Would u shag a gay guy?

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  1. HugeBrazilian

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    Would any woman shag a gay guy that is a bit curious?

    I am talking about myself... I would love to try to shag a girl who knows I am gay!

    PS. Very straight acting guys like me!
     
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    My best friend is gay. I've had sex with him before...
     
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    Wow. and how was it? What did you feel? I mean, knowing he was gay? Was it normal or there was something different? Like the way straight guys do?
     
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    It's past noon. How did you do?
     
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    answering in a theoretical sense obviously, I don't think I could do it. even though I'd intellectually understand if his response was "meh," it would still hurt my feelings.

    would I watch him and his boyfriend? now THERE's a yes!
     
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    I ask a friend of mine all the ime if i can give him a bj. Ive never asked for sex but if it progressed after the bj then id be happy...However he always laughs it off and says women do nothing for him, guess i just have to respect his choice

    Actually do gay men still find women sexually attractive, can they even get a hard on because of a woman?
     
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    I find women very attractive
    but for me its more like appreciating a work of art more than anything else
    can a women get me hard?
    no idea to be honest... the last time (and it was also the first time) I went home with a woman I was that drunk that nothing was going to happen (and nothing did although it did cause a few rumours at work - never be the gay guy to go home with the hot blonde with the large breasts).
     
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    Nope... Nothing so far... Lol
     
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    Yeah, I know, sometimes I wonder if I was a girl, I would feel like, I don't, I would just feel like not doing. Because maybe psychologycally thinking, Something inside me would teel me that he is not really interested on me, or so....
     
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    In my case that really depends... There are a few days when I wake up feeling like wanting a woman... And as I do not try do anything anymore with women (because I don't like the fact of flerting and everything and pretend I am straight, etc... It is too hard work) so I just prefer watching a porno movie. To be honest with you, I get turn on for woman's Breast, Legs and Bum... not much for the main attraction.. LOL
     
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    yep. and I would feel like "generic representative of female sex" instead of "sares."

    that's how I feel about women. I am an illustrator and often I draw women, and I really do love their shape, but it is not arousing at all.
     
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    What if there was somebody you really really fancy, someone you think was very hot, just your type and you find out he is gay, and would like to try woman once... would you give him the opportunity and maybe have your opportunity? Or you would just have a turn off for knowing he is gay?
     
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    Actually, if a gay man tried to bed me, I'd be a little damaged. I mean. Damn'. He's not turned on by women. So when he looks at me, what's the attraction? Am I mannish? Do I need a wax? Do I need butt implants? Why's he dig me? No, it's a no.
     
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    yes, just knowing would turn me off. attraction is not just visual/physical, it is very much in the brain. I know there are "straight-acting" gay guys, so I'm not talking about stereotypical "gay" behaviours, I'm talking about the very fact that in your hypothetical situation, I am 100% the man is gay. that is a huge mental flag that does not appeal to me, much as I would find it unappealing if I knew 100% a man was a bigot.

    (no I am not saying gays are bigots. I am pointing out another completely non-physical cue that would turn me off a handsome man.)

    a straight woman who was attracted to gay men -- and I know there are fag hags out there who are -- probably has issues with self-worth and un/consciously choosing unavailable men. I'm not like that. I know what I like, and a real passion for pussy (specifically my pussy) is top of the list.
     
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    Been there. Done that. He's still gay. :rolleyes:
     
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    So, basically when I have my urge to bed a girl, that doesn't happen very often, do you think I should jut not say anything? "What the eyes doesn't see, the heart doesn't feel"? I just feel bad when I cannot be honest... but I am also afraid of being rejected if I tell them...

    But I do understand you point, If I was a woman I think I would feel the same!
     
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    Beautiful women are attractive.

    As a man (with limited heterosexual experince), I can honestly say when a woman, who I consider beautiful, catches my eye.

    Some of those women, when I tell them I have never had sex with a woman, have offered to "be the one" but I tell them I'd have to have another guy there with me who knows what he's doing and guide me through the experience.

    Although I've watched straight friends of mine have sex, I have never been part of the sex act but I would if I could.

    I've certainly had a hardon watching as the girl gets fucked - I'd stay hard if the guy asked me to go in after him - just knowing he'd been in there. As for a girl by herself - I'd feel out of my depth.
     
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    I would do it if I knew in advance he was gay and it was just for fun. I could get into the experimental aspect without being hurt personally if he didn't just fall in love with my twat- I wouldn't expect that.

    I think perhaps a lot would depend on how the girl felt about casual sex to begin with. A lot of women aren't too hip on "friends with benefits", preferring relationships.

    HugeBrazilian, if you are interested in shagging a woman, please just be honest with her about what you want. Pretending to like her for more than an experiment could hurt her feelings if it doesn't go that way. No desire is wrong as long as the people involved know what they are getting in to. Good luck, and let us know if you find the right girl, and what it's like for you.


    edit- like all aspects of sex, there is no one answer for "Do gay guys still get turned on by women?" It depends on WHAT gay guy, everyone is different.
     
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    completely agree with this. I've never been one for casual sex, just lots of sex within relationships. :tongue:

    there is probably a girl out there who would wear it like a badge of honour. "he is gay but he wanted ME!"
     
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    Been asked to but, nope.
     
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