would you let your gay friend blow your boyfriend/husband?

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  1. Penis Aficionado

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    Suppose you have a really close gay friend who thinks your man is totally hot. Your gay friend would never try to seduce your man behind your back, turn him gay or in any way harm your relationship -- he just fantasizes about sucking your man's penis.

    If your man was willing to find out what a male mouth on his dick feels like, would you allow it?
     
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    If I could watch. :smile:
     
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    been there, done that
     
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    Nope.
    If I love him, I never share;)
     
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    Ditto.
     
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    THIS.
     
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    He probably already has :wink:

    But I think it's interesting that you would go to the woman to ask rather than to the man.
     
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    The point, Drifter, is that it is a friend who doesn't want to go behind your back.

    EDIT: Besides, the OP doesn't say anything about the gay man asking permission - or asking the woman and not the man. Just that the woman knows her gay friend wants it and would she be OK with it.

    And to answer the question, no.
     
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    No. Only because of what could potentially happen afterwards. I'm sure if my gay friend is close enough to ask to blow him, we talk intimately . I couldn't stand to lose a best friend and a mate, its a risk I'm not willing to take. But we can definitely find a stranger to do it. Long as I'm watching
     
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    Nope. I know he's let it happen before, but not on my watch. I don't share my things nicely, and my gay friends respect me too much to even suggest such a thing.
     
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    Now that I've thought about it more, I'm going to revise my answer and say, it's not very likely.

    Two bisexual friends have suggested such things, wanting me to share him. One is an old friend of mine who became TheBoyfriend's good friend, too, and my friend developed a deep crush on him, which he was very open with me about. I would not let such a thing happen because I think his heart would have gotten broken. He is a very sweet and sensitive guy and he adored TheBF just a little too much for his heart to remain uninvolved if they became physical.

    The other friend who asked me to share TheBF is a very old friend of TheBF's, from either high school or college, I can't remember which. I told him I would think about it and I never got back to him. Since then he's made jokes, like recently when he made one about how I won't "share" but it hasn't actually come up again. I don't know what is in his heart, but now that I think about it, I don't think it's a good idea.

    In both those cases, it seemed like the men who were compelled to bring it up to me might have had a lot more at stake than just a desire to give a blowjob, and I wouldn't want any friendships to end with broken hearts.

    However, the idea is still sexy to me, even though the reality is too complicated.
     
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    *gasps*
    *exhales*
     
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    Chicken :tongue:

    I was so ready to buy a plane ticket down there.

    :bukkake2:
     
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    :lmao:

    You are so persistent! :tongue:
     
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    I think this is extremely interesting, because it's almost always a headache to introduce sex into an existing friendship, even if its your partner you're introducing sexually if you see what I mean.

    Sure lots of friendships can start out as sexual in nature and then become platonic, but in this case that's unlikely, and besides there's a third party, the BF in question who's actually more directly involved in some ways.

    If the situation were reversed and my straight female friend wanted to blow my BF and he had expressed an interest in experimenting with women I'd absolutely say no. However if he met a total stranger, female straight etc, I would be willing to let him experiment with her.

    You run the risk of that kind of thing undermining your relationship if your partner decides there's more to it than a little harmless experimentation but as someone who's always been a bit of a risk taker and having had open relationships in the past or relationships with guys where we would have group sex with other guys sometimes I don't have a problem with that risk.
     
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    This thread and its posts have made me smile...and I'm not sure why. :cool:
     
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    Get your own damn sammich!! :tongue::wink:
     
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    Ok...ok, that's half the reason. :tongue:
     
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    Can't fault a guy for trying. :kiss:


    You have painted such an amazing picture of you and the BF if they are even half true it would have to be a dream weekend
     
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    Well I think he's absolutely wonderful, but I'm in love and possibly a little bit biased. :tongue:
     
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