Would you date a bi male?

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serious question. I tried searching, but couldn’t find a post like this.

Would you girls ever date a bi man? If you went on a few dates and found out the guy was bi and has had relationships in the past with males and females... would it be a deal breaker?

When would be the appropriate time to bring it up? First date? After a few dates?

Thank you in advance.
 
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Would you ever hookup with a guy who has mostly been with guys?

That thread was created/posted today.

As for the rest.. most of the results from just searching "bi" in thread titles within Ask a Woman are relevant.

Search Results for Query: bi | LPSG

In any case. As I've said before in probably multiple ways at this point, in and of itself I have no problem with bisexuality from anyone I were to date. Having said that, LPSG has made me extremely wary, given how many asshole men on here excuse infidelity if it's with another man. If you agreed to monogamy it doesn't matter who you're fucking. It's cheating. It's a piece of shit, scumbag thing to do. If you're poly, swing, whatever, and everyone knows, go fucking wild.

I have been with men who had been with men, women, and other gender identities. I have no problem with it. We knew the relationship parameters from the beginning, and held to them. The one I was involved with for the longest amount of time, he told me either the first or second time we talked, but I also originally met him at a BDSM dungeon. I may have seen it on his Fetlife profile too, I can't remember at this point. It was quite some time ago and not something I had any negative feelings about. It's not something I have a fetish/kink for though, either.
 
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It'd depend on the guy. If he was amazing in all the other ways I look for (and I was amazing in all the ways he looks for), I'd consider it, but it'd probably be unlikely.

I think it's tricky to know when to bring it up... probably most/many women would be turned off enough by the idea that disclosing early on would prevent the potential of more dates, but too late may make many/most women feel misled. IMO, this 100% must be disclosed prior to having sex.
 

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I personally haven’t had very good luck with bisexual men - they haven’t been too faithful and desire dick too much. I used to be quite open to relationships with them, but the last one really did my head in, I’d be extremely wary of getting involved with another. Monogamy is really important to me, feeling desired is important to me and if I cannot meet all his needs sexually, I’m not willing to bring a third party in just because I can’t scratch one particular itch.
 
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It comes down to their ability to be faithful.

I see this as no different than partnering with someone who has dated blondes.
I’m not. Cannot be, will not be.

If my partner can be a one-person person, then all systems are go.

I can be faithful to a person with blue eyes, although I also find green or brown eyes appealing. If that is true for my partner....
 
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Date, have sexual relations yes sure. If I was going to think about entering into a full blown relationship then I would need some reassurance that said guy isn't going to run off with a guy, I mean am I second best to a guy, how bi are you? etc etc.
I have absolutely no problem with a partner who would like to mix things up a little as long as he was truly mine, I'm a little bi myself although I prefer men overall.
As it happens my hubby is completely straight but it wouldn't bother me if he wasn't, it would just add to our freaky fun and extra curricula activities :D;)X
 
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The Love of My Life is a Bi Male & I'm a bi female. We don't fool around on the other.

There are too many stereotypes that are completely untrue about bi people. We are human just like everyone else.

Our sexuality does not equate to being promiscuous or screwing everything that walks.

I wouldn't trade our relationship & love for anything in this world.