Would you date a man with a bigger butt than you?

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I think that the butt is a sensitive topic for every race because different races have different opinions as to what a great butt is; Caucasian women commonly think a great but should be proportional, toned and small whereas African woman think that a great butt is large, powerful and has a great presence on the body even if it's disproportionate.

As a young man of 19, my butt is huge. It sticks out proudly and past my shoulder blades and is mostly muscle so that it's firm. It is definitely bigger than most women's. A work colleague was talking about it, saying how it is bigger than the average man's and how it was even bigger than a woman's. It along with my big thighs make my trousers tight and accentuates the sheer size of my butt. At work at a clothing retailer, a girl said "Oh my God" when she walked past and unsure that she was talking about me, I look at them to see her friend looking back at me.

Still, when researching if women actually like man with a big butt, the responses range from "eww" to "no" for Caucasian women and "enough to grab" to "it shouldn't be bigger than mine" for African women.

But my waist is 33 inches and my butt is 41 inches and getting bigger slowly.
 

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I have no choice. My ass is very small. Disproportionately small. I have giant boobs, and hardly any backside. I'm black, and culturally, this is not seen as particularly attractive. I bust my ass with squats, stair climbing, deadlifts, and it is a lovely shape as a result, but still tiny in size. It is a source of humor between friends and I. I came to accept it would never stick out as far as my breasts. And I'm happy with it as ling as it stays nice and tight, and doesn't droop. So would I date a guy with an ass bigger than mine? Sure. I like to see a juicy booty, and it's never going to show up in the mirror. He'd just have to have a sense of humor about it, as my friends and I would no doubt make lots of jokes about him stealing my portion of booty.
 

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I'm satisfied with my butt... now. I figuratively and literally worked my ass off to get it where it is. I love his butt. I adore his butt. His butt is perfect. I like to pinch it, squeeze it and just look at it until he gets so self-conscious he tells me to stop. But I won't.

Honestly, I have no idea how his butt compares with mine, and I have no intention to do that. I know his waist size but have no idea about his hips. Doesn't matter actually.
 

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I assume what you mean is waist-hip ratio? Because on an absolute scale the average man does have a slightly larger butt than the average woman. The difference is their waists are thinner.

As for waist-hip ratio, you are at 0.8. If I am not mistaken, you would have to be about 0.75 before you start considering your butt to be relatively bigger than women.

For reference, my WHR is 0.85 (32 waist, 38 hips), which is not unusual for slim men. Anyway, I have never heard anyone comment about my butt being too big for them!
 
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A girl I knew who once said I have "back off" told me once to not put my hands in my pocket as when I did the tightness accentuated my butt more.

I believe that numbers have little baring when it comes to how someone looks. My friend who is 2-3 inches taller than me and worked out weighed as much as me who is smaller and silm. Arnold Schwarzenegger apparently has the same BMI as when he was a bodybuilder. Besides, if my measurements were so normal I wouldn't be ripping 32 slim trousers. My waist says that I should be wearing medium boxers but my ass won't let me, it barely covers it so I wear large. It doesn't matter though, I love my big bum.
 

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40inch, You already have your answer - 'It doesn't matter though, I love my big bum.' You need to find women who like your sweet ass as much as/more than you do! I dated a guy once who was not a boob guy, and it was sad that I liked my boobs more than he did. After him, I resolved not to date men who are not my people (boob guys), and it has been the best choice I have made for myself. There are ALWAYS people who are into what you've got going on - sometimes it takes a while to fiind them though. The girl who told you to "back off" - not your people. That's like telling me to cover up my cleavage. I just HAVE cleavage, and when it's not inappropriate, why shouldn't I revel in it? Go find your people and cheers to your tight ass!
 

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I think that the butt is a sensitive topic for every race because different races have different opinions as to what a great butt is; Caucasian women commonly think a great but should be proportional, toned and small whereas African woman think that a great butt is large, powerful and has a great presence on the body even if it's disproportionate.

As a young man of 19, my butt is huge. It sticks out proudly and past my shoulder blades and is mostly muscle so that it's firm. It is definitely bigger than most women's. A work colleague was talking about it, saying how it is bigger than the average man's and how it was even bigger than a woman's. It along with my big thighs make my trousers tight and accentuates the sheer size of my butt. At work at a clothing retailer, a girl said "Oh my God" when she walked past and unsure that she was talking about me, I look at them to see her friend looking back at me.

Still, when researching if women actually like man with a big butt, the responses range from "eww" to "no" for Caucasian women and "enough to grab" to "it shouldn't be bigger than mine" for African women.

But my waist is 33 inches and my butt is 41 inches and getting bigger slowly.

I find it hard to find jeans that fit well normally I'll get size 36 baggy fit even though 34 is my actual size. It's hard to find some that fit well in the butt area/crotch and thighs only the "baggy jeans do this for me". I find i walk more naturally with well fitting jeans. I have not gotten any negative remarks about my butt at all...
 
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40inch, You already have your answer - 'It doesn't matter though, I love my big bum.' You need to find women who like your sweet ass as much as/more than you do! I dated a guy once who was not a boob guy, and it was sad that I liked my boobs more than he did. After him, I resolved not to date men who are not my people (boob guys), and it has been the best choice I have made for myself. There are ALWAYS people who are into what you've got going on - sometimes it takes a while to fiind them though. The girl who told you to "back off" - not your people. That's like telling me to cover up my cleavage. I just HAVE cleavage, and when it's not inappropriate, why shouldn't I revel in it? Go find your people and cheers to your tight ass!

You've got the wrong idea. I'm simply asking if women date men with butts bigger than them. I've seen the statement and so I'm asking the question. Don't think that I'm not comfortable about myself or have issues with people talking about my proportions.

And I said that the girl commented that I have back off meaning that my butt sticks out.
 

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I would date a guy with a bigger ass, yes. But since I'm not a slacker myself in that area, I just may have some fun with an ass as big or bigger than mine!
 

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I have no choice. My ass is very small. Disproportionately small. I have giant boobs, and hardly any backside. I'm black, and culturally, this is not seen as particularly attractive. I bust my ass with squats, stair climbing, deadlifts, and it is a lovely shape as a result, but still tiny in size. It is a source of humor between friends and I. I came to accept it would never stick out as far as my breasts. And I'm happy with it as ling as it stays nice and tight, and doesn't droop. So would I date a guy with an ass bigger than mine? Sure. I like to see a juicy booty, and it's never going to show up in the mirror. He'd just have to have a sense of humor about it, as my friends and I would no doubt make lots of jokes about him stealing my portion of booty.

Oh, hell, knowing that about you now...
I've gotta BEHAVE!
(Since I'm a boob-guy vs butt-guy)
 

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I am not really into bums, so bums are not features I really check out on men. I do prefer men who are into big bums (among other things), as I have a big bum.
 
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from what ive read girls like guys bums, they want to stick their tongues in and stuff :eek:

...no...........?

I may BITE someone's ass, but I'm not into giving rimjobs just for my own pleasure, and I only take pleasure from doing any kind of ass play if I know my partner enjoys it and things are extremely clean :confused:
 

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from what ive read girls like guys bums, they want to stick their tongues in and stuff :eek:
LOL

You didn't lie though, just an incomplete truth. Not the whole truth. It's just the same with girls who may or may not like butts. It doesn't mean every girl who happens to like butts wants to toss salad.