I don't want to risk two things!
- My friendship with my best friend. I know my friend wouldn't mind if I fuck her ex.
What I highlighted in red indicates there is no risk.
Obviously what there is here is doubt in your mind.
The solution to that is to say something to your friend.
You are suffering from a communication problem.
and
If you cannot even say something to a guy who is supposedly your best friend and you think doesn't care.
Then I suspect you are going to have trouble
saying what needs to be said to
girlfriend candidate
to convert her to girlfriend.
Since you are having trouble
Pitbull will help
:flowers1:
Flowers
(not roses)
Give the GFC flowers
How to give them?
Depends
How old are you? (I guess 20)
Student?
or gainfully employed?
and her?
Either make some kind of date and show up and hand them to her
with a simple - "These are for you"
or you can (and if you are able to you should)
If she works (summer job)
especially in an office with other women
make a date
send flowers to arrive before the date
with card that says something like
"Looking forward to going out with you this evening"
all the women in the office will think you are fabulous
(because their loser boyfriends and husbands never do anything like that)
and they will lobby for you in your quest to become boyfriend.
Now - for super impact
Send more flowers the day after the date
With a note
"I really enjoyed last night. I am looking forward to seeing you again."
If she works in an office
as described above
Then you will be a topic of conversation in the office.
Her coworkers will insist she go out with you again
You will be labeled a "Keeper"
Works even better if you did not have sex
(But send no matter what)
Because that says
You are high quality - Flowers & Flowers and you didn't even get laid
You are going to be so much better once you start getting some.
At this point just don't screw it up.
Helps if you can continue to perform as BF at a high level that makes her the envy of her friends and coworkers.
Not cheap flowers
Not the most outlandish
Something tasteful
Do not have them sent to the house if no one will be there to get them.
Dead wilted flowers are not what you want her to see.
Expect to spend $60-$70 each time
Don't bitch
Spend it
If she is all you say she is
She is worth that and more.
Now maybe some of the women will help
If they have not all left after dealing with your angst for the past week
Maybe a new relationship thread asking for help might be a good idea.
(Remember - your social life is not a "Woman's Issue" - Belongs in "Relationships")
You just need to fuck someone
Quit putting it off