Would you marry a bisexual guy?

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Two of my ex-boyfriends were bisexual. I knew when I met them. I would not have any issue with it because I do not believe that being attracted to both sexes means that a person is less capable of fidelity.
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I can only hope I find one :) I Love bisexual men. LOVE them. Also, I'd be more than happy to be in a sexually open relationship. Polyamory, not so much... but sex? Let's do it... so, bisexuality would definitely not be a negative thing for me, personally.

If all women were like you, the world would be a much better place. : )
 

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My initial instinct when I read the question was a positive... "wouldn't matter to me" I still feel that way. though I am married to a totally straight guy (not homophobe but not attracted to men at all.) But it would be fine with me if he were.

I agree with petite... and also experimenting (or sexperimenting) might be even more fun..
 

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I attracted my first bi guy (well admittedly bi anyway) recently and it was simply for sexual related stuff. I don't know how I'd feel if it were someone I was dating seriously. We have to click on an intellectual and physical level and share all the same philosophies on the major things in life to hit it off for marriage regardless. Because I have only seriously dated a couple of people to the point of marriage consideration. I tend to attract mostly straight men for some reason. Not entirely sure why. But I'm glad my husband excepted my bisexuality right off the bat when he walked in on me with a woman before we started seriously dating. He wasn't bothered one bit. It takes all kinds!
 
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I will go out on a limb here. There are varying degrees of bi-sexuality, there is the full on kind and everything from there to straight. Do I consider myself bi? Is a grey area, for mucho, (macho) reasonaro :). Yes it's a womans area question, but hey, bi concerns all does it not?
 
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I certainly would not have an issue if my husband were attracted to males or had a prior
relationship with a male.
That would not have been a deterrent to marry him.
I find M/M very erotic.. but that's just me. I would be very put off with someone who lies, cheats & disrespects .. THAT would have been a deal breaker.
 

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No woman can compete with a man....against other women, yes....they have vaginas.


According to your logical reasoning women are no better than their vaginas.

And by your logic, then straight people wouldn't cheat because parts for parts wouldn't be the reason right? If simply having a vagina means that a 100% straight man wouldn't cheat on her, then why do they? This quoted statement then fails to make logical sense beyond a disturbingly superficial and highly emotionally-driven level.

I would think that most well-adjusted normal people value another person's sum totality of existence as being far greater than any individual physical characteristic they may, or specifically in this case, may not have.

Not sure if you're aware of this, but your statements have the sentiment that you feel that men who are not 100% straight (according to your logic) are not suitable, nor have any right to marry in the traditional sense. Let's hope that you're not that persuasion of thought.
 
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I'm not sure if i would marry any guy, but I find the idea of dating a bisexual man very appealing. Oddly enough, I am fairly turned off by the idea of being with bisexual women (although technically that is where I fall on the spectrum of sexuality).
 

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My ex says that she'd prefer a bisexual husband, as long as he agreed to bring 90% of them home to share. Kind of like a "threesome guarantee" insurance policy for their futures. It's a win win situation. He knows he'll get to have cock without endangering the marriage and she knows she'll get two cocks at once on a regular basis. Again without endangering the marriage. They both can look forward to the exhilaration of that "thrill of the hunt" feeling we experience only with a new partner or in pursuit of new partner. So I guess for some women a bisexual man is their first choice when looking for a husband. Food for thought!
 
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Well I have told my wife that im bisexual… I don’t think im gay… I don’t feel comfortable in my mind about have a boyfriend lol anyway I told her and she went mad anger and emotional asking why when and who with later asking what have I done with a guy and do I prefer sex with a guy than her. She asked if I’m gay how long have I been bi, why do I find men attractive…. Is it just sex…… it was weird telling her but I bottled out saying I have a kind of boyfriend tho… I told her that’s it I can’t help that I find men sexually attractive I don’t mean all men it’s I assume like how a woman feels I guess when she fancies a guy.. …
 

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I am not, of course, a woman so perhaps it's not appropriate that I contibute, but here I go anyway!

It's difficult to answer definitively without knowing the particular woman concerned. However, if we speak entirely in generalities, I do think that the analogy that some posters have drawn between the potential for a 100% straight guy cheating and that of a bi guy cheating is imperfect. The analogy is intended to demonstrate that there is an equal potential in each case, therefore there should be no complications which marying a bi guy would present for a woman in addition to those presented by marrying a straight guy.

The reason the analogy is imperfect, and that additional complications do in fact exist, is, to my mind, this: all else being equal, if we posit an unfaithful straight man, the object of his infidelity consists in seeking from a party outside the marriage what his wife (being female) can already provide him; in contrast, the infidelity of an unfaithful bi husband is of a different character, since he seeks from a party outside the marriage what his wife (not being male) cannot provide him.

The clarification I offer is not meant to suggest anything as ludicrous as the proposition that bi men are incapable of fidelity; rather, what it shows, if it is correct, is that if the potential for infidelity exists, its materialisation poses questions of significance to the marriage which are not posed in the case of an unfaithful straight husband.

The most significant question from the wife's or potential wife's perspective is, I think, something like this: if my husband or suitor is bi, am I able to offer him in mutual love all that a wife has the power to offer as the husband's "other half", or will I always be inadequate to some extent, so that the depth and intensity of our bond become correspondingly diminished? Is there always going to be some territory of my husband's soul which remains by me unexplored, unexplorable and hence unknowable (in the carnal sense of that word)?

That is a question which is not raised in the case of a straight man simply in virtue of his sexuality as such.

But, to clarify further, in the case of a bi man, the question is only posed; nothing generally dictates how the question is to be answered. An answer will depend on all sorts of considerations, and especially on the natures and personalities of the particular individual partners themselves.

There is the single concept and institution of "marriage"; but there are many kinds of particular exemplifications of it. If you love each other, do not be afraid to establish and mould your own little principality with its own constitution and habits and mores, even as it is connected to and participates in that kingdom of marriage which makes of two separate individuals a unified bond.
 
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I find the whole topic fascinating, especially since I am bi and was married. My wife knew before I married her that I was bi. I have a couple of female friends who find the thought of male/male and female/female absolutely disgusting. I am not disgusted by any variation however, female/female does nothing for me sexually. So, having conversations with them is extremely difficult at times. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I find them a little closed minded, and boring to me at times. One of those female friends said one day she would do JLO if she had the opportunity. I wondered how this could be, since she has said she clearly has no interest in women. OK. I'm not buying that one. lol.
 

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From my experience the concerns women have is that there will always be something missing, as eloquently stated above my Patro78.

It works well however when the bi aspect of a guys desire is purely sexual rather than emotional, (so no emotional threat) and the wife is open minded to enjoy this aspect and join in the fun.
 

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in my experience women are very selfish and so if you pay attention to another person(man or woman) they dont like it. Thats on average, not necessarily the 5 girls at this site.
 

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There are more than 5 of us DJ. I'm not very good at math... but basic things like counting aren't a big challenge. :tongue:

Some men are rather selfish as well in my experience. I don't assume that the majority are. I think it's safe to say that both genders are sometimes guilty of being selfish/possessive about their partners.