aqua-illusion
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this question is wrong,
it always is the other way around,
the closet will never consider an "out" man for a b/f.
they always get too freaked that someone will find out cause you are too gay to be just a friend.
This is an interesting view of things...It's not like I wouldn't consider an already out boyfriend, for me it's like what you said, I would be afraid someone would find out...all throughout my school years I was always branded as the gay guy and I would always deny it...well a part of me doesn't want them to have the satisfaction of saying "I told you so"
I know someone in a situation where...he slept with many women, too many to remember and they all know/knew of him as a man-whore...one day he just shows up with another guy as "my friend". they are ALWAYS together, hell they even live together now, but he is always introduced as "my friend". He maintains that he's straight and that this guy is "just a friend" but we all know hes gay/bi...no questions, your friend shares a bed? ok!
For me the questions of "coming out" would be...if my "Friend" wanted me to, I've told some of my immediate family, but no one in my extended family knows (strong Christians, and Asians) and none of my friends know...
When I try and talk to gays/bis in my city I always run the risk in my head of .... will someone find out? :frown1: oh the life of a closet gay/bi.