Would you marry a pornstar?

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Would you marry a pornstar? How about an former one?

I am not sure a could deal with someone that made their living fucking but if they used to do it but have moved on I'd have no problem with it.
 

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Depends on who it was.I have known some porn stars and they left there work at work.Some have said since the have sex on film others expect them to do it in private.When really they want to have normal lives or as normal as they can be.
 

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Depends on who it was.I have known some porn stars and they left there work at work.Some have said since the have sex on film others expect them to do it in private.When really they want to have normal lives or as normal as they can be.


I thinks that's in part why I couldn't marry someone still in the business. I'd feel I was being gyped by them not wanting to do things with me that they would do on screen.
 

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Been there, done that, the lifestile took my wife further into a world of drug addiction, maybe thats not always the case, so i don`t want to offend anyone as i know there are really nice people in the business, very reputable people but those aren`t the ones she found, she got in with the wrong people who were giving her tons of drugs, which in the long run caused an untimely death.


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Would you marry a pornstar? How about a former one?
I am not sure a could deal with someone that made their living fucking but if they used to do it but have moved on I'd have no problem with it.


Past or present wouldn't matter. I would have to say no, I could not marry a pornstar.
 

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I think my answer might surprise some , but no I probably wouldn't.

I think in life one has to have balance to mentally attractive. Body, mind , soul type thing.

To absorb your life within the sex industry is destructive to almost all who enter and stay at it. The sex industy can be a soul destorying place to be. I think most people who leave, have a hung over from it too. It is hard to put suff like that behind you and lead a pedestrian life.

I think that anyone who drenches their life with one aspect ( work, drugs,sex,computers etc) becomes boring and unfocused, and most sex workers seem to become addicted to the thrill or the drugs.

My hubby and I swing, but we also have a great happy family life, good businesses, and some pretty cool hobbies.

Sex for us is fun and important, but not the sole focus of life. It is not a judgement call on the type of work, more that I think it is a destructive way of life for many.

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I honestly don't know. There is a part of me that feels I have no right to judge, as I enjoy watching them and they have the right to do what they want with their bodies, and some of them seem very fun and nice in interviews. On the flip side, I have a thing about someone who shares their favors so easily, as if it's no longer that special because so many have had a piece.

I guess it would depend on the dynamics in the relationship.
 

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nope. i have read the autobiographies of both jenna jameson and ron jeremy, and both described the pitfalls of trying to date while being pornstars themselves. it makes partners jealous because when you are in a relationship, something so intimate is sacred and in a way their "partner's property." so i think as far as marrying or even dating a porn star goes, i would have to say a big no. i couldn't handle the thought of having my girl get scrwed by big cocks every day and then having the world (and sleazy old men) be able to watch it for forever.
 

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Dated two porn stars in my life. Drugs, DRUGS, and more DRUGS. One went into rehab and last I heard is doing well leading a normal life. The other died of a physical illness unrelated to drugs.
I did ok in the relationship until I saw a movie he was in....flipped me out!! Sadly I broke it off shortly afterwards. Sex was good but not mind blowing.
 

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If you mean a star that does a lot of movies, I would say no. If she only did a few movies and wasn't a "star", then maybe. I would definitely be biased by what I think they must be like to get into porn in the first place. I would try to be open minded if I did end up meeting a pornstar.
 

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I dated a stripper. That was difficult enough. No to a porn star for me.


I honestly don't know. There is a part of me that feels I have no right to judge, as I enjoy watching them and they have the right to do what they want with their bodies, and some of them seem very fun and nice in interviews. On the flip side, I have a thing about someone who shares their favors so easily, as if it's no longer that special because so many have had a piece.

I guess it would depend on the dynamics in the relationship.

Your statement reminded of a line Spike Lee delivers as Mars Blackmon in She's Gotta Have It...

"Everybody wants a freak, they just don't want to bring her home to mama."
 

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Been there, done that, the lifestile took my wife further into a world of drug addiction, maybe thats not always the case, so i don`t want to offend anyone as i know there are really nice people in the business, very reputable people but those aren`t the ones she found, she got in with the wrong people who were giving her tons of drugs, which in the long run caused an untimely death.


lafever

I am really sorry to hear about your wife...
 

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Your statement reminded of a line Spike Lee delivers as Mars Blackmon in She's Gotta Have It...

"Everybody wants a freak, they just don't want to bring her home to mama."


I've never seen the movie, but I think the statement is a pretty accurate one. :smile: