a completely new experience therefore changing what her new reality may be.

One thing, the fact that she is able to relax and get really wet when you put 4 fingers in her may be because YOU really turn her on. I am sure that if you didn't make 4 fingers feel good, they wouldn't on their own. So it's you, keep that in mind.

The problem here is you not feeling big enough. Two things you should look into, one, the easy way, is to get a prothesis extension, you can add girth and length with those. The other is penis enlargement. You can look in that category in this forum or go to Thunders Place.com to find routines that, yes believe me, they do work. I have been jelquing and stretching and taking the right supplements and gained .75 in girth and about .5 in length. Not to mention it makes you feel super hard. Seriously try that, it takes work but the results are enjoying, and unfortunately it does take time, but that is the good thing. If you love your girl so much then you should keep her all to yourself as your queen. Don't share her and she will appreciate you more knowing that it's just the two of you.

 

[Xspree]

I dont know wha to say man... your a pretty lucky dude, ive had one girlfriend in my life and that lasted 3 months..I wish i cuould be in your situation...Slightly of topic i was wondering what your wife looks like.. 5.5, 180...I was wondering if you could post a few pics of her up..from the neck down id love to see what 180 of muscle looks like on a woman...you said you guys have 3 kids?? YOu gotta post some pics up of your wife man..I wanna see, ive always liked workout chicks..They've got incredible bodies!!

 

[hoolz]

There is a forum on here about penis enlargement perhaps you should check it out, i have also heard amazing things about the bathmate penis pump.

From what you have wrote the issue seems to be with you and your insecurities rather then what your wife would like sexually if you do go a head with your ideas i think you'll just compound the issues you have about your size and your insecurities will grow.

 

[drac]

There is a forum on here about penis enlargement perhaps you should check it out, i have also heard amazing things about the bathmate penis pump.

From what you have wrote the issue seems to be with you and your insecurities rather then what your wife would like sexually if you do go a head with your ideas i think you'll just compound the issues you have about your size and your insecurities will grow.

EXACTLY, even if you do unfortunately go thru with this, you will always be thinking that she probably wishes she was getting nailed by that bigger better cock, even if she doesn't feel that way, you will!!

 

[sexcraz1]

[I'm having a hard time navigating my way around this site, as this is my first night on. Hopefully all can see this response.

You all have made a lot of sense, and the more i read your responses, the more stupid i feel. You guys are probably right about her leaving after, and she only is saying what she can currently based on experience thus far, but may change after having another bigger guy.

Also i haven't really even did our sex life justice. It really is out of this world. And she really really enjoys it a lot, and i do as well. she tells me throughtout things like "you're so fucking hard," "You dick feels so good," and does push off when in some possitions, so i know she does enjoy it. Maybe I should leave well enough along. You are also right that it really is my issue, not her's. She's told me many tmes she is very satified, but i want to push the envelope i guess. That really isn't my intent though. Who am i kidding, or course if she gets a bigger dick, YES IT WILL FEEL BETTER MOST LIKELY, then as you said it will just make things worse. I'll have to go around knowing that my wife know there's dick out there bigger and better. I'm sure she knows that now, but at least she doesn't really know, and have experienced it to compare.

As far as the implants etc, i don't think i'm willing to go that far. And the pump thing; although i know strictly an ego thing, i don't think i'll do that either. I wish there was something pretty simple that doesn't involve surgery, or meds that can casue other long term affects. It looks like i'm stuck with what i have until it stops working as i get older i'm told. right now i get freaking hard just by lying next to, or kissing my wife. She thinks i'll never stop getting hard. One could only dream right???????

As far as the pictures, i've asked and asked, and she won't let me take any pics of her body (of course i've always asked to take nude pics), so i have to respect that...even though she's lying behind me on my office couch asleep and the camera is right in front of me. She has on short shorts, no underwear, braless t-shirt, and the inprint of her crotch showing through her thin shorts...Damn speaking of which why am i still talking to you guys.::))

Anyway thanks so much, and feel free to keep the advice coming...Great responses.

 

[sexcraz1]

What is a good size around?

What does it appear most women love, that takes them just to that point of OMG, but not No it hurts?

 

[bigsmile]

what women appear to love is a confident man. stop the course your thinking is taking you down or as others have said you may wake up and find you have lost your wife ... and she is screaming omg...with a confident man's 6in dick buried balls deep in her pussy.

 

[jipper]

Dude,

Whilst the above responses to the above question make complete and utter sense and are respectable, I'd say if you have developed a deep trust, understanding, mutual respect, and with the many years of love have built a deeply fulfilled relationship with your wife, who's to say that offering her up in this way to an even bigger dicked guy won't improve your relationship? It could be the kind of fantasy that turbo charges both of your sex lives! But it would be a double edged sword no doubt, Probably best that you be in control to a certain extent though if possible and discuss any ground rules beforehand if you're absolutely intent on going ahead with your friend fucking your wife, ( in fact a stranger would be better - and only you has his phone number to arrange any meetings - preferably at a hotel) that way you and your wife can (at least) go into it with a certain degree confidence.

 

[Pitbull]

Wrong forum.
Should be in "Relationships"

 

[sexcraz1]

Spoke to my wife yesterday.
She is pretty confident that she loves me, and wants to be with me the rest of her life. She says whether the dick is better or bigger, won't make a difference in that. She says if there were sexually problems in our relastionship now (Not Satisfied) she could see possible falling for a bigger better dick attached to an goodlooking body / Man. She says but because she's already really satified (Multiple Ogs, Long lasting sex, and a more the adequate dick side) she feels it will be no more then a good fuck, and good experience due to only having two guys. She says but other then that, she is very confident that it won't affect what we have now. She also says that again if it will be a problem between us, she would rather not do anything because it's not worth it to her.

By the way on the way up to visit my wife's family Sat. we stopped by her number 3's house. She still wants to fuck him, but didn't appear to really be overwhelmed with sexually tention being around him, and really didn't seemed that way after we left, and i asked my normal questions.

Still want to go through with her and her number 1 one day, but don't know.

 

[Mithra]

why is this in the "adult website" section?

 

[sexcraz1]

Spoke to my wife yesterday.
She is pretty confident that she loves me, and wants to be with me the rest of her life. She says whether the dick is better or bigger, won't make a difference in that. She says if there were sexually problems in our relastionship now (Not Satisfied) she could see possible falling for a bigger better dick attached to an goodlooking body / Man. She says but because she's already really satified (Multiple Ogs, Long lasting sex, and a more the adequate dick side) she feels it will be no more then a good fuck, and good experience due to only having two guys. She says but other then that, she is very confident that it won't affect what we have now. She also says that again if it will be a problem between us, she would rather not do anything because it's not worth it to her.

By the way on the way up to visit my wife's family Sat. we stopped by her number 3's house. She still wants to fuck him, but didn't appear to really be overwhelmed with sexually tention being around him, and really didn't seemed that way after we left, and i asked my normal questions.

Still want to go through with her and her number 1 one day, but don't know.

 

[tmny]

why is this in the "adult website" section?

exactly

 

[B_penispenispenis37]

Its here because this guy's issue stems from feelings of inadequacy due to too much porn.

You need to find out if she actually can take a bigger cock. Not all girls like that, ya know.

Buy some dildos or something. And make her come when your dick can't. You have a mouth.

 

[Big Del]

I get the feeling the poster wants us to say that his wife will enjoy a bigger cock

So.............. I think she would really love a giant cock

 

[sexcraz1]

I get the feeling the poster wants us to say that his wife will enjoy a bigger cock

So.............. I think she would really love a giant cock

what a fucking asshole

 

[t9]

Forget it dude, Sound like your making her happy. "Wrong Road".