would you let your gay friend blow your boyfriend/husband?

[Penis Aficionado]

Looking over the responses here, I'm surprised that people's opinions seem to have little to do with heterosexuality/homosexuality/bisexuality (no one has said, I would not allow it because it would freak me out to see my boyfriend getting sexual with another man, and it might change the way I think about him).

Instead, it comes down to views on sexual experimentation in relationships. For some people, like yeah69, sexuality is a powerful and uncontrollable force that, if unleashed, could cause all kinds of unknown but dire consequences for the relationship. Others, like Diamond and Petite, see it as simply another option in life -- something to consider, discuss and, if both agree it sounds fun, pursue. They seem to view their relationships as stronger than the mysterious force of unrestrained sexuality.

I'm temtped to say the latter group have more solid relationships, but perhaps they're just different, and it has to do with how individuals were rasied and their attitudes about sex.

As the gay friend in the scenario, I know that when I talked with my friend about blowing her boyfriend, we both considered it just something fun to think about, and she joked with her boyfriend about it in the same way. If any one of us found the mere suggestion offensive, the other two would have dropped the subject immediately and forever.

I am glad it never happened for one reason ... although I'm sure it wouldn't have hurt their relationship, if the boyfriend came to see me as primarily "that guy who can't get enough of his cock," it might make simple things like all of us meeting for a cup of coffee, or going bowling, or whatever -- kind of awkward. My relationship with my female friend would have been fine, but it might have made doing things as a group more difficult, and I would have regretted that.

 

[B_Yeah69]

... says a man who put a picture of his penis on the internet.

I put it there to show my real male identity and the for sole fact I'm not here to B.S. anyone. I opt for the preference to be a verified photo I.D. member of this site. I do not associate with non verified members who do not want to show a verification photo of themselves.

 

[D_Philodendra Pastieswirls]

Sure. Why not?

 

[Penis Aficionado]

Sure. Why not?

Thanks for playing, misscaroline! Welcome to the site, btw. You have a lovely snarl.

 

[hud01]

I put it there to show my real male identity and the for sole fact I'm not here to B.S. anyone. I opt for the preference to be a verified photo I.D. member of this site. I do not associate with non verified members who do not want to show a verification photo of themselves.

and you get points for originality

 

[hud01]

Sure. Why not?

Two, three if you count miss P, hot women say yes.. That is enough for me :biggrin1:

 

[Chantillylace]

I may be the goose in the duck's flock but I'd rather my gay friend than another woman. I'm nit inclined to share, but I would share in this scenario... Weird?

 

[apex1972]

I may be the goose in the duck's flock but I'd rather my gay friend than another woman. I'm nit inclined to share, but I would share in this scenario... Weird?

no you arent weird girl. hell i would gladly let yor gay friend blow me if it meant i was havin fun with you

 

[Penis Aficionado]

I may be the goose in the duck's flock

I think that means you get all the best hunks of bread!

Or for our purposes, maybe all the big penises.

 

[nakedwally]

I am going to add my 2 cents worth. This is a true story based on personal experience. Several years back I met a nice couple at a city park and we started talking and exchanged numbers, we became very good friends went out to eat went to each others houses met each others friends. The husband was very good looking and very sweet and nice to me and so was the wife, the wife sensed that I was attracted to the husband, and she came up with a solution of sorts, I ended up not only blowing him but sleeping with him as well, on a couple of occasions, the results were disastrous and the wife became extremely jealous and the friendship of almost 2 years went completely down hill. The husband blamed me for all this even though it was partly his idea as well. After a while I just stopped talking to them all together and even had to change my number because they were constantly making harassing calls to me. So I honestly would not recommend it if there is friendship involved.

 

[haulthat]

I'm gay and I wouldn't let one of my gay friends suck my mans dick. Also wouldn't let one of my female friends do it, even though he wouldn't like that at all lol. Bottom line is our relationship isn't open at all. I do wonder about the couples that are only ok with their significant other having sex or doing anything sexual if its with the same sex like it makes it cool. I sort of understand how some straight men are cool with their wives doing lesbian stuff because they can fantasize about it and at heart their whores. Most men are whores at heart, even if their brain keeps it in check. But overall... ya this is a big no.

Suppose you have a really close gay friend who thinks your man is totally hot. Your gay friend would never try to seduce your man behind your back, turn him gay or in any way harm your relationship -- he just fantasizes about sucking your man's penis.

If your man was willing to find out what a male mouth on his dick feels like, would you allow it?

 

[haulthat]

That sucks hardcore, but I appreciate your honesty. This is the kinda shit I am scared of. Sorry it didn't turn out well in the end for you.

I am going to add my 2 cents worth. This is a true story based on personal experience. Several years back I met a nice couple at a city park and we started talking and exchanged numbers, we became very good friends went out to eat went to each others houses met each others friends. The husband was very good looking and very sweet and nice to me and so was the wife, the wife sensed that I was attracted to the husband, and she came up with a solution of sorts, I ended up not only blowing him but sleeping with him as well, on a couple of occasions, the results were disastrous and the wife became extremely jealous and the friendship of almost 2 years went completely down hill. The husband blamed me for all this even though it was partly his idea as well. After a while I just stopped talking to them all together and even had to change my number because they were constantly making harassing calls to me. So I honestly would not recommend it if there is friendship involved.