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Simple question in the title: Would you have sex with a sexual sadist? Or could you be in a relationship with a sadist?
It’s nice seeing the nuance in your responses @Tattooed Goddess & @Fade. Most people hear sadist and think of Ramsey Bolton (@420Canadian lol I had to use that) although that’s not the case. TG stated it well: All sadists are not psychopaths or sociopaths & Vice versa.
I know many people who are into BDSM yet do not believe the “S & M” portion of that lifestyle or kink. I see both as kinks a person may or may not have. My decision is simply “Does this person’s kink work for me? Do I like it or can I deal with it?”
Fascinating information in this thread though.
Yep that checks out.Ramsay Bolton would be classified as a sadistic psychopath with serial killing tendencies and performed gross and brutal acts if mutilation. Those folks do exist. But they are extremely rare. Extremely.
No and no.Simple question in the title: Would you have sex with a sexual sadist? Or could you be in a relationship with a sadist?
I have a touch of sadism within my personality. I enjoy inflicting pain. That enjoyment is within the boundaries discussed and consented to, though. Pushing boundaries occasionally within what has been consented to as well. So long as in this hypothetical, the person in the scenarios you ask about is as well behaved as I am? No issue.
I have a blood kink. I wouldn't go so far as to say it's a fetish, but the mental image of fresh blood dripping down someone's skin makes my clit twitchy. The things that arouse me along those lines aren't something that many people would likely consent to. It stays inside my mind, and will remain there until such an occasion where someone who would enjoy it and consent to it might arise (along with my being single or informed + consensual non-monogamy).
I genuinely do feel the hunger and sharp kiss of both sides of sadism and masochism. I am a well behaved ravenous beast. The right kinds of pain (as opposed to the pain from some of my health issues) satiates me like nothing else will. I have a vanilla partner. I don't think he will ever truly understand how BDSM completes me. He tries, but it isn't the same as someone having that same inner wickedness in some way that I do.
This thread is really my jam.
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Yes! The level of communication, intimacy & understanding needed for safe, sane, consensual play is mind blowing.