Would my wife like a bigger dick??????????

[sexcraz1]

You are very bored it seems, as soon as you are making troubles and inventing problems when there is none!
Or maybe all you really want is to be in the same room with a big cocked dude, but you cant admit that to yourself? Are you sure you are str8-maybe you are bi?

There is nothing wrong with your wife, or with your dick size, but you should look deeper into yourself to see where is the real problem (if there is any), and what you really want!
Or even better, find some more job to do and stop creating issues and problems with no reasons, lol!

J/C WHAT'S WITH ALL THIS GAY TALK TODAY????????
HOW DID WE GET FROM ME TALKING ABOUT SEEING MY WIFE FUCK ANOTHER GUY, AND WANTING IT TO BE A BIGGER DICK, TO ME WANTING A BIGGER DICK BECAUSE I'M GAY?????????? WHY WOULD I WANT MY WIFE TO FUCK SOMEONE THE SAME SIZE, OR SMALLER? OBVISOULY IF I WOULD ALLOW HER TO DO THIS, I WOULD WANT IT TO BE AS GOOD OR BETTER OF AN EXPERIENCE THEN SHE'S HAD. ALSO I NEVER SAID NOR IS THERE ANY PROBLEM BETWEEN US AT ALL. WE HAVE A GREAT MARRAGE, AND SHE AND I ARE VERY SATISFIED, AND ARE NOT TRYING TO OR NEED TO SPICE UP OUR MARRIAGE. THIS (AGAIN) WAS JUST A SOURCE OF CONVERSATION I THOUGHT I WOULD GET OTHERS OPINIONS ON. AND I'LL TELL YOU ANOTHER THING, I KNOW MY DICK ISN'T SMALL, BUT PROBABLY 90% OF MEN WANT BIGGER DICKS EVEN THE ONES WHO HAVE "BIG ONES" ALREADY. ME WANTING A BIGGER DICK COULD BE SOMTHING AS SIMPLE AS ME WANTING TO ALWAYS GO TO THE NEXT LEVEL....JUST LIKE AT WORK (MY WIFE SAYS) EVERYTIME YOU ACCOMPLISH SOMETHING, YOU DON'T STOP AND ENJOY IT, YOU ALWAYS LOOK TO WHAT'S NEXT. mAYBE BECAUSE I FUCK MY WIFE VERY WELL, AND SHE OGS MULTIPLE TIMES DURING, MAYBE SOMEHOW I'M LOOKING TO DO EVEN MORE, AND MAYBE I THOUGHT THAT HAVING A BIGGER DICK WOULD TAKE HER TO THAT NEXT LEVEL....

HOW'S THAT FOR LOOKING DEEP INSIDE MYSELF?

 

[sexcraz1]

In addition to previous, your wife could also have many questions:
- Am I attractive enough?
-Are my tits hard or loose? Too big or small? Is their shape ok?
-Is my pussy tight enough, wet enough, deep enough?
-Is my clit normal size, or big ?
- Maybe my husband would prefer bigger lips on my pussy?
- Maybe he would prefer tighter pussy
-Maybe Im too fat, or too small?
- Maybe I should change my hair style, or maybe even my eyes colour?
- Or instead of changing it all I should change my partner and find someone who is happy with me just as I am!
Think about that! -Nobody is perfect.

There might be 1 million different questions, just if one opens the box and goes that way![/

Sure, she may have some questions of her own who doesn't, but she knows she's pretty good looking due to the looks she get when we're out. Also i reinforce how i feel about her, and how beautiful she is almost daily. She feels very good being with me and feel as though she can do anything with me (she's said) She wishes her lower stomach was tighter just like 95% of all women, she has one blue eye, and one green eye, long nice hair, not fat, Double D's that are actually still firm after three kids, and yes a tight pussy with a tight ass to match. All of those things you mention above, we've talked about in detail, because we talk about everything. we don't have many of the issue most couples have today, and i don't think i'm causing a problem because i've shared with my wife that i would like a bigger dick, or maybe one day we'll explore letting her (not making her) fuck another guy. I would bet that more married women wish they could fuck another man just to be with someone different, and then be perfectly content with going back to their husbands. Still others wish they could fuck another man because their husbands aren't fucking them well at all, and are not satisfied. we have a friend who told my wife that while her husband is fucking her, she's thinking about all the things she has to do after its over...cooking, cleaning, etc...

Yes the subject can up because i told her years ago that i kind of had a fantasy of seeing her with another man. This was years ago. Years later, we got on the subject of out of all my freinds, who do you think look good? that question lead into who out of those you think look good would you want to fuck? and the rest is history. This is not something that my wife and i talk about all the time or even think about all the time. And probably will never happen. Two out of the three guys she said she would fuck, one i know for a fact he would fuck her, and he thinks she's pretty attractive. We were at his house this weekend. My wife isn't walking around with a dripping wet pussy wishing she could fuck him or any of these other guys, she's made it clear that she won't feel as though she's going to fall over a die if she doesn't get to have another dick.

Also for the longest time she insisted that fucking a bigger dick wouldn't really matter, and i always said yes it would, you've never had a bigger dick so you don't know. Then years later i was messing around and using object and my four fingers, and she really got off even more then usual. This is why this topic has come up again...maybe i want to prove it to her. Now she says reluctantly, that "yes maybe a bigger dick would be nice, but i still would want yours." We were watch Blackzilla this weekend, and the women was screaming her head off, i said you could take that couldn't you, she said i don't know, he's pretty damn big, but i know i wouldn't be sreaming like her. To prove a point, after i got something bigger then him. I said you see how she can put her mouth around his entire dick? she said yes, i said can you put your mouth around this? she tried and said No. we started messing around and i got about 7" of a item that was 10" thick in her, and when i pulled it out is was soaking wet, and she was loving it. She told me to take it out (because it was too big) and give her my dick. Maybe she didn't want to be obvious she was enjoying it lots, or maybe she wanted me to fuck her like i do. who know?????????

 

[iian1972]

Why dont you bring a very large dildo into your sex life, I did with my wife and she loves it, also have a cock pump that makes me an inch thicker, that also works great.

 

[houtx48]

she said her dick was big enough and if you don't like it marry someone else.

 

[redwingsrox5]

I think almost every guy wishes they had a bigger penis b.c they think it'll satisfy more. But really unless she's all about herself, which she can't be because she married you, your size doesn't matter. That's one thing most men don't get, women are emotional and guys are physical when it comes to sex. Meaning they don't have to "O" for it to be great sex. The contact with the person they love is what turns them on, not your penis size. I wouldn't do it. You may love the idea, but I see bad things.

 

[chefgreg]

I feel your pain. I to got 4 fingers and my cock in my GF and I have a 5.7 inch girth and my hand is an 8 inch girth at my knuckles. I asked my girl that if it were possible for me to get a bigger dick would she want me to do it. She said that she was perfectly satisfied with what I have. It took some persistence but she finally admitted that her ideal size is 8x6. I am pumping and jelqing and she is doing kegels. I asked her if she wanted a big dildo and she said she would rather have a clone of mine. Just remember vagina's are capable of expanding to accept large things. I posted about this exact problem yesterday and the best advice I got was that it's all in my head and to let it go before it causes problems.

 

[D_Rosalind Mussell]

I feel your pain. I to got 4 fingers and my cock in my GF and I have a 5.7 inch girth and my hand is an 8 inch girth at my knuckles. I asked my girl that if it were possible for me to get a bigger dick would she want me to do it. She said that she was perfectly satisfied with what I have. It took some persistence but she finally admitted that her ideal size is 8x6. I am pumping and jelqing and she is doing kegels. I asked her if she wanted a big dildo and she said she would rather have a clone of mine. Just remember vagina's are capable of expanding to accept large things. I posted about this exact problem yesterday and the best advice I got was that it's all in my head and to let it go before it causes problems.

I agree and I'm glad someone gave you this advice. Ideal size does not equal ideal lover. Your GF is satisfied, you are satisfied....don't ruin a good thing by creating an issue. It's an intimacy killer and you don't want that. I'd wish you good luck, but it sounds like you and your GF are just fine.

To the OP, you need to relax. This is your issue and you're making it into your wife's issue. I can guarantee that if she doesn't resent you for it yet, she will. It matters not whether she sleeps with him or not, your willingness to "share" her is going to erode at her intimate feelings towards you. If you love your wife and have a great relationship, just stop this and keep loving her.

 

[moccasin]

OP, I always felt as you do, that my wife would like to at least experience a bigger cock. My wife and I went to nude beaches for years. At the beach she was expert at showing her big pussy lips and clit to the best effect so she has actually teased almost every size cock to its raging best just a few feet from her. Also, I always pumped so she got to experience me a about 8.5X6.5 or more.

This summer, after four years of experimenting, I perfected a method I call "tubing" which gives me an 8.25 long cock with a hard six+ inch diameter head. The head is hard and does not compress when entering her vaginal orifice. The first time we had sex with this we were both so turned on by the site of it that we didn't think of anything but fucking, right now! Like I said, my wife has huge pussy lips and a big clit but is normal inside. She said she wanted it doggy style so she bent over and I pushed this thing between those big pussy lips and hit the vaginal opening and....had to push hard to get it in and pull hard to get it out. It was great for me but it made her sore enough she doesn't want me to fuck her with the tube on any more. I said but honey, look at the size, don't you like the size? She said its a turn on to see me that big, and a turn on to think about but it just makes her sore. In fact, I've worn her out with this thing and had to ask for a female volunteer on this site and so far, have had no takers. So when women say size isn't that important, above a certain minimum, I'm inclined to believe them.

 

[D_Hugh_G_Nutz]

Do not know. How big is her dick? :biggrin1:

 

[petite]

Should I repeat what everone else said? Because they're right.

It's in your head. This is your issue. Your cock isn't small. If you don't drop this issue then you are going to make yourself and your wife miserable.

And from my personal experience with fucking a man with a large cock... Who cares if you can fit 4 fingers inside of her and your cock isn't that big? What is it with you guys thinking that your cock has to fill up every single millimeter of space in there? That really isn't ideal. It doesn't necessarily provide more sexual pleasure if a woman can fit a larger cock inside of her than yours. If you were too tight of a fit then you would have other sexual problems! Without a little "wiggle room" suddenly you would have to be careful about not being too rough with her or else you would INJURE HER or CAUSE HER PAIN and she wouldn't enjoy it as much! She would get sore very fast, before she could experience more orgasms, or you would have to wait to fuck every other day so that her vagina could recover from the last time that you fucked her, and that's not fun (and if you suggest that such a situation would make you "feel more like a man" then you would just be confirming that this is really about compensating for some other inadequacies that you feel about your masculinity and it's not about your wife's sexual pleasure at all and that you are totally full of BS about all of that). Unless she's a masochist and she genuinely enjoys pain, then that isn't good for her. And it can be limiting when it comes to sexual positions, and that's not fun either. My BF and I have had to deal with so many problems because we didn't fit well together. Honestly, you are worried about nothing.

The only exception to this is if your wife is one of those women who specifically fetishizes large cocks, but if she was one of those women then she wouldn't have dated you, and then married you, so you have nothing to worry about there.

If you want to pleasure your wife more in bed, research sexual positions, oral sex techniques, and incorporate toys like vibrators or Liberator Pillows or a sex swing. Research shows that women prefer variety in their sexual experiences much more than men do but they prefer those experiences to be in a monogamous relationship, so use that knowledge and do some interesting things if you want to keep her interested. Use a blindfold on her. Tie her up one night. Surprise her with one of those remote control wearable vibrators and some sexy lingerie, then take her out to dinner or to a concert and play with the toy out in public. I'm sure that she'd be much more interested in those kinds of games than exploring your obsession with large cocks (which is what men are obsessed with, NOT women). Want proof? Pick up Cosmo and peruse it. Every month it's full of "interesting sexual positions" and "sex toys" and games like using a remote control vibe in public with your husband at the controls. Women LOVE that stuff.

For your own sake, stop inventing problems and be happy!

 

[houtx48]

she showed me her dick and i thought it was reasonable size.

 

[B_curiousme01]

As a wife who has had only a few previous partners, I never even thought of having sex with or looking for a partner who was "bigger." When I first stumbled upon this site, it was literally like "SWOON! Oh. My. God." I felt like a kid in a candy store. Then I thought that I would like to try it once in my life. Now this place has opened up my sexuality and I'm very happy and content with experimenting with my hubby.

That doesn't mean that I don't love looking around the Gallery here! Cause I do...anyhoo

I think people who have been married for a very longtime might naturally fantasize about what it would be like to have sex with someone other than your lifetime partner. It doesn't mean that you don't love that person or want to separate or divorce. But doing that can hurt the relationship in so many ways, and is not worth the risk unless BOTH people in the lifetime relationship are agreeable and can handle all the emotional baggabe that could result from a onetime "sexual fling." I happen to be a sensitive person who can obsess over small things, so I'm not sure how I would be afterwards. So fantasizing about it and actually doing it are two totally different things. Fantasies won't hurt either partner.

Marriage is forever. It changes everything about the choices you make in life because now two people are involved...not just yourself. And if there are children, then that's another factor to consider. It's totally different than having a live-in type of relationship that lacks the lifetime commitment of the marriage vows.

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

short answer for a really, really, long winded question. i hope it was cathartic for you.

DON'T DO IT!! HAVE YOU LOST YOUR MIND?? the problem is that if you have gone this far in the discussion i think you are in trouble anyway.

 

[helgaleena]

They have bigger dicks at the big dick store, and you don't have to force your wife to deal with some other dude and his weird ideas.

Just buy her a bigger one there and save yourself a lot of grief.

 

[very_hairy]

First off, dude, relax about the responses you don't like. Going off the handle because someone accuses you of being gay isn't going to change their opinion, nor does it reflect well on you.

On to your question. My gf and I are moving in the same direction - with her fucking other guys (and perhaps me with other girls). I too want my gf to fuck guys with bigger dicks. Don't blindly follow all the naysayers, nor myself. Everyone's situation is unique; some people are capable of detaching sex from emotion and lead fulfilled lives with their spouse while having sex with others - others can't. I realize this isn't a clear answer, but there is not one in this case. Good luck and let me know how it goes.

 

[fri2219]

I'm not sure I'd want my wife to have a dick at all, but if you want her to have a bigger one than what she has now, that's your prerogative- and don't be embarrassed if hers winds up bigger than yours, just accept and enjoy it.

 

[mywifewantsbigcock]

Dude you ask you self would it turn you on more to fuck you wife with a big cock man. 27 years with my wife and we are now looking for a big thick cock to have some real sex fun. Ask her

 

[CoachMcguirk]

When i stick my dick inside her, i want to se the reaction of OMG. like the porn guys.

They are actors, they are suppossed to act as though its a huge massive thing in them. They have had so many different cocks in them its nothing new. Those porn actresses have probably used dildo that are bigger then most people.

1) Is it okay that i let my wife fuck another man, if we're sure it won't affect our relationship, and really are only interested in it being a one time thing?

As long as their perfect communication between you two and your sure you can handle it then go ahead. Really you should just get a bigger dildo since most of them come in really big sizes.

2) Am i right in thinking my dick is pretty small compared to what she could take and would rather have? Yeah she loves my dick, but come-on if she had a huge fucking dick in her, she would fucking love it. She's taken Shampoo bottles before.

Your dick isn't small. Its bigger then average. Did she ever say she would rather have another bigger then your own? If not then stop trying to put words in her mouth. She said sex with you is really great. Not necessarily, if its too big it can be quite painful on her part.

I say just get a bigger dildo, it'll save alot of pressure between you and your wife.

 

[houtx48]

Is your wife still worried about how big her dick is?

 

[Uncutpete]

OP... The standard response around here is for commenters to jump in with an NFL-style pile on, to the effect of, don't! They will give you all sorts of reasons why you risk your marriage, and all sorts of reasons why she must be really satisfied with your size. The fact is that there are all sorts of very successful marriages and couples who bring third people into their sex lives. One of the reasons is for the wife to experience the feelings with a larger than average (your cock is decidedly average) size. For most of the couples that I have been with (dozens), it has been a boost to their sex lives, not a deal breaker to the marriage.
I suggest that, if your friend is ok with it, you are with them when they do the deed. It works best, in my experience.