Would you have sex with an attached woman?

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It's odd the conflicting feelings I have about this matter...

On one hand, my ethical side speaks up and says it's not okay at all.

...but the primal side of me knows that I love looking up amateur porn where a big dicked guy records himself fucking a married woman who is used to going without, and watching the woman turn into an unabashed slut for his big dick, doing things for him she'd never do for her husband. Mmmmmm.
 

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Suppose you meet a woman, online or in real life, who wants to have no-strings-attached sex with you. She tells you that she's in a long-term relationship, but she's sexually unfulfilled.

Would you do it (assuming you find her very attractive), or would this violate your principles?

I did and it cost a marriage and a lifelong friendship. Will not make that mistake a second time.
 
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I have. After the second one, I decided not to do it anymore because I didn't want to be that guy, even if no one but the woman and I knew what had been going on.
 
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Suppose you meet a woman, online or in real life, who wants to have no-strings-attached sex with you. She tells you that she's in a long-term relationship, but she's sexually unfulfilled.

Would you do it (assuming you find her very attractive), or would this violate your principles?
In general, no I wouldn't do it. A past girlfriend cheated on me and it was devastating.

However, if I were single, and a woman in an open relationship wanted some no-strings sex, I would be open to it.
But it would have to be very clear that there is no deception involved. So a swing club, or hot wife situation where the other guy is fully aware, and fully expects the woman in his life to fuck other guys.
 
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Under the conditions as outlined, yes I would. Because it would make her happy, and it would be for her, and on her initiative.

I'd never try to seduce someone like that though.
I wouldn't want to be responsible for her eventual regret.
 

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Suppose you meet a woman, online or in real life, who wants to have no-strings-attached sex with you. She tells you that she's in a long-term relationship, but she's sexually unfulfilled.

Would you do it (assuming you find her very attractive), or would this violate your principles?
If it was agreed upon by both of them then I might. But I would never willingly help a woman cheat on her husband