Imagine.
You are dating a guy, he is a really great person, he treats you well, he has a great job, interesting hobbies... he is an interesting person.
But physically they are ugly (simply ugly), fat, they don't take care of their physique, their hair, the clothes they use... basically they don't care at all about being handsome for you, for himself or anyone else.
Imagine having sex with this guy. Imagine watching him naked with his fat belly, his boldness and unshaved back. Imagine having to do that while your other gay friends are "pretty" and take care of themselves.
Could you do it? Could you date a guy like this?
This is just an experiment! Kinda bored...
PS:
Do an actual exercise to think about it. Don't automatically answer, get yourself in the situation and think about it.
You are dating a guy, he is a really great person, he treats you well, he has a great job, interesting hobbies... he is an interesting person.
But physically they are ugly (simply ugly), fat, they don't take care of their physique, their hair, the clothes they use... basically they don't care at all about being handsome for you, for himself or anyone else.
Imagine having sex with this guy. Imagine watching him naked with his fat belly, his boldness and unshaved back. Imagine having to do that while your other gay friends are "pretty" and take care of themselves.
Could you do it? Could you date a guy like this?
This is just an experiment! Kinda bored...
PS:
Do an actual exercise to think about it. Don't automatically answer, get yourself in the situation and think about it.