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Originally posted by SurferGirlCA@Aug 24 2005, 03:19 AM
Of course you could always try something radical like telling him you love him but miss the physical contact and intimacy with him. You said he knows you like being touched, so maybe you should find out more about what his concerns are or why your sex life seems to have cooled off. Also, I know some people said you should discard your toys but I wonder if maybe you've thought about letting him use a toy on you. That's something you both might find pleasurable and it might let him feel like he has a greater part in pleasuring you. I dunno, as with so many things involving human relationships, we spend a lot of time trying to mindread when communication would help resolve things... at least in terms of sharing concerns and desires. Good luck!
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I hear what you are saying....and Yes you are very correct. I do want everythnig you mentioned. We have talked about it many times, but not lately. I just hate having to ask all the time. It would be nice if he did it without me asking, know what I mean? I like to be made special too... :happy: