Would this be considered cheating in a relationship?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by I have Foreskin, Mar 17, 2009.

  1. I have Foreskin

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    I have always loved huge tits. They are what every woman should have!

    But I've been wondering about this question for a while.

    Let's say I get married to a girl who is great in every way, except she has small tits, like B cups or something.

    I go on craigslist >> men seeking women >> erotic services or meet some woman at a bar or whatever who has really huge tits.

    I pay her or whatever to have a half hour or so of access to her tits. Squeeze em, suck em, lick em, maybe even titty fuck em.

    But I don't get anywhere near her pussy with my hands or my dick. I'm just there to get some big tit action, no sex, no kissing, etc.

    Would that be considered cheating?


    I know, all the women here will think I'm an asshole. But I NEED big tits at least once in a while!
     
  2. D_Jared Padalicki

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    Make sure then you marry a woman with big tits...
     
  3. psidom

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    yes that is cheating in my eyes.

    i think you knew that already though. ;)

    i think it is so odd how i am the complete opposite,
    Bcup to me is "big" whereas a Ccup is HUGE.
    anything above, is kinda, not AT ALL my thing.
    i prefer an A-B cup breast,with big hips.
     
  4. I have Foreskin

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    Well yes that is obviously plan #1.

    But in the event that I find a wonderful woman who likes me and she's great in every way except for her tits.... then the above question needs to be asked.
     
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    Nothing like planning ahead.....
     
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    Nice Answer: If you have to ask you already knew you are wrong. :mad:
    Quick Answer: Yes, it's cheating, you stupid, dumbass! :irked:
     
  7. Wish-4-8

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    The best way to answer this is to reverse the question.

    What if your wife goes and has men fondle, suck, fiddle, her breasts because her husband doesnt pay attention to them. There is no vagina sex, only breast fondling. Maybe a titty/ dick rub (since they are too small for a titty fuck) and the guy comes on her tits, because it makes her feel sexy. Oh, but NO SEX involved.

    Is that cheating?
     
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    Instead of doing the "not real sex" scenario u layer out, marry the great girl and sock away that money each time u think of it and then invest in augmentation.
     
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    Yeah save for a boob job.
     
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    I had the same question once. I'm with my BF for three years but I enjoy getting a massage from time to time. Usually they are normal, straight forward massages but once the guy saw I popped a boner and serviced it. No sex, just a J/O. Is that cheating? Some people said no, others said yes. In this case, being married and cruising Craigslist is cheating. What happened in my case started off innocently although I want to go back and keep holding off because of the "thought" of cheating.
     
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    It doesn't need to be asked because you then have a superwoman for yourself. So if it's only about the tits, take some implants for yourself so you can touch and lick youself :rolleyes:
     
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    It IS cheating. How could it not be you idiot.
     
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    Don't marry if you harbor any such thoughts. Let's hope your woman will love you for what you are as a person andnot for how impressive what you carry between your thighs is.
     
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    Absolutely, it is cheating. I suggest you don't get married until you find a girl with huge boobs that will have you. Good luck.
     
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    I would have to say that 9999999 out of a 10000000 scenerios that start with "Would this be considered cheating in a relationship?", would be considered cheating in the relationship
     
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    Simple rule of thumb. Anything you don't want your partner to know about because they'd be upset by it is cheating.

    Some women are into open relationships and encourage their man to experience fantasies that she doesn't fulfill. So something like this wouldn't be cheating for them. Some women would feel betrayed if you just had a one-on-one dinner with another woman. Every two people are different and every relationship is different and has its own boundaries and rules.
     
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    Um, yeah, this is obviously adultery. Better marry someone who has big boobies than.
     
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    A B-cup is small? I used to be a B-Cup, which I considered to be BIG, but now I'm a Double-D, which I consider to be HUGE. And the answer to your question is, yes...it's cheating. Here's something for you to ponder...would you consider this cheating if your wife met with a small-dick man just to fondle/stroke it because she just had to feel a small dick once in a while? You consider your dick between 2 tits and thrusting to get your rocks off as not being sex? Good grief! Did I just read something that Bill Clinton might have written? Aye chihuahua!
     
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