would you date a woman who didn't do oral?

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Possibly, so long as they made sure I got mine other ways. Receiving oral doesn't do that much for me anyway.
 

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It all depends. She may be great in other things. My present gf doesn't give me oral but she's absolutely WOW sexually. Best I've ever had. She's the sexiest woman I've ever known. I'm not all that great on head anyway. I prefer pussy and anal.
 

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Well, I'd date her at least once. I mean, I don't expect oral before the first date. :smile:

probably not, never dated one who did not, as far as i knew, enjoyed it immensely. i dated a lady who liked giving far more than receiving, and she really, really enjoyed giving!

There is that one in a million. I had one lady who absolutely refused to accept oral, and made it clear that she really preferred blowing me to any other kind of sex. I still see her a couple times a year...
 

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Of course. How would you find out, or do you have an application form with all these type questions in it that any potential date must complete prior to any "date?"
 

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I don't follow. Because I'd theoretically date a woman if Hick and I weren't an item he has a good deal? I don't see what difference it'd make to him. In the same way if he thought he might date guys were he not in a monogamous relationship it wouldn't make any difference to me.

No but because I find refreshing and appealing your "openness" - for lack of a better word - to consider exploring stepping outside the conventional even if you were to decide never to act on it.
 
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I *did* date my current girlfriend for about six months before she opened up to the idea of performing oral. I built up an unhealthy amount of resentment, as she was very receptive of me performing oral on her, but refused to return the favor. Thankfully, she got over it with time and now she seems to understand the importance of sharing the experience. We took baby steps... first, oral until completion but she'd pull away at the last moment. Then, she'd take the load and spit it out. Now, she'll swallow.

We were both virgins when we began dating, so this "baby steps" approach has played out in all aspects of our sex life. I've definitely become a more patient man.
 

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nobody has quoted Chris Rock, so i will....

"they still make bitches like you"

no. i wouldn't. or would i want someone performing any acts they found distasteful :rolleyes::tongue:

i'd just count not-giving-head as incompatibility. no ill will, or blame, or resentment.. is just her thing/my thing.. move on.
 

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it is an important part of sex for me. I have had girlfriends who didn't like to give or receive and it made the relationship not as good
 

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This thread is a bit confusing. Granted i love getting head but to say i wouldn't date a woman because of this seems a bit extreme.

I would have thought that in modern times, oral is seen as a "normal" sex act. It surprises me that there are some women who today don't do oral, or even find it offensive. Granted, both offence and sexual likes/dislikes are widely subjective, but as others that said in this thread it seems odd IMO.