Would you date a guy with a vagina?

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by sargon20, May 9, 2010.

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Would you date a guy with a vagina and no penis?

Poll closed May 19, 2010.
  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. sargon20

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    On a recent episode of Oprah I was totally blown away by a possibilty I had never thought of. The guest was a transgendered guy who while was a man but had not completed the total process, he looked totally like a guy but had a vagina. He said apparently it's very hard to make a penis out of a vagina so he had stopped at that point.


    He at first was attracted to women but found that women didn't like him or were not attacted to him because he had no penis. He looked totally like a man. So instead he began a relationship with a 'gay man' whom he has sex with which of course is very interesting in that this gay man is having vaginal sex with a man. I've heard of chicks with dicks but this was the flip, guys with vagina's. :scratchchin:
     
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    I voted yes, but would like to clarify. I have found myself attracted to f-to-m trannies before. One in particular at a holiday party is extremely memorable. However, I would miss the penis. I could have regular sex with such a man, but ultimately, I'm going to need to have a source of real penis. I really like vagina, but I strongly prefer penis. I don't think I could be sexually fulfilled without access to one. No pun intended.
     
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    Wait he was born like this and needed surgery or he had an unfinished sex change? I think I would be confused by the entire situation. I don't know how I would feel. If it was a sex change absolute NO. But if he was born that way.... I just don't know. I would hate to say no, but obviously I want someone with a penis. I didn't think it would be fair to vote because I don't know having never experienced anything to do with anyone's vagina accept mine.
     
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    I would date him and probably fuck him. If that guy is really nice looking...nice legs and hard muscle ass. Oh, God I am going fuck that guy's pussy!!!
     
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    F2M transsexuals actually have a lot more work than M2Fs in order to be completely successful in their gender reassignment: mastectomies, hysterectomy and other body work (lipo, etc). Unfortunately phalloplasties are not really attractive, nor do they function like a real penis (except for urination).

    Do a Google Image search and you'll understand why they are not so popular.

    I actually know someone who's going through the preliminaries right now, and he'd decided from the beginning not to get a phalloplasty. It wasn't until he'd sent me some links that I really got it myself.
     
  6. Fleur

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    I've been attracted to women who identify as genderqueer...so why not? It's not the same, I know...but it could be called similar.

    Here's a porn of some genderqueer women (Jiz Lee, Sid Blakovich are in this)...

    Jiz Lee ALPHAFEMMES
     
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    Yeah I have a friend who went through F2M reassignment. He had a phaloplasty, he is an extremely attractive man actually and before he had the phaloplasty there was some chemistry and we made out a few times, but I don't think I could sleep with him now.
     
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    She was born a woman but wanted to become a man. So began the process but as Bbucko says below it's a lot more work and risk. So he or she at that point stopped, tired dating women as he looked like a man except he had a vagina.

    Huuum very intersting and indeed not very attractive from the pictures. The journey seems long and ultimately a bit of a compromise. Chaz Bono is now officially a man. I wonder how far he went :confused:
     
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    I voted no. I don't consider transgendered people as male or female unless the process is complete transformation and even then chromosomes are chromosomes.

    A guy to me is about more than whether you have a dick and no breasts. Body shape, firmness and definition all make the package.
     
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    I'm not discounting the possibility. Who knows?
     
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    The way I perceived the issue...the man would still be manly--hard body, hairy chest, deep voice...only HE would have a vagina. I would date a guy with a vagina. That would be interesting. I would fuck him in his vagina. If I wanted some cock...I would meet a guy with a penis.
     
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    Here he is....

    Transgender Teen Update - Oprah.com
     
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    Assuming I was single... still no.
     
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    I wouldn't date him or fuck him in his teenage years though. I'd wait until he was twenty. Date him...fuck his vagina when he is twenty years old...no less.
     
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    Date? Sure.

    Have sex with? No.
    A vagina would never turn me on.
     
  16. sargon20

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    I think that's the problem he was having, so he's now dating men. He said women would date him then lose interest.
     
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    I understand that. I couldn't mess around with a woman with a penis (a chick with a dick.). But I wouldn't deny any person that pleasure if they wanted a woman with a penis. I am not turned on by that.
     
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    all depends on the chemistry.
     
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    Op I'm really happy for you, and ima let you finish....but actual women have the greatest vaginas of all TIME!!!
     
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