Would you fuck your best friend's ex-girlfriend?

[Riven650]

They have already split up. You and she have known each other for some time. You're free agents. Or are you? Does he still have some kind of claim to her? Do you owe it to him to respect some kind of imaginary ring fence he's left around her?

I was in a situation like this many years ago. My 'best' mate had been cheating on his wife. His girlfriend wanted him to choose between her or the wife and he chose to go back to the wife. I was single at the time and knew all 3 of them. So, he had just split up from his girlfriend, making her single too. She asked me out. I accepted. We went to the pub. He spotted us and picked a fist fight with me.

Right. So what did I do wrong? Did I steal his girl? No. Did I make him look silly? Not intentionally? Was he justified in attacking me? I think not. Did my relationship with the girl last? No. Did his marriage last? No. Are he and I still friends? No. I came to my senses. He always was a drunk and a big bully.

 

[dkong8x625]

I also have another friend who broke up with his gf and said to a bunch of our friends that we could fuck her if we wanted. She later told him that one of his friends did eventually fuck her and he confronted him. He denied it, she confirmed it and now they don't speak.

Whats the friendship worth to you? speak with him so it doesn't look like your going behind his back.

 

[MrHangman]

Only if the situation was right, but otherwise I'd be opposed to it.

 

[joejack]

Enough with the agonizing debate. She wants you, so be a gentleman and give her some dick!

 

[tibo90]

She wants you, so be a gentleman and give her some dick!

Yes that's my problem...she wants me, but the only thing what I can give to her is my cock and some orgasm.
She surely knows it, that' all, cos' I don't love her. I "only" like her. Maybe she's hoping that after we fuck, my feelings to her can develop. But I don't think so, beacase as I mentioned she is not really my type.
"Unfortunately" she also knows how to be cute and sexy...with her big tits it's not so difficult. (In addition I'm a big fan of nice breasts:redface

 

[AdrianaOne]

My best friend is a girl and I'd never violate the girl code by putting moves on her ex boyfriend, plus he was a real a**hole.

 

[Riven650]

You are still in love with the other girl. That's why you can't see yourself falling in love with your mate's ex. However, you do love her big tits and you find her cute. If you have sex you might fall for her. Who knows? I don't think you should worry about that. Your mate's already given you the green light. His ex knows you're in love with another girl, but wants to fuck you anyway, so she knows what she's doing. It sounds like you both need some sexual healing. So long as you'll both still want to be friends in the morning go ahead and have some fun.

 

[tibo90]

You are still in love with the other girl. That's why you can't see yourself falling in love with your mate's ex. However, you do love her big tits and you find her cute. If you have sex you might fall for her. Who knows? I don't think you should worry about that. Your mate's already given you the green light. His ex knows you're in love with another girl, but wants to fuck you anyway, so she knows what she's doing. It sounds like you both need some sexual healing. So long as you'll both still want to be friends in the morning go ahead and have some fun.

To make it clear...I'm not the kind of guy, who fucks only for big tits. I'm looking for inner values too in a girl! She knows a lot from me, so she knows it...and she also know that I didn't have sex for quite a long time,so I can imagine my cock between those nice big tits

Yes...she knows what she wants, but I don't know! :S
I also wants to fuck, but I'm not sure that she is the proper girl, altough she really turns me on now...
Both of us are single, wants to fuck and we know each other. These might be her reasons, because she surely wouldn't fuck with a stranger. (Nor I eiher)

 

[B_subgirrl]

Guess I'll copy unabear09 and say "chicks before dicks" sorry guys! :tongue:

ROFLMAO :biggrin1:. Love it! I also agree with it. Don't bloody do it mate.

Edit:

I've just read that the friend has said it would be OK. If I were you, I still wouldn't do it. Just because he's said he'd be OK with it, doesn't mean he would be if it really happened.

 

[MercyfulFate]

Bro Code, can't do it.

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

Meh, fuck her, see what happens, if it turns to rat shit you learn a few things and move on.

 

[vlls]

If I were you id probably do it but i would talk it out with her first... make sure it doesnt ruin ur friendship... if ur friend says its okay then its okay

 

[jmc07ss]

I sure would no hesitation on this question

 

[tibo90]

I've just read that the friend has said it would be OK. If I were you, I still wouldn't do it. Just because he's said he'd be OK with it, doesn't mean he would be if it really happened.

I really wouldn't mind If I would fuck her...for example today he said to me, he doesn't now, what did he like in her. Of course, I didn't mentioned to him now, that I'm feared, that maybe her ex will try to have sex with me.

Meh, fuck her, see what happens, if it turns to rat shit you learn a few things and move on.

If it's possible, I would like to avoid this learning method...

If I were you id probably do it but i would talk it out with her first... make sure it doesnt ruin ur friendship... if ur friend says its okay then its okay

I'm sure it would be okay for my friend, if he would ever find it out.
Yes, it's a good idea to talk with her, if she says she surely wants to fuck.
I hope I'll have the chance to talk about it with her before anything would happen. (If it will at all)
I think she knows, for me it can be only one night. Maybe it would be amazing, cos' both of us want to fuck...I know she was curious in the past how big is my cock. In addition she is a redhead, and I know they are quite passionate.:wink:

Yesterday she sent me a few pictures from her house-party...I don't know if it was intentional, but in all of the pictures her tits were amazing.

I sure would no hesitation on this question

So, what would you in that case?

 

[thickpex]

Never, ever, ever. I love my best friend so much I wouldn't dream of going there. One thing, it's just respect for him, ya know (that's why so many guys say to ask first). But even if he says yes, he probably means "no," he doesn't want to risk pissing you off an affecting ur friendship, but he may think less of you because he could possibly interpret it as you don't care enough about HIM to risk bringing her back into his life again.

That's the big issue as i see it, what happens if you & she become a couple? then 1.) what do you have that he didn't, which his mind could play games with and take it as an insult or being inadquate, esp if ur hung better
2.) He's ur "best" friend, say u end up dating her, that inevitably brings her back into his life, like it or not -- why do you think he would welcome that??

This is one of those things that sounds great IN THEORY, but can lead to LOUSY results. NOT WORTH IT TO ME AT ALL, I LOVE MY BEST BUD TOO MUCH!

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

If it's possible, I would like to avoid this learning method...

Pah, kids these days, so risk-averse, what is life without a little tribulation? People need scars to give them depth, and it's always better to have had passionate affairs and dramatic relationships rather than humdrum security and a life of uninterrupted quietude.

 

[tibo90]

what happens if you & she become a couple? then

I'm 1000% sure, we wouldn't be a couple, despite we could satisfy each other in the band and it would be amazing for sure.She is cute redhead and has big tits, and she hopefully wouldn't be dissatisfied after at last seeing the size of my cock. But it would be one occasion only not more. I don't love her. She is not my type.* Just one example: I'm looking for tall girls (because I'm really tall), and she is not tall at all. In addition I know her "inner weaknesses" too.She is a good friend for me,we can talk about many different topics in a good mood, but I won't be able to live with her. She knows that.
Despite that maybe she thinks I could be the proper person to fuck her after a long time, because both of us are horny, and she wouldn't have sex with a stranger without feelings.

*The girl I'm in really love with (it's in process to get her as my girlfriend) is just ideal! She is nice, cute, smart, has extremly good shape,tall, has sense of humour...I know she likes me, and I'm working on it, to develop her feelings to me.:wink:

 

[vince]

Up until I read the last paragraph of the post above, I was going to say "drill her". She wants it, you want it, her ex doesn't care....

But then you write this sweet passage...

*The girl I'm in really love with (it's in process to get her as my girlfriend) is just ideal! She is nice, cute, smart, has extremly good shape,tall, has sense of humour...I know she likes me, and I'm working on it, to develop her feelings to me.

If this is how you feel, then put your energy into the girl you love.

 

[marriedasian]

talk to your buddy and see how he feels about it. if he doesn't care then it's up to you without consequence. if he does, i'd do nothing more.

 

[tibo90]

Well...Yesterday I was thinking a lot about what to do. I guess I have the result. It has a lot's of pros and cons.
Just a few:
Pros:
-My friend surely wouldn't care...I think he would be happy, cos' he knows me, she would be happy again with me.
-She wants it, and she would satisfied after the fuck. After almost 4 month, somebody would give her a cock again, in addition not a stranger! (Shit, she must have bee fucking horny :O)
-It's not the proper expession "I want it also" Because I don't want it. I just won't be able to say no, if she would ask me face to face to fuck her. I'm quite horny too, she is cute, has really nice and big tits and she wants it!
-As I mentioned I'm a big fan of tits.... she has kind of tits what you want grab and feel it in your palm ;-)

Cos:
- I don't love her, I would just drill her
- Maybe she wants more occasion, until we both find someone
- Despite I'm sure I'm 1000% sure my friend wouldn't mind, it would be always hard for me to speak with him with the fact, "I fucked your ex!" While they were a couple, I did many things with them. He wasn't jelaous, altough he knew she was curious about the size of my cock, and I was the only person, she would do threesome!
- I always thought we are a great example, there can be friendship between a boy and a girl without feelings. I still think we can be one of this example, because I think the reason of thinking about to fuck her is mostly her (or our) horniness.
- I love another girl, who would be ideal for me. ( As I said it's in progress to get her as my girlfriend)

And that's (the last one) is the strongest reason, why I won't fuck her! I'll remain horny. Maybe the members who sent me PMs with "You need to blow a huge load of cum on her tits, that's what she wants" will say I'm a fool. Yes, I will miss the sure chance to fuck a horny cute redhead with big tits, because of a not sure, but better choice! Belive it or not there's better, the other girl! This other girl ( call her "girlfriend-candidate" ) is more important for me than anything on planet Earth, altough it's not sure I can get her.
Just imagine, once I would intoduce this to girls to each other...I would say:" You know babe I can say she is the ex of my best friend and also my friend, so despite the fact I fucked her, don't be jelaous!" No... that's no way!
This gf-candidate already knows, I love her. I know - from thrustful sources- I'am the type she is looking for and she likes me, but I was too fast, she is shy and not sure about her feelings to me. But I'll do anything what a boy can do ( and a bit more) to develop her feelings to me in the good way. For me, she is just perfect! Cute, tall, has amazing body shape (yes, she has even better breasts), smart, has nice and sexy long hair, has sense of humour, I love the sweet scent of her, and we think the same about numerous topics. Shortly: God made her for me! ;-) So I'll try to get her and give anything (and even a bit more) what a girl can request from a guy.
Am I doing it right, or you would it differently?