Would you accept photographing nudes for a friend if he asked to?

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Would take naked photos of your friend if he asked you to?


I really like being photographed naked by other people. Not doing anything or interacting with the person, only being observed while I'm jerking off and playing with my body

I don't have intention of sharing those photos or videos online, they are only for me and for guys I want to send nudes on dating apps and such

I have my roommate who is also gay and I'm thinking on asking his help for this. I have no interesting in engaging with him in any sexual way, as we are very close and I love him as a friend. I'm afraid if he starts to watch me naked and taking pictures of me in sexual positions he can starts to get confused and see me as a potential sexual partner

I bekieve if it was me I would have no problem in filming my friend jerking off or even having sex, but I realize I might be a weird one and most of guys would just want to join the fun


Should I ask his help? Or should I look anybody else? Or even forget about this fetish completely?
 

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Don’t ask him. He may be gay but he’s your roommate and you have the possibility to form a lifelong friendship and bond with them if you like him. You don’t want it to become awkward and there’s plenty of people online who could take your pics. Go on a photography website or site like modelmayhem or even one of the apps and ask people there. Or better yet find a photographer in your area who is known to make such content and just reach out to them.
 

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I was the lover of an older man who had a leather fetish and who loved photographing me wearing leather. Not all of the photographs were explicit but the end result of each shoot was always sex, either with him or a friend of his.
 
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Would take naked photos of your friend if he asked you to?


I really like being photographed naked by other people. Not doing anything or interacting with the person, only being observed while I'm jerking off and playing with my body

I don't have intention of sharing those photos or videos online, they are only for me and for guys I want to send nudes on dating apps and such

I have my roommate who is also gay and I'm thinking on asking his help for this. I have no interesting in engaging with him in any sexual way, as we are very close and I love him as a friend. I'm afraid if he starts to watch me naked and taking pictures of me in sexual positions he can starts to get confused and see me as a potential sexual partner

I bekieve if it was me I would have no problem in filming my friend jerking off or even having sex, but I realize I might be a weird one and most of guys would just want to join the fun


Should I ask his help? Or should I look anybody else? Or even forget about this fetish completely?
Has he gave you any reason to think that he wouldn't be able to just take the pictures and be done?
 

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I think Inoum is right. Don't ask him. Me myself and gay friends of mine use to take nude pictures of each other quite often but we've known each other for a long time. Maybe ask your roommate later, when you have a really established friendship.
As Imoun writes, there are a lot of male photographers who would be glad to take jerk-off pics of a young guy like you.
 

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You don't want to confuse your roommate. He is gay and male and we will start to have sexual feelings for you. It is natural.
Don't complicate it.
If this photo project is that important to you, you can get some of the equipment need to do it yourself.

Put value of friendship over porn creation.
 
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Would take naked photos of your friend if he asked you to?


I really like being photographed naked by other people. Not doing anything or interacting with the person, only being observed while I'm jerking off and playing with my body

I don't have intention of sharing those photos or videos online, they are only for me and for guys I want to send nudes on dating apps and such

I have my roommate who is also gay and I'm thinking on asking his help for this. I have no interesting in engaging with him in any sexual way, as we are very close and I love him as a friend. I'm afraid if he starts to watch me naked and taking pictures of me in sexual positions he can starts to get confused and see me as a potential sexual partner

I bekieve if it was me I would have no problem in filming my friend jerking off or even having sex, but I realize I might be a weird one and most of guys would just want to join the fun


Should I ask his help? Or should I look anybody else? Or even forget about this fetish completely?
You are better off taking photos yourself. Keep the fetish...a fetish.

Well if a guy asked me to take photos of him jerking off (and he was good looking enough). I would want to join in.
 
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Sure, no problem but that I am not an experienced photographer, I have not the eye trained for light, focus etc.
On the other end I understand that its not easy to take picture of themselves, especially naked and in certain poses, so I can for sure lend a hand to a friend for that, and in the more professional and technical way I can.
Then its is sure a fun thing, so I am happy to do that. But always professional.
 

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I once let a former intern at my office take nude photos of me. This was about a year after we'd both left the company and he asked if I'd pose for him as he was doing a photo series of male nudes. It was kind of awkward at first, but I went into another room, took off all my clothes, and walked out completely naked and let him see everything.
 
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OOh yes. I have several times. When I was younger in my late teens early twenties I would was a waitress at a gay club where I wore nothing but a tiny little apron and wedge heel shoes. I also danced nude and did nude lap dances. If the man wanted to fuck me, it would cost him $300, and a lot of cum. I could make anywhere up $1,000 on a good weekend! (A blowjob would cost $150). Otherwise I was waitressing tables in my tiny little apron recovered nothing in the back and very little in the front. So they weren't supposed to the guys were always touching me and grabbing me which was fine with me I loved it!
 

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I did take nude photos for a couple of friends. Good friends, no fuck buddies or anything like that. I love to embrace nudity living here in Europe. It differs from other parts of the world where I have lived and worked.
 
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Would take naked photos of your friend if he asked you to?...
I've been asked by a couple of my friends to take naked photos of them

The first, he wanted new pics for his Grindr profile.

Nothing sexual happened.

I certainly would ask them if they could take nudes of you for your Grindr profile.
 

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I've taken naked photographs of friends and vice versa. Some were for personal collections, some more professional and artistic, and others for use on hook-up and other sites. See nothing wrong with it.
 
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Would take naked photos of your friend if he asked you to?


I really like being photographed naked by other people. Not doing anything or interacting with the person, only being observed while I'm jerking off and playing with my body

I don't have intention of sharing those photos or videos online, they are only for me and for guys I want to send nudes on dating apps and such

I have my roommate who is also gay and I'm thinking on asking his help for this. I have no interesting in engaging with him in any sexual way, as we are very close and I love him as a friend. I'm afraid if he starts to watch me naked and taking pictures of me in sexual positions he can starts to get confused and see me as a potential sexual partner

I bekieve if it was me I would have no problem in filming my friend jerking off or even having sex, but I realize I might be a weird one and most of guys would just want to join the fun


Should I ask his help? Or should I look anybody else? Or even forget about this fetish completely?
I think you'll need to judge how mature he is.

I'm a professional photographer and do freelance headshots. One of my college buddies got headshots from me, and then later asked if I do boudoir, as he was starting sex work and needed advertising material. I'd never done it before, but we discussed it and went for it.

We did full erections and flaccid, but no touching or sexuality at all from me, and no cumming. I was strictly professional the entire time, referred to him getting hard as "fluffing" like it was a porn shoot, did not get hard at all myself (fully clothed), etc. He jerked to porn on his phone to fluff and then stepped back into the lights.

Now, I came multiple times while editing. He's attractive, I'm gay, and spending 10 hours staring at his body without getting aroused was never going to be possible, lol.

But I'm mature and respectful. I want us to be able to be friends without awkwardness, so I have no desire to hook up with him, even though I can be very attracted to his body. So I'll moan and shoot ropes looking at his hard cock, but when it comes to him as a person, we're just great friends. I'm not romantically interested in him, so no feelings develop.

Sexual attraction to me does not equate to emotional attachment. Decades of porn have taught me that I can experience sexual gratification without any connection whatsoever to my emotions. So if I'm gonna stare at his attractive body and cock for an hour while artfully tweaking the lighting to make him look as attractive as possible, I'm gonna end up hard, and might as well rub one out. But it might as well be porn to me. No awkwardness, because I keep attraction and emotion separate.

Can your roommate be like that? Are they able to compartmentalize their attraction like that? If so, seems totally fine to me.
 
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Depends. I have photographed lovers nude at their request but not friends like a platonic friend--none have ever asked.

As a fetish do you get erect when others photograph you? Would you get erect if your roomie did take photos of you? Then I would say don't ask him unless you tell him up front that it's a fetish. He needs to know in advance that this is sexual for you even though there will be no body contact.