Would you fuck, date, or marry a fat girl?

[aajjxx]

Wait the wife was larger than the husband? Is that socially acceptable?

 

[B_Noctem]

Fat men? I usually lock them up in the gym and take away all their cakes, pastries, chocolates and other sweets...

 

[sizequeenNY]

I was forwarded this thread today. After a guy on here msged me, I replied that I am a BBW in case he can not tell, can send pics. So instead of just not responding or saying I'm not his type, he sends me the link to this thread, thanks for being rude!

I am a BBW, a size sixteen, 5'9'', 38DDD and I read through some of this thread to see how I measured up out of curiosity. Living in NYC where most women in my scene are very fit, you would expect me to be as miserable as some of the women that complained on here. Sorry but I'm not. See, it isn't so bad being a beautiful woman, very successful former model, that dresses well, and gets constant attention. I get fucked regularly, have had a healthy dating life, and have been married(dumped him). I practice Bikram and eat healthy because I of course want to improve my appearance. Also, the two men I met here said I am absolutely fabulous in bed.

It seems like some of you are very insecure based on your comments, both the overweight women here and the men who aren't attracted to them.

For the women- many heavy women don't dress well, they carry their insecurities in their look, they make excuses, PCOS blah blah- take metformin, try Bikram, revamp your wardrobe, you'll thank me

For the men- I understand that some of you have very strong opinions about your preference but you sound shallow, even my very thin and very attractive friends would not be interested in guys with such horrible personalities, the quality of women you'll get sounding like that is no better than ending up with an obese woman, sorry



Personally, I prefer tall men because I am tall and like wearing heels without towering over someone. Looking at the men in my past- they are all tall, attractive, intelligent, and fit, I did not seek them out, it just happened. Of course, I prefer them hung because I am a sizequeen

 

[apex1972]

I'm not one to have self confidence issuses, and I don't suppose I ever will be... But I find it absolutely amazing that half the men on this thread put such restrictions on their women... And the truth is... Half of you all must be lying, or just lied to about your womans weight.
According to the majority of men who said they would never fuck/date/marry a "fat" girl, I would be out.. I weigh 160-165 and I stand at 5'9".. And though I have actually been dropping weight and so on, I know for a fact that my weight in my gallery photos are in that range.
I am thankful, however, than men are not as shallow as they make themselves out to be when surrounded by other men. I feel like the truth of this thread may only come out if a girl was to talk to you one on one or anonymously.
I would by no means say Im fat, but I've been hitting the gym to tone up, for myself.. Not to be fuckable, asi absolutely have no problem attracting guy and keeping their attention through the course of sex and dating.
You don't want to fuck or date me? Your loss, because I'm an amazing fuck and an even better girlfriend.

i dont care what the scale says, you are the hottest girl on this damn forum. i never would have guessed 160s though. i guess age and weight are just numbers lol. So, back on topic, yes I would date,fuck and marry a so called fat girl. i would never consider you fat though, chantilly. :wink:

 

[vindicari]

jeez you are really shallow people. who here is perfect? (apart from you're own opinion of yourself) I don't need love I got more than enough for myself. assholes.

 

[wallyj84]

For the men- I understand that some of you have very strong opinions about your preference but you sound shallow, even my very thin and very attractive friends would not be interested in guys with such horrible personalities, the quality of women you'll get sounding like that is no better than ending up with an obese woman, sorry



Personally, I prefer tall men because I am tall and like wearing heels without towering over someone. Looking at the men in my past- they are all tall, attractive, intelligent, and fit, I did not seek them out, it just happened. Of course, I prefer them hung because I am a sizequeen

So a man having a preference for skinny women is being shallow, but you preferring tall, hung men is not shallow? Hypocrite.

I think I'm going to write a blog post about the term, "BBW."

 

[blazblue]

geez, can't we all like who ever we like?

 

[sizequeenNY]

So a man having a preference for skinny women is being shallow, but you preferring tall, hung men is not shallow? Hypocrite.

I think I'm going to write a blog post about the term, "BBW."

That is not what I said. Do you have an issue with reading comprehension? I am talking about the way men talked about heavy women, in an insulting manner. I am not attracted to everyone but I am not going to insult someone that isn't my type. That is having manners, something you obviously lack.

I don't care what you blog about. Blogging is your personal opinion, not fact. My personal opinion about BBW- not every woman that is big is a BBW but I would keep a negative opinion to myself because I would rather not hurt someone.

I prefer tall men because I am tall, it is more comfortable. I wouldn't consider it something shallow put possibly about insecurity. You seem like a very angry person

 

[lgej]

When we married 40+ years ago, my wife had a near perfect (for me anyway) body...long legs (5'8"), narrow waist, beautiful flaring hips and large (36D or DD at the time) breasts. Since then, by all objective standards, she has gotten "fat." However, she knows how to dress for her (what I'd rather think of as voluptuous) figure, is impeccable about her personal appearance - teeth, nails, hair, makeup, etc. And, since she is very self-confident, she radiates sexiness. As a result and because she's given me AMAZING sex for almost 45 years, I think of her as the sexiest woman I know. I would assume you can infer an answer in there.

 

[wallyj84]

That is not what I said. Do you have an issue with reading comprehension? I am talking about the way men talked about heavy women, in an insulting manner. I am not attracted to everyone but I am not going to insult someone that isn't my type. That is having manners, something you obviously lack.

It's not insulting them, it's reminding them of their place. Fat women are inherently less attractive than skinny women and they should never forget that. When people forget about their true dating value, society descends into chaos.

I don't care what you blog about. Blogging is your personal opinion, not fact. My personal opinion about BBW- not every woman that is big is a BBW but I would keep a negative opinion to myself because I would rather not hurt someone.

When you tell an inferior person that they're inferior, you aren't hurting them. You're helping them. When an inferior person, like someone who is fat acknowledges the fact that they're inferior they are given either the chance to fix their defect and raise their status or accept their status and place in the social world. Both of those options are infinitely better than living in an Utopian fantasy where looks don't make one inferior.

I prefer tall men because I am tall, it is more comfortable. I wouldn't consider it something shallow put possibly about insecurity. You seem like a very angry person

I'm not angry at all.

 

[tino88]

I read in an article from Men's Health that most men would rather fuck a girl with one arm than a fat girl...I'm just reporting what I read.

 

[LadyJaneGrey]

Telling someone they are inferior because YOU judge them to be so by YOUR personal standards is insulting.

A very large number of people in this thread and on this site have said that looks in general and weight specifically are not high in their priorities when choosing who to date.

Other people have said that they find fat sexy.

The media consensus in the developed nations does mainly favour skinny blonde white people.

Not everyone in the world finds skinny blonde white people attractive.

To me a skinny blonde white person is not at the top of the 'attractive tree'.

But I would never call a skinny blonde white person inferior for being skinny blonde and white.

Dating value as you put it varies from person to person.

If people make their choices based on what they think the majority finds the most attractive then they will have very unhappy lives.

 

[Hoss]

It's not insulting them, it's reminding them of their place. Fat women are inherently less attractive than skinny women and they should never forget that. When people forget about their true dating value, society descends into chaos.




When you tell an inferior person that they're inferior, you aren't hurting them. You're helping them. When an inferior person, like someone who is fat acknowledges the fact that they're inferior they are given either the chance to fix their defect and raise their status or accept their status and place in the social world. Both of those options are infinitely better than living in an Utopian fantasy where looks don't make one inferior.




I'm not angry at all.

You are inferior WallyJ84. As a narrow minded jerk with the distorted belief that what you WallyJ84 likes is what everybody else must like, indicates a shallowness and painful rigidity, these make you inferior. I am confident that telling this to you WallyJ84, will be very helpful at directing you to a better and happier future. Seeing what your mental inferiority iis and naming it, will help.

Many are charmed by skinny, many are charmed by average, many are charmed by full bodied men and women. It's all what each finds attractive and that attractiveness is often enhanced by a person that likes themself, regardless what their weight is. Same as wiith height, but that's a diifferent subject.

 

[wallyj84]

Telling someone they are inferior because YOU judge them to be so by YOUR personal standards is insulting.

A very large number of people in this thread and on this site have said that looks in general and weight specifically are not high in their priorities when choosing who to date.

You're wrong, I'm not judging people based on my personal views, but instead on what society and collective human experience and knowledge knows to be attractive.

There is but one true beauty and the further you get away from that, the uglier you become. That is just the truth.

Other people have said that they find fat sexy.

And some people find children sexy. That's not to say that people who are attracted to fat people are on the same level as pedophiles, but it does show that there are always groups with some kind of mental disorder that make them attracted to people they shouldn't be.

The media consensus in the developed nations does mainly favour skinny blonde white people.

Not everyone in the world finds skinny blonde white people attractive.

To me a skinny blonde white person is not at the top of the 'attractive tree'.

But I would never call a skinny blonde white person inferior for being skinny blonde and white.

I also don't like skinny, blond white people, but if a skinny blond white woman became interested in me, it would only make sense to enter into a relationship with her because she is superior and being with her I could raise my status.

Dating value as you put it varies from person to person.

No it doesn't.

If people make their choices based on what they think the majority finds the most attractive then they will have very unhappy lives.

LOL Confirming to society's norms is the only way to truly be happy.

 

[wallyj84]

You are inferior WallyJ84. As a narrow minded jerk with the distorted belief that what you WallyJ84 likes is what everybody else must like, indicates a shallowness and painful rigidity, these make you inferior. I am confident that telling this to you WallyJ84, will be very helpful at directing you to a better and happier future. Seeing what your mental inferiority iis and naming it, will help.

Many are charmed by skinny, many are charmed by average, many are charmed by full bodied men and women. It's all what each finds attractive and that attractiveness is often enhanced by a person that likes themself, regardless what their weight is. Same as wiith height, but that's a diifferent subject.

Yes, I am inferior. My penis is small, I'm fat and ugly. To put it bluntly, I'm more than inferior, I am defective. But, I'm not defective for the reasons you bring up.

I am not shallow, I'm honest. I tell people the truth regarding social status and dating value. Sadly, some people when confronted with the truth react harshly and refuse to accept the facts that I have shown them. You're one of these people. I implore you to reread what I have written, but this time with an open mind. If you do, you will quickly see the truth in my words and be on your way to living a life based around social status and dating value.

 

[LeeEJ]

Reword it like this and I think your point becomes clearer:

I also don't like skinny, blond white people, but if a skinny blond white woman became interested in me, it would only make social status-seeking sense to enter into a relationship with her because society in general thinks that she is superior and being with her I could raise my status.

Is that what you're saying?

 

[LadyJaneGrey]

wallyj84, I have have read some of your other posts now.

You are quite obsessed with this.

It is very sad.

I feel very sorry for you.

 

[SouthernGirl]

Confirming to society's norms is the only way to truly be happy.

Never bow down.

 

[Thirdlegproduction]

Being attracted to certain types is in our genes, as babies smile more around people who are build more symmetrical.

Finding people attractive is not just because people tell us to find them attractive.

 

[JG11]

Most of my gfs have been BBWs. I like all women. I'm a bit overweight, but certainly not grossly fat or ugly. I love every woman who doesn't play mental games.