I totally agree with you Tinder, however, I also believe that many women also don't own their own sexuality.
How many women masturbate? How many really know their bodies sexually, the way men do?
Apart from Europe (maybe), most of us Westerners were basically reared conservatively. My mother, a very open-minded person herself, regards masturbation as something dirty. Many females in the past have told me that they don't enjoy masturbating, "because, what's the point...?"
(In other words: sexual stimulation and orgasms is meaningless without the man.)
Now, I understand the emotion behind that statement, but isn't that kind of general thinking perpetuating the pressure men feel to perform, in order for a woman to achieve orgasms? And therefore, don't women generally expect men to magically know what turns her on, since she might not?
P.S. Of course with above I mean physiologically and not psychologically...