Would you have sex with a man you found very ugly

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I'd like to respectfully disagree with that statement (although of course I can only speak for myself).

I'm more interested in intellect, honesty, emotional intimacy, strength of character and communication than MONEY. Anyone can have money! But how many people really possess all of the aforementioned qualities? Too few.

Though I do admit that I tend to be attracted to men with a well-proportioned body more often than not, if he doesn't have a personality of his own and a solid head on his shoulders, the relationship will never stand the test of time. (I know, because I've tried...)

As well, "ugliness" is relative. From a woman's standpoint, I'd say that there are many factors that go into our evaluation of whether a man is "attractive" or "ugly" to us, such as familiarities we might see in a certain look or expression, mannerisms, habits, pattern of speech...the list goes on.

I'd also like to mention that I particularly like off-centred teeth. (Think David Bowie's teeth once upon a time!) They add a lot of character to a man's face, in my opinion. :cool:

I agree.

David Bowie's teeth were not what I was referring to as "bad teeth". I'm talking about missing teeth in front (not necessarily missing back teeth, since you can't see that, and besides, one of my back teeth is missing due to my life-threatening illness 4 years ago, which was from an abscess), and hideously discolored teeth. Bad breath is also a deal-breaker.
 

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because he was well endowed?


Well, my take on the question is below (and sorry in advance, but I tend to get, erm, wordy). I'm assuming we're talking about simply having sex with someone. The dynamics of hunting for a long term mate are far more complicated, and (hopefully) go well beyond skin-deep and penis size. Also, I pretty much only have sex with men these days, so that's where my point of view's from. Functionally, I'm still very much ambisexual, but find my emotional connections more satisfying with men these days. So, with that in mind:


We would sometimes go to sex parties, more so when we lived on the east coast. We're still making friends here in Seattle; so not so much now. Anyway, there were always two guys that came that were sheerly hideous... I mean, "two bag ugly" here. Just to clarify that, understand that I'm not generally impressed by 'conventional male beauty'. I like my men on the rough and rugged side, clean and groomed, but all man (DON'T shave off your body hair, try a mustache/goatee, foreskin is an incredible asset, and stubble gives a guff hot man aura). So if *I* think he's ugly, odds are pretty good that by most mainstream standards, he should be tinkling a small bell and chanting "unclean, unclean" wherever he goes. Anyway...


The two recurrent "ugly dudes" would often show up with strikingly attractive men in tow. They also had what could be described as a decent fan base in the other attendees. Care to take a guess at where their dick size would be categorized? Just a wild guess? :eek: Yeah, both guys were swinging Louisville Sluggers between their pasty bony pimpled thighs, complete with a pair of softballs to match.

Though I believe other posters when they say 'No, hung doesn't outweigh Ugly' - in all fairness, I think it's a qualified no. Kind of like "Would you have sex with Bruce Villanche for money?" - No! Oh, gawd, no! Well, how much money... how about $3 Million? Some of us might be willing to hold our noses long enough to score that much cash. I think it's the same with big dicks. We've all seen that on some level, almost everyone might have a little Size Queen in 'em: Whether it's curious straight guy, wondering what it's like to pack a tool the size of the one he just saw next to him in the men's room; or someone who can't get excited for anything less than a two-hander - everyone has a certain point where curiosity or desire overwhelms their usual sensibilities.


As for me, the gene-pool's been pretty good to me. It's not hard to find someone longer than I; but girth is quite another matter. So I'd say someone would have to pretty damn monstrous in size (as in, freak show huge) to impress me enough to ignore a heavy dose of ugly. I don't think I could say I'd never ignore Ugly for Big, but the occasion would be rare...


Just my spin on the question. It's been interesting reading everyone's thoughts. Thanks for sharing!


- Mike
 

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No, never.

Sex for me is more than about the act. I like to feel a connection to my partner. I want something more than just a fuck for the sake of a fuck.

Being well endowed.. it's like an added bonus.

Sorry I'm just not the one night stand type of a girl.
 

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Im tall fit hung and ugly that most be why I never have sex I hate being ugly :(

Bull! If that's you in your gallery you ain't ugly by any means.

I go through that too. Thinking I'm ugly, inadequate, inferior, and all. Then I feel better for a while. I don't have much luck with the ladies either. I am still trying to figure out why.
 

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Absolutely and I have. However, I could not have sex with a stupid man. I need to be intellectually stimulated, a kind of mental masturbation, to actually want to have sex with someone. I have gone out with a couple of absolutely gorgeous men who were either lacking the ability to converse, or had nothing interesting to converse about. No matter how good looking they are, and how much I enjoy the view, I simply will not get turned on. Same when it comes to an arrogant or obnoxious personality.

I actually haven't had sex with a lot of men (still in the single digits) but some of the best sex I have had was with the average looking or below joe who seduced my mind all night until I couldn't wait to rip his clothes off!
 

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i think if the guy makes me laugh and i can talk to him more than anything well yeah.....but then again i dont think any girl could sleep with a really really ugly guy
 

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Barring really nasty personal hygiene, the only thing that can make a guy "ugly" is a shallow, conceited, boring personality.

I've known several men who didn't impress me physically until they began to talk. It's amazing how sexy a smart, witty man can be. If Quasimodo had a wicked gleam in his eye and a wicked wit I would want to do him. :tongue:
 

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i'm living proof that all ugly men can get sex....from pretty women...
my friends can't get over the relationships i've had with some of my past girlfriends(some of the girlfriends can't either)and i've been with all types/race/class of women..the key is confidence(not arrogance)and personality..take my word for it.it can go along way.i'm thinking of showing my face in some pics....
 

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Even though this was originally for women, I'll answer.

Yes. Yes I have. I would and will probably do it again. I'm a nasty, nasty whore and that's all there is to it.

LOL!!! (I'm not that nasty...just one nasty is fine.)
 

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the key is confidence(not arrogance)and personality..take my word for it.it can go along way.i'm thinking of showing my face in some pics....

This is very true! :smile: Just as a beautiful woman will catch a man's eye first, a handsome man will catch mine. But if the personality is lacking or he has an arrogant or sleazy attitude, then I am completely turned off.

And we are all beautiful in our own way, dougielongfellow. Put those pictures up! :biggrin1:
 

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Even though this was originally for women, I'll answer.

Yes. Yes I have. I would and will probably do it again. I'm a nasty, nasty whore and that's all there is to it.

LOL!!! (I'm not that nasty...just one nasty is fine.)
You are such a slut! Hmmm, like most men. Damn, I love that!!:tongue:
 

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When I have sex with a really big ugly guy with a great dick, I just put a bag on his head... (just kidding!)

No one ugly has ever asked me out, so I've never had the opportunity to ponder the question in real life. Maybe, from their viewpoint, I was the ugly one -- fear (e.g. fear of rejection) tends to re-color the scenery.
 

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not a body beauty but i can make you pee yourself from laughing and loves to dance the nite away

and THAT can make a man very attractive. well, not the peeing myself part...:eek: but humour and laughter are great rapport builders.
but no, I would never do anything with a guy solely based on his cock size, no matter what he looked like. Like has been said, I too need to be intellectually stimulated, and that is a quality that also makes a man more physically attractive to me.:tongue: