Would you do porn?

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Serious inquiry here. If you had the offer to do porn, would you do it? i'm a straight male in los angeles and i've had several offers to do porn. While honestly, much of if appeals to me, having sex with beautiful women every day would be a dream come true.

However, with the pervasivness of porn on the internet and googling...? how would you come back from porn? how would anyone take you seriously after? what kind of job would you be hired for after a life in porn?

there was a female school teacher here in LA who was discovered by her students to have done porn. She was fired.

i welcome your honest, sober, genuine feedback.
 

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Be careful with that...even though I havent done mainstream porn...its still the same...it does a number on your soul.. You have to be extremely strong....if you have an addictive personality , like me, even more so....because it is very short lived now a days. But the social times and era is changing. With that said, realize that also the industry is constantly changing. Its a great way, I suppose to get your foot in the door to be a HIGH PROFILE Escort. Because the industy..only pays a one time fee that is short lived with the lifestyle of going out and people "loving you" lol .... no royalties ! So that is a choice you must truly ask your innerself. Your soul. What do YOU really want to do?! For the REST of your future?!
 

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Serious inquiry here. If you had the offer to do porn, would you do it? i'm a straight male in los angeles and i've had several offers to do porn. While honestly, much of if appeals to me, having sex with beautiful women every day would be a dream come true.

However, with the pervasivness of porn on the internet and googling...? how would you come back from porn? how would anyone take you seriously after? what kind of job would you be hired for after a life in porn?

there was a female school teacher here in LA who was discovered by her students to have done porn. She was fired.

i welcome your honest, sober, genuine feedback.


I'm only guessing here...

But I think the whole "how do you come back from..." part comes down to three colors: White, blue, and grey.

If your "other" professional aspirations are more white or grey collared in nature, then I'd suggest staying away from any porn sets. Teaching, lawyers, accountants, skilled trades, etc., with special emphasis on any occupation where you are around children (like your teacher story).

If you're more of a blue collar person, or figure that is the direction you'd like to head off into, then I'd say there are probably more examples of where a porn past won't be as likely to hurt you on the job. For example, if I'm working on the line at a Honda plant, then how does a porn past negatively impact what we're trying to achieve there? Unless I'm trying to hump the tail pipe assembly, it shouldn't matter.

I'm a married guy with kids, so "no", I'd not do it. I'm also in a white-collar career field where a past in porn could be used against me. Flip my universe around - If I were not married, didn't have kids, and in a blue collar career field...I'd consider it.
 

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I did do it, when I was about 22/23 ( So about 24-25 years ago ).

Only did it a few times. But this was when it was all VHS video.

I am not sure I would these days. Partly because the internet makes it much easier for other people to see it, who you would rather didn't ( family, friends, colleagues ) ...

... and partly because, although I've aged spectacularly well, I've still aged :wink:

- depends if you want to see it as a way of life, or as a bit of a side-adventure. I think it's easy to pretend it's a viable way of life. But for thousands and thousdands of people jacking off watching porn at home, there's maybe a handful of guys making a successful career out of it. Most aren't, I think.

:rolleyes:
 

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If anyone would have me, I'd consider doing porn. Currently trying to get into shape because right now I'm a bit too flabby IMO. But I doubt 7\7.5 inches is enough for porn, don't they look for really super big ones? And I wouldn't want to do gay porn, which would also limit my changes I guess. Besides, I have a strong feeling that going into porn would be something I'd regret later.
 
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My personality wouldn't fit for it since I like to get to know someone before I engage on such.
 

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The question is, how much do care about how the society perceives you?

The thing with porn is, if you are successful, everyone will know you are a porn star and the baggage that comes with it.

That said, there are ways to turn that to your advantage. Some porn stars have gone on to act in movies. Sasha Grey (Hollywood) and Sunny Leone (Bollywood) come to mind. There might be other professions that would be a natural progression from porn, although I have never given it any thought. As for getting a job teaching children or the like, very unlikely to happen.
 

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The wife and I enter a local amateur porn festival / contest every year and it is incredibly fun. You're limited to 5 minutes, so there's a ton of creativity and sexiness. Making the video is only 1/2 the fun, as they show the finalists it in a theater for a weekend. I may enjoy that part better - it's pretty cool to see yourself fucking on the big screen in a sold out theater. After that, they destroy the submissions. It's not a bad way to dip your toe in. :)

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Heard james deen is starring in a movie with lindsey lohan?

Stallone started out in the lamest porn movie ever.


It was so horrible I think he could watch it with his kids and say what the hell was I thinking kids don't do drugs and they'd all have a laugh.

I'm not worried for me and how society would perceive me, I'm worried I'd put a stain on my love and family life, no matter how succesfull you would hurt the reputation of your current familymembers and the future ones like your children.
Picking up your children at school, parents recognise you or see you in the supermarket with your children. What if you meet a lovely woman, not all of them would accept a history in porn.

There was a documentary about porn actors on bbc I believe, where it turns out that it's really harder to for porn actors to connect to anyone outside or inside the set and it's all very shallow and artificial.
There's also the guilt factor, a lot of young female actors are in a phase of doing whatever and usually start regretting their actions later on, but the damage is done and you helped in the process.
 

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So in short, you get money and women now but most likely close a lot of doors for you and your family in the future.

Especially with the internet and it's growing functionality. People can and will find out what your real name is where you live and what job you do.
 

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pcghabsy, in India, there would be no problem getting a teaching job. Being a retired high-school teacher in the United States, yes; they do background checks, and then you have school boards (in some cities), who may hire you -- instead of the principal -- who make a definite decision.

Now, we have the religious, cultural, and moral police in our country. Here, again, I do not know about your country.

I used to teach in a Catholic school in 1986; then, Public Schools, New York City, 1988-1997; and a State Juvenile (youth prison), New Mexico -- where I retired, 2009.

Yes, they did an extensive background check -- and that was before 9/11. It is even worse, now...some schools do not want to hire you with a misdemeanor (although they claim the principal/school board) will assess each situation, individually.

Believe me, sir, not every community is super liberal. "Who cares" comment does count to family, friends, neighbors, and significant others in the United States. Sane people do not want to embarrass their loved ones when there are other professions to choose from.
 
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Oh, by the way, I think the American society will accept a former male, porn star in its midst, compared to a woman because men are given that opportunity to be more aggressive and assertive; women, less so, even in 2012. A woman will most likely have that stigma attached.

I would not want that attention; too conservative in my community/church -- but not on AFF (that is another story for another different time). I have an impeccable reputation, and I want to keep it that way, too.
 

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pcghabsy, in India, there would be no problem getting a teaching job.

Firstly, I think you completely misread my post. I typed exactly the same thing as you have spent a while arguing!

I suppose you have no idea whatsoever of how liberal India is. In short, not at all. It is very conservative and sex is still a taboo subject. You will hardly find any Indian porn stars (try naming one resident Indian porn star?) despite there being 1.2 billion Indians for a very good reason.

Anyway, I wouldn't call people who decide to do it "insane" at all - it is simply a choice.