Would you be scared or excited if your lover set this ( 1sr pic } up for you.

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Like the title says, i'm just wondering how to present this to her? I know she would love it but it is kinda kinky.
The 2nd pic is our selection of sex toys, what do you guys think of the variety?
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The women's issues forum is not for you to show off your toy collection or gather tales of how much women would love to use your sex toys.

The question you are asking can be answered equally by women and men who have been in your situation.

I have moved your thread to a more appropriate section of the forum.
 

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The women's issues forum is not for you to show off your toy collection or gather tales of how much women would love to use your sex toys.

The question you are asking can be answered equally by women and men who have been in your situation.

I have moved your thread to a more appropriate section of the forum.

Sorry for that and thanks for moving it:)
 

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There's no real problem.

But I don't think I'd be "presenting" things to a lover - of either gender.

There should be discussion, gradually, over time. Over the months and years of getting to know someone properly.

All kinds of things can be part of that - parties, nightclubs ... watching TV together ... nights out in various places ... holidays ... movies/porn ... magazines ... but mostly discussions ...

Then when you know each other properly and are comfortable, anything can be discussed, sensibly, rationally, and with care for each other.

It's a bit strange, I think, to be trying to think of ways of smuggling into a conversation something like "... hey, babe, would you like me to ____ you with this huge strap-on ?" ... or "wha-hey, what if I use this ... ?!" ... :redface: