Would you fuck, date, or marry a fat girl?

[80deezel]

Yes, i like chubby girls and im chubby so its all good.

 

[wallyj84]

I one time fucked a fat chick. It was disgusting and my friends laughed at me later.

I would never date or marry a fat woman. It would bring me far too much shame.

 

[tampahungblk]

i love all girl's you can say it's because i'm blk are just a dog but the great thing about my life i can find something sexy in everyone boy's are girl's

 

[ConstantComment]

Black, woman, 50, American living in Europe, I suppose I have a body like Beyonce - big thighs, big butt, smallish breats (old photos of Beyonce show her fairly flattish) compared to white fashion models ---

Ok. I've been finding the 40+ men can be very sexy when they have some extra mean with their potatoes. think of these actors like Gandolfino, John Goodman. I like the swagger in men so when they have it, it can make up for a lithe body. Also, I don't like men too skinny and muscular. Have had sex with two of these types. Very good experience. IT was Mr. Can't Ejaculate who had this skinny muscular body who was a sorry ass in bed.

What I find interesting though is that in real life, I find regulalry very fat, sometimes boreding on obese who find men to marry them (and they are that way during the courtship.)

 

[UncleBob]

Wow, as a fat woman, I've got to say that this thread just makes me feel all warm and fuzzy and good about myself and full of hope for the future. I see rainbows.

Clearly, wallyj84 ("I one time fucked a fat chick. It was disgusting and my friends laughed at me later. I would never date or marry a fat woman. It would bring me far too much shame") has his own self-confidence issues and should think about why his own self-image is so wrapped up in what his "friends" think about the women he has sex with.

Hud01, this is not fat. ("Define fat. The heaviest girl I was ever with probably weighed 140 to 145 and was about 5'7"-5'8". ")

Ejacman, I almost gave you a pass, since you're a "healthcare professional." ("My commitment to personal responsibility about my health and taking care of myself would and has precluded my being involved with a fat girl. I am a healthcare professional and take it seriously about being an example and practicing what I preach. I do have fat friends and relatives and love them but not fucking or dating them. Never have and unlikely ever will date/fuck or marry a fat woman.") But I see that your profession is listed as "consultant." You're a personal trainer or a nutritionist, right? Because the "healthcare professionals" I work with (those would be the doctors, nurse practitioners, and physician assistants, you know, people with medical training) are good people who I'm sure would prefer that I lost weight for my own well being but who realize that there can be medical reasons for some obesity and also that being "healthcare professionals" encompasses the entire patient -- body and mind. My healthcare professionals don't let their professional lives dictate their very personal lives.

Eyescream : "In some countries, fat people are considered happy and wealthy. In others however, fat people are considered depressed and trying to fill some kind of void in their lives. I believe in the latter." According to most of the responses in this thread, I'm going to be alone forever because fat people are disgusting and can't be loved or fucked. It's a viscious circle, isn't it? I'm alone, I have this void, I fill it with food, thus becoming more and more fat, thus becoming more and more alone, thus having a bigger and bigger void to fill, this needing more food to fill it . . . Wow. I guess I'm going to need someone to order up a consruction crew and crane to lift me out of my second floor bedroom soon because I can't get through the front door. Is it possible, Eyescream, that there are fat people who are happy? (Well, until they read this thread and it hits them that they're unworthy, anyway.)

Yeah, I'm fat. Yeah, I'd rather not be fat. Yeah, I know that eating less and exercising more would go a long way toward achieving that. But I've been diagnosed (by more than one doctor) with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, which makes weight loss very difficult (and weight gain very easy). I know that NONE of my relatives is skinny; none of my cousins is small. I'm German-Polish -- we're hearty people. Also, yes, I'm depressed. It's a physical condition, a chemical imbalance in my brain. I'm depressed for the same reason I'm bad at math and good at spelling . . . it's the way my brain works. But being told I'm unattractive and not worth fucking (well, unless it's a pity fuck for a very specific medical diagnosis) doesn't help with that.

And, finally, yeah, I'd date/fuck/marry a guy with a small dick because at the end of the day, size doesn't matter and personality and goodness and sense of humor do.

 

[hud01]

Hud01, this is not fat. ("Define fat. The heaviest girl I was ever with probably weighed 140 to 145 and was about 5'7"-5'8". ")

The last 3 women that I have had a sexual relationship with were 5'2" 90lbs, 5'6" 115lb, and 5' and 100lbs.

Back at you.

 

[wallyj84]

Wow, as a fat woman, I've got to say that this thread just makes me feel all warm and fuzzy and good about myself and full of hope for the future. I see rainbows.

That's good. The negative feelings you have now are a good thing. They can be your motivation to change.

Clearly, wallyj84 ("I one time fucked a fat chick. It was disgusting and my friends laughed at me later. I would never date or marry a fat woman. It would bring me far too much shame") has his own self-confidence issues and should think about why his own self-image is so wrapped up in what his "friends" think about the women he has sex with.

Yes, I lack self confidence. But I lack it for good reason.

My status as a man is already low, to date a fat woman would only serve to lower my status even more.

And, finally, yeah, I'd date/fuck/marry a guy with a small dick because at the end of the day, size doesn't matter and personality and goodness and sense of humor do.

At least your realistic with your expectations, even if you're not honest about why you have them.

 

[Drifterwood]

You going on top?

 

[B_ILIW]

i would fuck a fat girl, but it depends how fat.

chubby women can be sexy. better than stick thin women.

but obese? heck no.

from experience, i find that chubby women have squishier and more juicy pussies, like heaven around my cock. :biggrin1:

 

[tiggerpoo]

Had a number of heavy gfs who were both great people and outstanding in bed.

 

[Wish-4-8]

My answers:
Not not anymore, no, and HELL NO!!!

Am I shallow? Who knows? I just know what I like and at least I am being honest.

We should probably define fat, coz thick is very doable.

(I dont like em too skinny either)

 

[Wish-4-8]

I hate to sound like this but I would do non of the above with an overweight girl.

Well your girl sounds HOT the way you have described her. Petite and sweet to eat (my words). Oh, and Asian. Dang! I want to be you.

 

[hud01]

Had a number of heavy gfs who were both great people and outstanding in bed.

I have known many fat people who were great people, funny, intellegent and fun to be with, but fuck them not a chance.

 

[D_Harvey Schmeckel]

I really like having a partner the same height and weight; we can wear each other's clothes. Have not been and would not want to be partnered with anyone much taller, shorter, or fatter. Was totally turned off by fat guys until a few encounters in recent years broadened my appreciation. Big bellies are still a turn off, but the view from the rear fucking a big ass can be damn hot. Presumably by the same token missionary with a fat girl would bother me, but doggie not so much.

 

[goodwood]

fuck, date or marry? i have to say no to all of the aforementioned. i have always been in pretty good shape and that takes a lot of work and i seek in a partner similar desires to be be physically fit and do whatever is necessary to be in good shape. i am naturally drawn to and have always dated thin women. one girlfriend i had been with for 2 years and was engaged to gained about 30 pounds and i found her less sexually attractive with the extra weight and told her so. she knew she was too heavy and got with the program and adjusted her diet and worked out and she felt better without the weight.
but back to your question - nope. haven't done it. can't do it. not gonna do it.

 

[B_howbigeh]

21
canadian
white and proud
BC

no. no. and NO!! and no its not a black thing, fat girls are fat girls are gross.

im very shallow, and find them very repulsive. its not attractive at all for me. I LOVE the tiny skinny ones

but to each their own. im sure some love BBW uke:

(Also provide your age, nationality, race, and current area of residence...just so if we can see if this is really a "black thing")

 

[crescendo69]

Ok; next question.

Who would date, fuck or marry a dirty old man?:biggrin1:

 

[B_quietguy]

I one time fucked a fat chick. It was disgusting and my friends laughed at me later.

I would never date or marry a fat woman. It would bring me far too much shame.

So who you date depends on whether you think your "friends" will laugh at you? Real friends would accept you no matter who you date. I'd rather have fun than fret over what so-called friends think.

 

[Mt.Dew_Addict]

Fuck? Consistently. Date? We did for 4 years. Marry? Yes and now with child.

I am a 22 year old male, white, US born and residing. She is the same description only female. I'm 5'6'' 125lbs, she is 5'9'' and 200lbs.

I love my big woman. Every inch of her body is warm and soft (you all can keep your supermodels and their visible ribcages) She has these wide curvaceous hips that envelope me when she's on top or wraps them around me. Her huge heavy tits bounce around in the hottest way when we're fucking. She's got the classic thick dick sucking lips.. big round ass...

I started out not unlike some of the other people in this thread. I thought she was too big and for a couple months after there were still parts of her I didn't find sexy. But now I can't get enough of her or big women in general for that matter. Keep on hating fellas, more for the rest of us

 

[AlphaSpartan]

I wouldn't treat her like trash, that's for sure. Fuck: maybe, if she can keep up. Marry: That's where my response gets deeper.

I wouldn't turn down hanging out and getting to know a big woman if I find her attractive, she could always have a great personality. I'd be a fool and a liar if I said that's all that matters though. If I were to consider dedicating my life to a woman she would need to be able to take care of her body so she can keep up with my fast-paced life and be healthy in the long run.

To me, it's not about looking like a magazine image. I solely care about her longevity and abilities. If I were to find a woman who I like and she is overweight I'd simply talk to her about it and see if I can find any underlying factors, hopefully working up to an offer to work alongside of her to get in better shape. Staying in good physical shape is hard enough for me when I'm going solo so I know it would be a pain in the ass and an insult to tell her she's on her own.