Would You Have Sex With A Married Person?

Would You Have Sex With A Married Person?

  • Yes

    Votes: 150 74.6%
  • No

    Votes: 51 25.4%

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Not! I wouldnt want anyone doing that to me, So I wouldnt want to do it to anyone else.

I agree.

Also, as a man, I feel it necessary to carry myself with dignity and self-respect. Having sex with married people would preclude that.

However, legally separated people (not just living apart) are "available".
 

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The only way I would is in the context of a swingers club/party where I knew it was ok (I have started to get into this a bit, out of curiosity and, well, lack of sex! :biggrin1:), or if he's without any doubt legally separated (this has happened before too although we didn't actually have sex. I was too afraid of getting pregnant at the time - it was before I got "fixed"...)

I might also be in the unfortunate situation of being with someone not knowing that he was married. I hope that doesn't happen, but it sometimes does. One guy did come on to me once and I didn't go for it (something about him turned me off - besides I thought he was too old for me), then later I found out that he was married, and was very glad I didn't!
 

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Not! I wouldnt want anyone doing that to me, So I wouldnt want to do it to anyone else.
I'm with you Naughty. I'm not just shocked but sorry to see how the poll is going on this topic.


I am married and hope that someone would do me!!! :O
Why? What's wrong with your husband? :confused:


If I wasn't hurting anyone.
In my experience that's pretty much impossible.


i have had sex with about 25 or so married women some of the times their husbands would watch.[/quote
] Sorry don't, get the cuckold thing at all.:eek::confused:
[quote=petergroot;1076165]A hard dick ain't got no conscience.(Neither has a wet pussy, regardless of age) They be there, you be there, What's the problem? Lucky guy.(it's not like they are all naive and innocent like? )
Bullshit! I have a conscience.
 

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Met my wife for the first time in 1972, she was in the High Sierras with her boyfriend who she later married. In 1974 she came back to the mountains and we met again, we clicked on every level and made love the next morning. Here is the difference: her husband went back to being a dope fiend and she wanted a divorce. And we were in love.
 

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I'm not sure if straight marriages do, but I think gay "marriages" run the gamut from total mongamy to total openess, and every variety in between. My "husband" and I have been together 27 years and are totally commited to each other's well being and are in love with each other. We have found that it's OK if each of us has an occaisional "dalliance" outside of the marriage bed. No jealousy, just tons of trust.
 

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No. Done that. As far as I'm concerned, go fuck your wife who gets all of your cash. If you want to fuck around, why get fucking married?????

Can't stand married men and their balderdash. They always want to fuck you for free. Too many single guys for that crap.
 

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I was in bed with my (soon) first wife when the bailiff knocked on the door with her divorce papers. I found it rather arousing, I am a little ashamed to admit.

That said, she was married to a dork whom she grasped at when young and confused. Did I feel bad cuckholding him? Hmmm.... Frankly, no. My beloved needed me emotionally, and I actually helped keep her sane, she said.

She was one of teh few women who REALLY turned me on sexually, and we truly loved each other with passion and intimacy. We both needed to feel safe in someone else's arms. It wasn't just sex; yes, it was love. And love is the higher moral purpose we served.
 

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No. Done that. As far as I'm concerned, go fuck your wife who gets all of your cash. If you want to fuck around, why get fucking married?????

Can't stand married men and their balderdash. They always want to fuck you for free. Too many single guys for that crap.

That is my sentiment now. If I wanted to "fuck around", why would I have married my wife? As much as i would love to help my friend IknowKK out as I think she is a sexy woman, I would never, nor could I ever, do that to my wife.

There was a time my morals were below what they are now and I am not proud of it. I know where I stand now and my wife has said it before,"If you sleep with someone else, make sure it's right because you won't come back here."

I know where my bliss lies and it is with my wife and family.
 

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You see, last night cosmic forces aligned two hot MILFS in the seats next to myself and my friend. We got talking to them. Then they went to another pub, they told us which one. We finished our drinks then went there. Then we sat there for a bit across from them. I went over and reintroduced myself.

The culmination was her saying 'You can't be [x age], you're so intelligent etc :biggrin1:. I've got a husband and a son/daughter (I forget) but I'd still fuck you. What's your number?'

I dunno if this was drunken playing about but I did an exaggerated gasp and said 'whoa' and then somehow declined nicely. They left after that. She lives quite far away. Her friend has a daughter who works at the pub we were in last night though so we could...stalk them? lol or just casually bump into them.

My questions however are thus:

1. Would you have sex with a married man/woman?
2. Are there any criteria that need to be met in order for you to do so?
3. Have you already done this (either ONS or an 'affair')? What was it like?

Thanks.

PS the poll is anonymous

Some people get all the luck, don't they?:mad:
 

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My questions however are thus:

1. Would you have sex with a married man/woman?

There are temptations and offers aplenty but I its not in me now.

2. Are there any criteria that need to be met in order for you to do so?

See below.

3. Have you already done this (either ONS or an 'affair')? What was it like?

It was a spur-of-the-moment flash of lust that happened between myself and a co-worker so I'd consider it a ONS carried out over a weekend. I was none the wiser about her intentions until she displayed the unmistakable come-on signals that she desperately wanted some loving. I wouldn't have done it except I knew she was very lonely and unhappy in her marriage (in fact, she had already begun the divorce paperwork).

At age 24 I was game for just about anything but sleeping with a married woman still gave me a bit of pause. But after a few drinks and the right mood, well anything can happen.
 

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No. Done that. As far as I'm concerned, go fuck your wife who gets all of your cash. If you want to fuck around, why get fucking married?????

Can't stand married men and their balderdash. They always want to fuck you for free. Too many single guys for that crap.



I do so completelly agree... what would possibly be in it for me??? cant keep your cake and eat it too.....way too many single freaky sexy white boys out there... lol....
 

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I steer clear of married guys. If someone's married and going to be unfaithful their marriage is probably on the rocks and if I'm not the one they're being unfaithful with they probably will be unfaithful with someone else, but I don't want to be the one to put the final nail in the coffin lid of their marriage.
 

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Had an affair with a girl who was engaged... needless to say it all ended in tears. I would now never knowingly have sex with a woman in a relationship, I mean what's the point, there are plenty of single women out there! That's why I like sites like this one you can have a bit of fun with people on-line, but no one gets hurt.
 

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I never make first moves. Does this make me innocent? Well, I feel it does, if the status wasn't divulged to me previously. The most extreme case of this was someone that I THOUGHT I knew well, slipped "afterwards" and said, "Man, I really needed this."
I asked, "Why's that?"
"Well, you know... The wife's so hormonal with this pregnancy, I never know WHAT mood she's gonna be in, and we're never in synch. So, it's been forever."
This being the first I'd heard of any spouse, tried to remain very casual, when I said, "Wow. Pregnant?"
"Oh, um, yeah. Can you believe it? Our third." :eek:

On the other extreme, there's a couple, where I'm friends with both him and her, and accordingly, knew how sexless they were. After a long series of events, over several months, it finally culminated with him saying, "So, uh, well, I know you've tried messing around with guys a few times..."
"OK, yeah, you know I have. What's the question?"
"No, um, I mean... How'd that work? Like, how'd you know it was OK to try something?"
I ended up "helping" him out a little bit that night, nothing too involved, and the next morning had breakfast with HER, as though nothing happened (the advantage/disadvantage of growing up in a very compartmentalized childhood, I guess).