and how many of you would keep it private and how many would tell a close friend?
confuse me what do you mean?
I think any straight guy who already has anal sex with women is just a hair's breadth away from doing a trans-sexed man.
man to woman and woman to man, so both genders can comment.
I don't get the question but I only have sex with woman.
If he identified as straight (like Chaz Bono), then I wouldn't be interested because he wouldn't be interested in me. But if it were someone like Buck Angel, then yeah: sure!