Would You Consider Being a Cougar Teacher?

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There's always something to be learned from someone else, especially sexually-speaking and especially from a mature woman, at least I believe.

I do believe the distance would be an issue.

Of course, if this guy is going to want more out of it than you are, that can be a problem, you'll have to tell him the truth of what you are expecting out of this.

Oh we discussed at length, the arrangement not so much the teaching part.
 

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Wow, Act2, interesting thread.

In the last year, I've had two younger men (21 and 24) as side dishes -- that means, in addition to my bf, but with his full knowledge and consent. But I've gone cold turkey -- no more young men!

To me, it's the expectation that terrifies me. Like because I'm a good looking "older" woman (milf), then I'm going to be able to teach them all this stuff...

.... what?? ....

.... and I freeze in my tracks ....

When I have sex, I don't want the burden of "education." I just want to have a good time without worrying if I'm living up to someone's expectation about "teaching them." Heck, I'm still educating myself!

For this reason, I've started avoiding younger men. (Sorry guys!)
 

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Wow, Act2, interesting thread.

In the last year, I've had two younger men (21 and 24) as side dishes -- that means, in addition to my bf, but with his full knowledge and consent. But I've gone cold turkey -- no more young men!

To me, it's the expectation that terrifies me. Like because I'm a good looking "older" woman (milf), then I'm going to be able to teach them all this stuff...

.... what?? ....

.... and I freeze in my tracks ....

When I have sex, I don't want the burden of "education." I just want to have a good time without worrying if I'm living up to someone's expectation about "teaching them." Heck, I'm still educating myself!

For this reason, I've started avoiding younger men. (Sorry guys!)

I don't want the burden of "education" either, as I am still rather sexually inexperienced myself. I still like me some younger men, though! :tongue: (all that stamina!!! all that sex drive!!! Ummm.....where was I?)
 

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Now for this particular young man, it won't work out. But the thought lingers.

Yeah, well, Act2, oh goddess with the most amazing chest... why wouldn't it work out? (You touched upon it off and on in the thread, but I couldn't wrap my wits around it.)

I know I don't do "Cougar" because of reasons given earlier, but if I didn't have a bf, and the guy was relatively mature, I might go for it.

Is it the potential pain?
 

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In the last year, I've had two younger men (21 and 24) as side dishes -- that means, in addition to my bf, but with his full knowledge and consent. But I've gone cold turkey -- no more young men!

To me, it's the expectation that terrifies me. Like because I'm a good looking "older" woman (milf), then I'm going to be able to teach them all this stuff...

.... what?? ....

.... and I freeze in my tracks ....

When I have sex, I don't want the burden of "education." I just want to have a good time without worrying if I'm living up to someone's expectation about "teaching them." Heck, I'm still educating myself!

For this reason, I've started avoiding younger men. (Sorry guys!)

MILF as usual ( what is with that!) you wrote my sentiments exactly. Word for word.

Thanks

x
Honey
 

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What does he need to learn? :)

...OB

OB, hiya! I believe this young man needed to learn about the journey and have less concern about the destination.

When I have sex, I don't want the burden of "education." I just want to have a good time without worrying if I'm living up to someone's expectation about "teaching them." Heck, I'm still educating myself!

I am struggling with this very thing. Very much believe the man should be the agressor for the most part. Not that I cannot play that role, but in general, I want to be taken. I want to be taught. So why the post? Because while I search for my partner, I started to contemplate and interim thingy.

Yeah, well, Act2, oh goddess with the most amazing chest... why wouldn't it work out? (You touched upon it off and on in the thread, but I couldn't wrap my wits around it.)

Wowzers! Thank you, how very flattering. I am humbled, truly. It won't work for a variety of reasons. One being that I don't think he could control his emotions. I know how arrogant that sounds, but I just know me and how I serve a man. I think he would get way too attached. Another reason, he is young in mind too young. Funny guy, but not a lot to talk about. I gotta have some mental stuff going on. Another reason ... too small.
 

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I am struggling with this very thing. Very much believe the man should be the agressor for the most part. Not that I cannot play that role, but in general, I want to be taken. I want to be taught.

Bingo!! I didn't even know I was thinking it, and you said it!


... I don't think he could control his emotions.... ... he is young in mind too young.... ... too small.

Say no more! You have already said it all. :wink:

Well, it's obvious -- we need to get you a MAN!! :biggrin1:
 

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the whole concept of this always fascinated me as i'm still a virgin. i'm not against it at all, in fact i've fantasized about it from time to time. oh boy its all so abstract to me 0: )
 

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When do classes start!? :biggrin1:

Not that I need to be taught very much, but its kinda hot, an older woman going mad for a younger guy.

Never happened to me unfortunately.

PS I am deeply saddened that hotmilf has been taken off the market :(
Seems my older woman dream will ever come true now!
 

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I really WISH I had an older woman (early 30's to late 40's, although I'd be very flexible with this) be my own cougar teacher. I'm not totally inexperienced and I've gotten compliments, but still, ever since I hit puberty I've had this huge fetish for having some form of sexual tryst with an older woman.

If you're an older lady visiting or living in FL who wants to get with a handsome, young guy..PLEASE shoot me a message. ;)


edit: I am also perfectly fine with a woman who doesn't expect to have to teach me anything. I just want to fufill my older woman fantasy. :)
 

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Older women look RIDICULOUS coming on to younger men. It's not hot, it's not sexy, it's just plain desperate and pathetic.
 

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Older women look RIDICULOUS coming on to younger men. It's not hot, it's not sexy, it's just plain desperate and pathetic.

Speak for yourself. I think it's hot and it shows confidence, actually... It's especially hot when I'm the target, too. :biggrin1:
 

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Older women look RIDICULOUS coming on to younger men. It's not hot, it's not sexy, it's just plain desperate and pathetic.


Depends on the woman and the demonstrated interest, or lack of same, in the man.
If systems on both sides are go, nothing ridiculous or pathetic about it, says this scholarly non-practitioner.:cool:
Of course, the age difference is important, too.
 

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I don't think so at all.
Does a younger man look ridiculous when he's coming on to an older woman?

Let's say No, No_Strings.
But that wouldn't mean that the reverse wouldn't look ridiculous.
There doesn't have to be any symmetry here.
But I happen to agree with you ... in many cases, an older woman doesn't look ridiculous.
 

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Let's say No, No_Strings.
But that wouldn't mean that the reverse wouldn't look ridiculous.
There doesn't have to be any symmetry here.
But I happen to agree with you ... in many cases, an older woman doesn't look ridiculous.

Why should it matter who makes the first move?
Perhaps someone should tell her that not all older women who come on to younger men are lonely, desperate and scared of middle age. Sometimes two people just like each other.
What does it matter if one person is 20 years older, 20 years younger or the same age?