Interesting post. Just learned today a friend of a friend found out he was positive.
My reply, being a medical professional, is, I would rather learn I was HIV + than to learn I have a glioblastoma, or other types of agressive cancer, which require extensive surgery, radiation, and/or chemotherapy.
With the advent of HIV drugs that are realitively mild, causing little to no side effects, increasing a good lifestyle potential of decades, it is not the horrid disease of the 1980's.
I am not making lite of the illness, but, it is an illness that with proper education, safer and smarter sexual practices, it is a disease that one can prevent. CANCER is not! No amount of education, sexual practice ect. can prevent it. Smart lifestyles can "help" prevent it, but, genetics also plays an important part, same with heart disease. I fear these more that HIV.
Now to answer the question. If I fell in love with a person with HIV I would have no problem with it. I would be smart,and safe with my sexual activities.
This is not the dark ages folks, and we aren't talking about Black Plaque here.
People with HIV desire, need and deserve love/sex too.
OC you said it very well. You are educated in the topic at hand, and a person with HIV would be blessed to find a friend/partner like you.
It's 2009 folks. Before you make blank statements like HELL NO, NO WAY, ABSOLUTELY NOT, educate yourselves.. If you make statements like this, you probably aren't educated on the subject at hand, and are not practicing the latest safer sex practices. We are developing newer, safer ways all the time which can allow everyone the ability to have a great,fear free sex life.