Would u have a 3way with ur gf & a male bi friend?

Discussion in 'Ask a Straight Man' started by 1284747, Nov 25, 2018.

?

Would you have a 3 way with your GF & a male Bi friend?

  1. Yes, any combination

  2. Yes, but only MFF

  3. Depends on the asker

  4. No, but it's ok to ask

  5. No, it's rude to ask

Results are only viewable after voting.
  1. 1284747

    1284747 Guest

    My best friend is pretty hot and he has a beautiful girlfriend for 8 months now. We're late teens/early 20s. He knows I'm bi and doesn't care. I don't think he'd be opposed to a 3 way in theory. But he's always been with girls and presents as totally straight and I respect and have no reason to doubt that. I am realistic, so while I'd like to, I would not propose to touch or fuck him. Just that we both take her. But I have to admit, seeing him nude and fucking her is a big part of the attraction.

    Can I just ask if they're interested? Or would that ruin our friendship forever?
    As a straight guy, how would you feel/react if your friend brought that up?
    Should I just let it go and find non-friends to try it with?
     
    teninchman likes this.
  2. NateRemix

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Jan 19, 2018
    Messages:
    57
    Albums:
    5
    Likes Received:
    4,343
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    United States
    Verified:
    Photo
    Ruin your friendship forever. Don’t ask.
     
    6inchcock, Hatt_101 and 693987 like this.
  3. 1234665

    1234665 Guest

    Thread fail.
     
    Hatt_101 likes this.
  4. Tomas26

    Tomas26 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jun 27, 2018
    Messages:
    2,289
    Likes Received:
    7,748
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Los Angeles (CA, US)
    Don’t ask right out. Start by bringing up the topic of threesomes in general... maybe even lie and say you were at a bar and approached by a couple. See what kind of reaction your friend has. If he’s not entirely offput by the idea of it in general, then wait a while, then return to the topic and slowly start to turn the conversation more personal.
     
    str8budchgo likes this.
  5. Hatt_101

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Sep 3, 2010
    Messages:
    4,255
    Albums:
    8
    Likes Received:
    6,991
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Ontario (CA)
    Verified:
    Photo
    No do not ask. It's going to look like you just want to do your friends girl. You have see that. And the fact that you actually just wanna watch him is just as awkward. If that's the type of friendship you have that you joke about watching them fine but it sounds like you have a regular friendship.
    If you want to make things weird and make yourself look like you want your friends girl go ahead and ask but If you truly respect him and their relationship don't ask them. Unless it's something they come to you with first
     
    SoaringSpirit likes this.
  6. sodominsane

    sodominsane Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Oct 2, 2010
    Messages:
    1,535
    Likes Received:
    2,029
    Location:
    ny
    I'd say....ask....maybe in an off handed way but

    1.I've kept few friends from my early 20s....but my sexual memory lives forever

    2.hey life is short...take a bite out of it while ya still got teeth

    3.I have had a TON of friends proposition me for sex....guys gals and couples .....some I said yes....some I said no....some I just plain chicked out off.....

    Well....I can remember argument with a best friend....i ended up punching him in the face....I was super upset that I lost my best friend

    My dad said...."if your best friend is not your friend anymore after a punch....well he wasn't ever your best friend"

    I think a proposition is in the same vein
     
    teninchman and SoaringSpirit like this.
  7. 1284747

    1284747 Guest

    I think this is a good approach to gauge reaction. Im also aware even if he is ok that doesnt mean she is and its as much for her to agree too
     
    Tomas26 likes this.
  8. ronin001

    Gold Member Platinum Gold

    Joined:
    May 16, 2009
    Messages:
    8,547
    Albums:
    5
    Likes Received:
    40,296
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    New York (NY, US)
    Soooooo, do the woman in any of these scenarios have the ability to voice their opinions; or is the decision about sex solely made by the 2 men.
     
  9. 1284747

    1284747 Guest

    ...

     
  10. RonaldoCopa

    RonaldoCopa Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Nov 26, 2017
    Messages:
    305
    Likes Received:
    533
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Brazil
    Polls like this won't show you a satisfactory result.

    It is like opening a poll in the women's forum about penis size.
     
    Hatt_101 likes this.
  11. GoingOnABoeing

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Jan 10, 2018
    Messages:
    346
    Albums:
    5
    Likes Received:
    1,717
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Orlando (FL, US)
    Verified:
    Photo
    I would have no problem having a threesome with another male friend but the girl would have to be someone that neither of us had feelings for.
     
    mplsingleguy, Sunstar and blackhandle like this.
  12. 1284747

    1284747 Guest

    So if it was your girlfriend, you would be upset for your friend to ask?
     
  13. 554279

    554279 Guest

    There are probably plenty of "hot" unattached, males and females for you too fuck.

    If your just looking for NSA sex with a couple go with a married couple.

    If this is a legitimate question spare your relationships ships.
     
    ronin001 likes this.
  14. GoingOnABoeing

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Jan 10, 2018
    Messages:
    346
    Albums:
    5
    Likes Received:
    1,717
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Orlando (FL, US)
    Verified:
    Photo
    I wouldn't be upset if asked. I just probably wouldn't do it with a wife or girlfriend. I'd just find a nice girl that was down with getting tag teamed.
     
    Sunstar likes this.
Draft saved Draft deleted
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice